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What does morning sickness feel like? Is it actually a stomach ache or what?
Or does the throat feel constantly gaggy...
I know, strange question.
But thanks to anyone who answers (link)
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You get nausea (any time of day or night).
You may or may not actually throw up.
It goes away shortly after you throw up.
It may or may not come back anytime during
the day. :)
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So for example.. im on yaz.. and when im taking the four white pills.. ( even if i dont take them cause they're just reminder pills ) im still protected? Ive been on yaz for over 5 months.. (link)
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You are still protected. As long as you take
your regular pills everyday as directed, you
can have sex any time at all without fear of
pregnancy. Nothing is 100% but you're as close
as you can get! :)
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Last Labor Day, we allowed our 11-year-old son “Brian” to spend the long weekend at the fishing cabin of his best friend Logan; we had our doubts about this, since Logan's mom was alwys kind of a flakey neighbor, but Logan’s family was then moving out-of-state, so this was the last chance the boys would have to spend time together. Brian had a wonderful time. Flash forward six months: I receive a belated holiday letter from Logan’s mom, explaining that she was finally getting organized after their move, and was enclosing a disc of photos taken during Brian’s weekend at the cabin. Most of the pictures are innocuous: the kids climbing trees, toasting marshmallows around the campfire, etc. But there are also a dozen photos of Brian and Logan completely naked, playing in the river and on the beach. These pictures leave nothing to the imagination--you can tell who is circumcised and who is not in every shot. Logan’s younger sister is in a couple of the photos as well.
When we asked Brian, he acknowledged that the kids went skinny dipping whenever they went to the river, and said that Logan’s mother had an album which had lots of naked photos of Logan, and so it all seemed okay at the time. We had no idea when we allowed Brian to go that Logan’s mother would be photographing him in the buff. I am furious with this woman, and I want these pictures deleted before they wind up on the internet, but I don’t know what to do. Our lawyer says that in our state such photos are not illegal if they are not sexual in nature, and the best she could do is write to Logan‘s mother and ask her to erase any photos of Brian. My husband says we shouldn't antoganize her, since there is no way we could know if she actually erased the pictures, and we should just chalk it up to experience. We also don’t know what to do with the disc: Brian wants it himself, and says the disc was of his trip, and was sent to him (the envelope was addressed to me). I’m afraid if he keeps it, his sister may get hold of it and show the pictures at school, as she has been teasing him she will do. Any ideas on what to do?
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I know this won't help much, but, if she
had bad intentions I'm, sure she wouldn't
have sent you the disc with those pictures
on it. I would be upset too, don't get me
wrong, but some people don't find nudity
and skinny dipping a big deal.
Your lawyer says there is nothing legally
that can be done. They were obviously not
up to anything bad. Just kids having fun.
The younger sister probably didn't think
a thing of it having seen her brother
before.
The only one to worry about is your daughter
teasing him and possibly taking the pictures
school. Please do not allow him to be teased
about something he didn't feel was wrong. I
think your daughter is picking up on your
angst about the whole thing and making it a
big deal. She should have been kept clear
out of the discussion about the photos and
probably shouldn't have been allowed to see
them either given your feelings about the
whole thing.
Download the pictures onto your computer.
Delete those you don't want your son to have.
Put the others on a disc for him and let
it drop. Since the lawyer said there is
nothing to be done about it, don't make your
son feel guilty or allow your daughter to
tease him. For him it was a good time with
his friend that you re turning into a
nightmare.
Please understand that I think you are
right in being upset. I would be. But
since there is nothing that can be done,
don't make your son feel ashamed about it.
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Is there anything wrong with NOT shaving down there? I know it's just a doctor and they've seen it all, but is there like a "rule" as to what you do? (link)
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There is no rule. The reality is that you
are supposed to have hair there. Shaving
is not required at all. I think the majority
of women really don't want to have the itching,
or the hassle of shaving. Nor do they want
to look like a 10 year old. Doctors don't
care either way. :)
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Say someone confessed to another person that they accidently killed someone 7 years ago and then covered it up so it looked accidental. Is there a way in the court of law that could prove the crime? without actual proof, just confession to one person? (link)
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If a body is found or they have a good
reason to exhume an already buried body
they could. With the tests they have today
they have have solved many really old
crimes by looking at the corpse.
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Can you get pregnant while having sex during your period? I didnt have sex during mine, but im on yaz and im supposed to be getting my period today, but it hasnt come yet? But that has nothing to do with it. (link)
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Any time you have sex the possibility
of pregnancy exists.
However, if you are taking birth control,
pills, you are protected at ALL times. Even
the days you are not taking the active pills.
So it is very possible that you are just
having a late period. You may even skip
a month now and then. If you get other
symptoms of course take a home test or
see your doctor. :)
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Can baby oil help me get a tan if I lay out in the sun.?See Im really white.!Ive tried everythingg.!I get in the tanning bed every day for an hour and im still white as everr.!Ive started laying out in the sun every day and I havent seen so much as a sun burnn.Ive used every kind of tanning lotion and oil there is 2 usee.!I need helpp.?and a friend told me 2 use baby oil and that would get me darkk.!DOES IT REALLY WORKK.? (link)
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Using baby oil will get you really burnt.
Never use baby oil when you tan. Not only
will this cause you to burn more easily, but ultraviolet rays will also become focused and magnified on your skin, increasing the chance
of skin cancer. Skin cancer isn't just for
the older crowd. You can get it at any age.
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my friend is talking to this guy, and he is considered kinky, but she is the ultimate good girl, she get on to you for cussing, doesnt mess around with guys etc. so this guy likes her alot, and she doesnt like him as much, but she likes him. im afraid they are going to go out, and she is going to get into ANOTHER bad relationship where the guy pressures her into doing things she doesnt want to do. i've already told her that i dont like that kid, and why.
what should i do to keep from seeing my friend get hurt again?!
im a f/16 (link)
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You can't really tell your friends who
to date. As said before me, you can tell
her what you think about it, but thats
about all you can do. Don't go on about
it to much though because you could make
her mad. People don't like being told
who they can be friends with.
You must also remember that just because
this boy is considered kinky, it doesn't
mean he really is. Rumors have a way of
getting started in schools that are all
wrong.
So, you really can't do a lot to keep
your friend from being hurt by a guy.
Just be a friend and be there for her
in good times and bad times. :)
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It happens a few times but this time it made me sad. . . .
okk this is what happened:
we went to this dance right and i have these 3 friends i mostly hang out with and i admire them as my sisters but we aren't blood related though. . . yeahh.
My three friends were dancing but then more friends came and i was backed off and they did nothing. . . i was alone
this happened a few times i felt like i was nothing to them.
when it was over we hang out in front of the school and wait a while until we decided to go home
As usual they formed their own circle thingy
and i was out of it
one time my eldest friend
our class was skating
i told her i was going to go skate fast and yeah but then i came back to her and skated with her
while i was skating fast she was with lets call her A.
Friend A said to her to go skate with me because she was tired but then my friend said that i wasn't like a talkative person like talk about stuff
i was hurt.
I am sometimes talk alot one day and not the other day.
When I heard her say that I ignored it.
Sometimes they talk about stuff I don't even know of and talk behind my back
What do they think I am to them?
What should I do?
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If they don't include you and act like
friends would, then they aren't your
friends. Not true friends anyway. It
sounds like they just tolerate you being
around. Find some new friends. :)
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Does anyone know the phone number for the psycho ward? please don't ask questions, hehe.
I'd be much obliged :) (link)
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Look in your local phone book under
mental health. You can also go to
the nearest emergency room for help.
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yes, well he was also stating that if we went without talking from mid feb when we stopped being friends up till my birthday which is march 30th, then thats good. or if we went from mid feb all the way till now then thats even better. i think i would have been able to do it, except this friendship means a lot to me. and back 2 years ago..i made the same mistake with someone else and we ended the friendship mid winter recess which is when we ended ours..and i got scared..because for the rest of 10th grade..i didnt speak to him till he apologized in july.. im just scared to have the same thing where i dont talk to him till after my senior year is done with. and thats why i fought for it all..and yep. =[
the first time around i made a calender and crossed all the days off where i didnt speak to him first..and at times i went 4-5 days without speaking..and i put the calender on my door as a reminder of our friendship and the longer i go without talking the better. except he took me back after i told him how one of my best friends of 5 years said something really racist about him, since shes racist and he's black. and i stood up for him and my family since my niece is bi-racial. and i left him speechless, and hes like "all i asked for was a 10 and you gave me a 1000000000" and since then we became friends till we ended it 2 weeks ago. yep
but it seems like he wants to be friends, i just have to give it time again. ill keep myself busy this week..and then next week..well it wont be THAT bad. then hopefully within 3-4 weeks from now..we can be friends. heh =] -_- (link)
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Excellent. I hope it all works out for
you.
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summers coming up and I really want to lose weight for the bathing suit season...i would like to lose like 15 to 20 pounds in 6 weeks my mom told me the 1200 calorie diet but I was wondering is there anything else>>>thanks so much (link)
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Here are 3 searches with lots of helpful
sites. Make sure whatever you do for
exercise is fun to do and you won't
dread it as much. Putting some tunes
on and dancing like crazy is a really
good one.
As far as eating goes, don't skip meals.
If it has a lot of fat or sugar take it
easy. I won't say never have any because
you will just want it more. If you eat
something like that just kick up the
exercise.
Don't make it a habit, but if you cheat
don't just tell yourself its no use and
give up. :)
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i need some songs that are like... kinda sad but they make you think.. ya know?
like the song I Miss You by blink182
or a song the has to do with like
a girl that likes a guy and the guy likes her back but he has a girlfriend and he loves her.
i know, really specific =/
music that suits my mood helps me go to sleep and well-
i really cant sleep tonight... =/ (link)
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Here are some sites chock full of sad
songs. There are thousands so I will
give you the search so you can look
them over. :)
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Ok this is weird.... I've had a lil history of liking someone, and later on something happens and things become awkward or something, and I end up not liking them anymore. btw, I'm 13/f. Well when I was in elementary school, I had a crush on this dude. When he finally kinda liked me I guess, he didn't literally say it, but he said "I love you." and I was like wow wtf. So then I felt uncomfortable, and weird, and I didn't like him anymore. Even though before, I liked him a lot. Currently, I have a crush on someone. (I think) I've said things like "I love you ______" in a buddy sorta way. I would hug him, but I always hug my friends. Then today, the guy I have a crush on started acting a lil more affectionate (it was kind of in a joking/buddy way) and it just became awkward for me. I felt uncomfortable. I still do right now. I keep thinking about it and it's just so weird. Like I always imagine him doing nice things for me and things that couples would do. I even see people at school who are like that, but they're serious about their relationships. I don't think they're nervous at all. This confuses me. How can I like someone, but then when they finally like me back I decide not to like them anymore? Then things are awkward. He's still my buddy and all, I dunno about my feelings right now. It just confuses me and I wish it wouldn't happen. Shouldn't it be a good thing that the person you like likes you back? (I don't actually know if he likes me back...) I'm so confused. xD any info or advice is greatly appreciated! (I hope everything made sense. Right now it's weird for me having to explain and describe everything I'm feeling. D:) (link)
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Don't worry about liking someone one minute
and then being unsure of those feelings the
next. You're 13 and have a lot of hormonal
things happening to you right now. You're
a bit young for anything to serious.
As for feeling uncomfortable, thats pretty
normal too. It will all change soon. Its
just part of the process of growing up.
Nothing at all to worry about. :)
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yeah i know, he always notices when im missing, that it makes me feel special that he actually notices..i mean others do to, but he always makes sures to ask where i was. and at time he'd got mad last year that was always out..he was almost like obsessed with me. hahah =]
but yesterday i kept asking about my birthday present that he was suppose to get..and im like i know your not answering but please just answer..
so right when i gave up at like 11:30PM he finally answered..saying that he wasnt talking to me, or answering anything i had to say..and wanted to make sure i knew that..and im like yeah i stated that.. but we got into this conversation on what we wanted, and his wants and my wants. and he knows he cant get no secrets, no lies and no hurting him..and i realized that..he was just waiting for me to realize that i finally realized thats why we cant be friends..anyways..he told me he didnt exactly give up...or he would have took me off his buddy list and blocked people off his buddy list..so he admitted though he said he gave up he really didnt..but i told him as of last night i gave up and i was going to wait till he came around..then he admitted how he didnt exactly give up..and then he told me how he hates to see me in the hall and have to ignore me
he said " want a friendship where it's not a lot fo bein serious jokin hangin maybe we hang every weekend maybe we hang never but always see we will but we see each other ins chool where we dont need to hang a friendship where no1 gets hurt and we dont have to worry about always bein serious that would be a good friendship"
which is exactly what i want :-X
and he said "and i really really really wanted to be like that again cuz i dont wanna walk down the hall and see u and then ignore u"
the only thing is june 12th is the last day of school...and were on spring break then we get a week off for memorial day weekend because we used no snow days...so that isnt much, and i dont want to waste my last month of my senior year not talking to him...and having to talk to him right as we get to the end..thats the whole reason why i didnt give up yet. erhh but now i know how he really feels :-\
gah! =[ (link)
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Well good luck with it. Sounds like he may want
to be friends again.
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Okay, so.
There's this guy I really like, lets call him Billy, and so I went somewhere with my friends, and I knew Billy was there. So I meet up with him, and I was like can I have a hug? And his like I owe you one. So I gave him a hug. But when my friend asked for one, he didn't want to he finally did. And we talked for a bit and than he left to go back with his friends, because he was with them before. And so the next day, I texted Billy saying I really like him. And that was like 5 days ago. Finally, he writes back yesterday saying 'hi'. like nothing happen. BUT, the promblem is. I'm not over my ex. But I'm tring to get over him untill the other day he talked to me. And me and him where like in love, or really really really liked one another. What do I do? Like does Billy like me? And is there anything I can do, to like make things back to normal, because its weird when I talk to him now. What should I do with my ex? I mean I really do like him, maybe even love him. And I'm stressing out about this. Please help me :] (link)
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You need to get over the ex by moving on.
Thats very true. However since Billy
seemed to ignore your text about liking
him, I don't know that hes the one for
you right now. I think it was his way of
politely letting you know he isn't interested
right now. He may like you as a friend,
but not a girlfriend. Just be careful
not to move to quick. :)
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back when we met was jan 07. and ironically the semester had changed 2 weeks after being friends..and we ended up in the same lunch period. and the caf..and at the same table....and ended up sitting next to each other....i was out sick a lot last year..so he'd always be like "where is she?!'" or "where were u?"
and about a month ago i had my first absents of the school year shockly..and apparently that day was the day he was looking for me...and he asked like 3 people where i was. and yeah.. im like 0_0 that was like 3 days before we became friends again. hah yeah..so maybe just maybe that could happen again..who knows. heh. haha (link)
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I have heard of that happening many times.
Curiosity gets the better of people sometimes!
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how can i give my hair more volume? like any certain way to wash it or blow dry it? or any shampoo/conditioner? thankss (link)
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I do it like helloxdear13 suggested.
My hair is thick in the first place
though. Here is a search full of sites
with some suggestions that may work
for you, should you want to take a look.
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i was wondering in any sort of natural way i could make my boobs grow!!!!
ive searched and searched and cant find anyway to make my boobs grow.
ive read on websites that by the time you hit puberty your boobs will stop growing 3-5 years after puberty. im 14 and got my period when i was 11. im not even a double AA cup. im about an inch away from a AA cup. im abobut 115 lbs. and 5"6
does anyone know how big they may get or could get or how to get them bigger? pleasee!!
i know i can accept it and accept my body but i just want bigger boobs! (link)
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There is no natural way to make your boobs
grow bigger. As Rob said surgery when you're
older is the only option should you want them
bigger.
Look at the ladies in your family. Mom,
aunts, older siblings. You will probably
be about the same size as they are. You
still have some time for growing yet.
Probably until you are about 18. Some
girls get a slow start and then Boom!
Boobs. :) Don't worry about it yet.
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yeah.. well i dont have my liscense yet..i cant get it till summer..my parents suck. haha. and i have to have the same rules as my sisters so yeah.
my dad was driving and the way past his house was faster and yeah.. bleh. i pass the street a lot, since its off a main road, which that main road is 1 out 3 ways out of my development, also is the road up that leads to all the stores and what not...so yeah.. to avoid him in school isnt that bad... i guess..i dont know. we are 2 doors down 2nd period..so its hard not to see each other..before or after.. then we pass each other between 5th and 6th. then we have gym the same period but different teachers..and we both hang out at the same spot right before gym so i see him before and after. then we both stay after on wednesdays and thursdays for the same club and were on the afterschool bus together obviously since we live right by each other.
other than that.. i try not to see him. and yep. =] (link)
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:) Do what you can. Maybe he will
approach you to see where you went!
You never know.
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