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My friends ignore me
It happens a few times but this time it made me sad. . . .
okk this is what happened:
we went to this dance right and i have these 3 friends i mostly hang out with and i admire them as my sisters but we aren't blood related though. . . yeahh.
My three friends were dancing but then more friends came and i was backed off and they did nothing. . . i was alone
this happened a few times i felt like i was nothing to them.
when it was over we hang out in front of the school and wait a while until we decided to go home
As usual they formed their own circle thingy
and i was out of it
one time my eldest friend
our class was skating
i told her i was going to go skate fast and yeah but then i came back to her and skated with her
while i was skating fast she was with lets call her A.
Friend A said to her to go skate with me because she was tired but then my friend said that i wasn't like a talkative person like talk about stuff
i was hurt.
I am sometimes talk alot one day and not the other day.
When I heard her say that I ignored it.
Sometimes they talk about stuff I don't even know of and talk behind my back
What do they think I am to them?
What should I do?
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Your friends seem as if they don't really care for you. This is not what a friend should be. Friends should be there for you, not talk behind your back and say mean things when you are around. My advice is that you need to begin to distant yourself from them and find some people that will treat you nicely and with respect, people who will be there for you when you need them. Make sure that you are there for them in return of course. I am really sorry that you are going through this I know how you feel. My old friends did the same, and then I went around and met new people and they turned out to be my best friends who are always there for me, respect me, and we just love to hang out and talk. I hope this helps.
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it seems like your friends dont respect you that much, which isnt the way friends should treat others at all.
i really dont think this is the case to be telling you how to get your friends to notice you or anything, because something like this should never happen in a friendship.
my advice is you might need to re-think the people you call 'friends'. i would say you need to start meeting different people. aim for others who arent already in your group of friends, because more than likely, they could end up treating you the same way as these people are now.
theres always going to be certain people who pretty much think that they are the only important people in the world. i cant stand when people dont think about how they are treating someone, because they are so focused on what they want.
no one deserves to get treated like they dont matter, you are better than that. and there are people that will treat you the way they want to be treated, i promise. so put yourself out there to meeting new people.
good luck
(:
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If they don't include you and act like
friends would, then they aren't your
friends. Not true friends anyway. It
sounds like they just tolerate you being
around. Find some new friends. :)
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I'm sorry hun, but to me, this sounds like they don't like you too much, nor do they respect you. It doesn't look like they value you as a friend as much as you do about them. You appear to be the odd man out. I mean, they even talk behind your back! Girls can be evil like that :( My best advice is for you to find new friends who actually appreciate you because you deserve better than that.
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