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ehhhh help :]


Question Posted Saturday April 19 2008, 7:13 pm

Okay, so.
There's this guy I really like, lets call him Billy, and so I went somewhere with my friends, and I knew Billy was there. So I meet up with him, and I was like can I have a hug? And his like I owe you one. So I gave him a hug. But when my friend asked for one, he didn't want to he finally did. And we talked for a bit and than he left to go back with his friends, because he was with them before. And so the next day, I texted Billy saying I really like him. And that was like 5 days ago. Finally, he writes back yesterday saying 'hi'. like nothing happen. BUT, the promblem is. I'm not over my ex. But I'm tring to get over him untill the other day he talked to me. And me and him where like in love, or really really really liked one another. What do I do? Like does Billy like me? And is there anything I can do, to like make things back to normal, because its weird when I talk to him now. What should I do with my ex? I mean I really do like him, maybe even love him. And I'm stressing out about this. Please help me :]


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cloudy_conscience answered Sunday April 20 2008, 12:45 pm:
Well your ex is your ex and so you must have broken up for some reason or another. It is probably best if you move on, unless you completely feel like you really really want to get back with him.

As for Billy, seeing as he ignored your text message I think he probably either isn't ready to admit he likes you or he doesn't. Your best bet would probably be to just act as if nothing had ever happened. If he likes you then he will come up to you sooner or later and let you know.

Hope I Helped.

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karenR answered Sunday April 20 2008, 10:15 am:
You need to get over the ex by moving on.
Thats very true. However since Billy
seemed to ignore your text about liking
him, I don't know that hes the one for
you right now. I think it was his way of
politely letting you know he isn't interested
right now. He may like you as a friend,
but not a girlfriend. Just be careful
not to move to quick. :)

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deathwillcome answered Sunday April 20 2008, 3:54 am:
The first thing with your ex is that he is your ex. You have to think about why you two drifted apart, or whatever happened. You need to think of who you want to be with right now, more. You may love him still, but do you think he loves you back? Is it worth leaving your new guy crush behind? Now, with Billy... I think he might like you, but I'm not him... You need to ask him yourself if you really want to know. Him not answering and pretending it didn't happen can go either way. It sounds like he was flirting with you, but some people are natural flirts and flirt with everyone... You shouldn't go for Billy or your ex until you have truly decided what you want. When you decide, make sure you know how they feel, next. If they don't like you, what's the point? You can't make either of them like you. Just remember there are many many guys out there, if these two don't work out... it's not the end of the world... Hope I helped...

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