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Liking/not liking someone?
Ok this is weird.... I've had a lil history of liking someone, and later on something happens and things become awkward or something, and I end up not liking them anymore. btw, I'm 13/f. Well when I was in elementary school, I had a crush on this dude. When he finally kinda liked me I guess, he didn't literally say it, but he said "I love you." and I was like wow wtf. So then I felt uncomfortable, and weird, and I didn't like him anymore. Even though before, I liked him a lot. Currently, I have a crush on someone. (I think) I've said things like "I love you ______" in a buddy sorta way. I would hug him, but I always hug my friends. Then today, the guy I have a crush on started acting a lil more affectionate (it was kind of in a joking/buddy way) and it just became awkward for me. I felt uncomfortable. I still do right now. I keep thinking about it and it's just so weird. Like I always imagine him doing nice things for me and things that couples would do. I even see people at school who are like that, but they're serious about their relationships. I don't think they're nervous at all. This confuses me. How can I like someone, but then when they finally like me back I decide not to like them anymore? Then things are awkward. He's still my buddy and all, I dunno about my feelings right now. It just confuses me and I wish it wouldn't happen. Shouldn't it be a good thing that the person you like likes you back? (I don't actually know if he likes me back...) I'm so confused. xD any info or advice is greatly appreciated! (I hope everything made sense. Right now it's weird for me having to explain and describe everything I'm feeling. D:)
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Don't worry about liking someone one minute
and then being unsure of those feelings the
next. You're 13 and have a lot of hormonal
things happening to you right now. You're
a bit young for anything to serious.
As for feeling uncomfortable, thats pretty
normal too. It will all change soon. Its
just part of the process of growing up.
Nothing at all to worry about. :)
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its just nerves.
its kind of like once you get that one thing you want; and you dont know exactly what to do with it, its just confusing to you.
im sure this boy does like you and if you still do like him you need to show that some more so something can actually happen. and im sure once you two get a little more comfortable around each other, everything else will seem much easier to deal with.
i have another outlook on this. and im baseing it on what sometimes has happend to me in the past.
when i like a guy and im not too sure if he likes me or not just yet it seems like everything is easier to do for me. like i would continually be flirting with him and loved getting all the attention i could from him. but then when i find out that he likes me too, my feelings for him slowly start fading away.
i think its because i like a chase and a challange when it comes to boys. and once i know that i can have him, my desire to keep trying just goes away. i guess because it isnt as fun anymore. kind of weird right? haha.
im not sure if that is what you are doing or not, but its just an idea.
but anyways, if you still have your mind set on this boy to be more than friends, dont let anything hold you back. && remember, confidence is key. and that may be all that you need right now to get things back to normal and not be so awkward anymore.
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