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YOUR GOING OUT WITH KINKY?
my friend is talking to this guy, and he is considered kinky, but she is the ultimate good girl, she get on to you for cussing, doesnt mess around with guys etc. so this guy likes her alot, and she doesnt like him as much, but she likes him. im afraid they are going to go out, and she is going to get into ANOTHER bad relationship where the guy pressures her into doing things she doesnt want to do. i've already told her that i dont like that kid, and why.
what should i do to keep from seeing my friend get hurt again?!
im a f/16
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if you've already told her how you feel, then you've done enough. you don't wanna keep repeating it because she'll start getting annoyed with you. you've done everything you can as a friend, she's heard your opinion, and if she makes the right decision then great for her. otherwise it's not up to you to decide if she goes out with this kid or not. PLUS she'll learn after a while as to which boys to date and which ones not to date. and she can't learn her lesson without experiencing the good and the bad.
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You can't really tell your friends who
to date. As said before me, you can tell
her what you think about it, but thats
about all you can do. Don't go on about
it to much though because you could make
her mad. People don't like being told
who they can be friends with.
You must also remember that just because
this boy is considered kinky, it doesn't
mean he really is. Rumors have a way of
getting started in schools that are all
wrong.
So, you really can't do a lot to keep
your friend from being hurt by a guy.
Just be a friend and be there for her
in good times and bad times. :)
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you just have to let her make her own decisions and tell her your opinion though. and if you think he is going to hurt her- when he does, don't play the 'i told you so card' on her. be there for her, and let her vent and support her. that's what friends are for. i mean, you need to tell her your opinion of this guy, but don't let it ruin or start drama with your friendship, in the end it's her decision and possibly her mistake to learn from you know? good luck hon!
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