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Do i really need love? I mean all my friends have at least kissed one guy and I haven't kissed, hugged or made physical contact with any of my past bf's. My first bf only touched my leg. My 2nd one was too creepy to do anything. My 3rd one never talked to me. How can i get a good boyfriend? HELP. I'm not enjoying being single much anymore. Please, i need emergency dating tips! PLEASE! I want ot date again. Sure my first experiences sucked, but still... Not all guys are shallow, right? HELP! (link)
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Unless you can be happy single, there is no way that you are ever going to be truly happy with any guy, no matter how perfect he seems.
If you want physical contact with your boyfriend, then make the move. Boys are just as nervous as girls when it comes to this. He's probably trying to figure out a way to make the first move himself.
Think of a hobby you have or a sport you like. Then go places that include that hobby or sport, like a skate park or the basketball court. It's summer, so there will be plenty of guys your age pretty much anywhere you go. Just strike up a conversation. Ask him a question, even if you already know the answer. That way you will give him a slight confidence boost. He'll remember feeling confident around you and will want to feel that way again.
So go for it and have fun. Hope this helps.
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if a girl has big breasts and the color around her nipple is big, then if she loses weight and her breasts get smaller, does the colored part get smaller too? (link)
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Well, that is called the aerola. If she lost weight in her breasts, the aerola would shrink because of the skin tightening. But overall, it would take up the same fraction of your breasts as it did before you lost weight.
Hope this helps.
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Today, I was watching Peter Pan and a few Veggie Tales movies when my friends called and asked what I was doing. They laughed when I told them I what I watching. They said Disney and Veggie Tales are for little kids. I can't help it. I like those movies. They're funny and cool, but i need advice on what should I do. Should I stop watching them? Or stick with the movies? (link)
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If you like something, you shouldn't pretend you don't like them just because your friends think you shouldn't. Everybody has something embarassing that they do that they don't really want their friends to know.
I'm nearly seventeen and I still watch Dragon Tales with my sisters.
Ssshhhh, don't tell.
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okay thur is this boy tht i really lik he is my neightboor and i wanted to know some good ways to ask sum1 out tht arent tht.....lik scary and make you really nervous to ask i wanna ask em out but i dont wanna jus flat out go up to em and say "will you go out wit me?" he's told me he luved me b4 and comes up and hugs me but i still dont wanna b...flat out thanx alot and any advice appreciated (link)
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You could just mention that you're going to do something (ex: go see the new spiderman movie) and ask him if he wants to come along.
Or you could ask him if he wants to come hang out with you and some of your friends and then at the last minute tell him they bailed on you. Then ask him if he still wants to go anyway.
This way, it sounds casual and it's no pressure on him. And it's not flat out.
If you start a relationship, you can always tell him the truth.
Hope this helps.
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so my b/f was on AIM and he's at the movies with his sister and my bf`s friend katie . anyways, he IMed me & said "hey im with people who hate you" and i`m all "wow thats nice . because they thing i`m a pansy , right? just because i wear hollister doesn`t make me a prep . get over it"
(i get really annoyed because he is on the punkish-emo side & so are his friends) anyways someone goes "this is his sister & katie we hate you go suck a penis you pansy!" and idk what i should do , he was being really rude && idk what i should say to him the next time i talk to him . any advice ? what should i tell him ? break-up or not ? (link)
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Well, if he disses you when he's with his friends then he doesn't respect you at all. If he really likes you, then he would be telling his friends to shut their big mouths. It's even more disrespectful to you when he calls you just to tell you that he's with people that don't like you.
If I was in this situation, I would be telling this boy to step off a cliff. You need to find someone that actually likes you for you and not just because he thinks he might get laid. In fact, there's probably some guy you know that is just dying for you to break up with your so-called boyfriend so he can ask you out.
Frankly, this guy's a jerk and you need someone who isn't such an ass-hat. Personally, I think you should tell him to go screw himself and then tell his friends about that.
Hope this helps you.
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What are some reasons why a single guy who you know likes you won't ask you out? I'm asking because there is a guy from work who has liked me since before Xmas. He knows I like him back yet he hasn't asked me out. Do you think he's waiting for me to make the first move? (link)
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Unless you told this guy outright that you liked him, it is unlikely that he would get your hints. It doesn't matter how book smart or street smart a guy is, they don't usually get subtleties.
If you have told him straight out that you liked him and he still hasn't made a move, he could be shy. If you know he isn't shy, he could be waiting to see if you actually mean what you said about liking him back. It's possible that he isn't making a move on you because he's been used by some girl that claimed to like him before.
My suggestion is to just make the move yourself. If he likes you back already, and he's single, you have nothing to worry about.
Hope this helps.
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hey! i was the person who asked about the boy who liked me last week...and he was like:" can't say hi?" ..LOL
well, i haven't seen him for the past 3 days. and monday is THE LAST DAY OF SCHOOL!!!! so if there's a chance i don't seem him..should i just move on? because i don't know if he has a myspace. and basically i don't know anything about him.so what should i do?
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Okay, if you do happen to see him, just walk right up and tell him how you feel. But, if it so happens that you don't see him, look in your or a friend's yearbook for his picture. That should list his hobbies and/or interests, so go places that he would possibly be. Or, if you happen to know someone that you have seen him talking to or hanging out with, try to find them.
Try to go the same route that you always see him on and try to go early if it's possible to make it more likely that you will see him. If you happen to know his name, the guidance office should have his schedule in a binder, so you could find him that way.
But, I would say try to find him, because if you try to forget about him, it's more likely that you will just pine for him anyway. But if you try everything and you still can't find him, find something to take your mind off of him.
If you can't find him, then I guess it's not really meant to be, but you never know unless you try every possible thing. You never know. He may be trying to track you down.
Hope this helps.
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like when people say spell the alphabet while kissing, wouldnt that not go too well because your not doing it in sync with their tongue? (link)
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Well, the alphabet consists of a lot of swirling lines. Think about it. Would you want someone just swirling their tongue all around in your mouth? You wouldn't know what to do with yours. Just kind of massage their tongue with yours like you would their shoulders with your hands.
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So there is this guy that i like alot and well he told me that he likes me to but he is just so confusing. and like whenever i see him i can tell that there is that connection. lol. but like online he almost refuses to talk like im fighting to get words out of him. he says its because hes lazy but then why does he talk to other people? and now that its summer i barely ever get to see him and i want to hang out with him but people are like you cant call him, you have to play hard to get. and im like well i doubt he will call me and then they're like well he is a shy one and im like uhmm okay? soo i just dont know what to do with him. can someone please help me?
and sorry it is so longg =\ (link)
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Okay, you should definitely nix the hard to get idea. Guys like a little bit of a chase, but when they're so confused as to how the girl feels, they tend to just give up instead of trying harder. So instead of waiting for him to call, just call him. Ask him to hang out as friends first so he doesn't feel any pressure about a date. This should get him to open up a bit more.
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hey guys, my boyfriend told me last night that "he knows" that I am deleting text messages from my cell phone that I don't want him to see...Well, he's right, but of course, I denied it. I'm not flirting with any guys or anything like that! I love him to death and I would never think of doing anything stupid to mess up our relationship, but I do delete stuff that i don't want him to see, like things I'm talking to my girls about or stupid stuff I dont want in my message box...But I cant tell him that or he will assume its cuz its a guy or something blah blah blah...So, what I'm asking is how CAN he KNOW? He told me again today!! I delete them from my inbox and outbox and from a message recipients list I have in my nokia...He doesnt go online to check our account so I dont know how he knows!!! can someone who is savvy in cellphones help me figure out how he knows I'm deleting stuff? It's weirding me out... (link)
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The only way that he could possibly know unless he went on your cell phone account to see how many text messages you have gotten is if he checks your phone when you're not around. Otherwise, there's not really a way for him to know for sure that you're deleting them.
I know it's not really any of my business, but when a guy acts like you've got something to hide, it's usually because they're trying to hide something and by blaming you, you won't blame him.
Hope this helps.
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Okay sorry if this is confusing..
so a long time ago this guy Jerry liked me, but I didn't like him. Then his friend Chris started liking me, and I liked Chris. So Chris and I went out for 3 weeks, and then he broke up with me. Then these rumors came out that I liked Tony (Who is friends with Jerry and Chris.) and Tony liked me. (But we didn't like each other, we're just both big flirts.) and when Chris found out he told me about it made him jealous and realize he still had feelings for me. so then Chris and I started "secretly" seeing each other, but he never officially asked me out. and now the end of the year is coming up and we kind of stopped because we're both swamped with end of the year finals and sol's. But then this kid Derrick (Who is friends with Jerry, Chris, and Tony. But he's also my friend.) started texting me a lot and complimenting my outfit etc. Then Chris and Derrick hung out one day. That very same day Chris started texting me again..
Does he just not want me to talk to any other boys, or am I being paranoid? Because he can go days without talking to me. and he never says mushy stuff like "I miss you, I haven't seen you in forever" but Derrick always says that to me..
I really don't know what to do. I mean I don't like Derrick, I like Tony. But Tony's just a big jerk sometimes..
Can I get a guy and girl's point of veiw on this please? (link)
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It kind of sounds like Chris is playing games. He may actually like you, that's why he gets jealous when he sees you talking to other guys but he may not want an actual relationship. If you both want to keep things casual then that's great. But it sounds like he wants to see you and other girls at the same time but he doesn't want you to date other guys at all. You should talk to him about it tell him that if he wants to be casual, then you can both see other people.
Hope this helps.
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Why would a guy that you work with flirt with you for months and stare at you constantly, and smile when you walk in the room; but then when you finally show an interest in him he freaks out and barely talks to you anymore? Does that mean he lost interest? Or could there be another reason for this change? (link)
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Well, there are plenty of reasons for this to happen.
He may just be a big flirt. If he has a girlfriend, he doesn't think that flirting is cheating, so he flirted with you, a safe choice because you're 'work buddies'. But once you showed an interest in him he had to back off so his girlfriend wouldn't get word of it.
Or he may just like the chase but doesn't want to actually catch you. See, after months of you showing no signs of liking him back he thought of it as a game. You know, see how long it takes her to break down sort of thing. But after he got your affections, he was finished.
Or, he may just be really shy when the flirtation finally starts leading to an actual relationship.
I suggest asking him about it or just casually mentioning it. Or you could casually ask him if he's dating anyone to see about the first possibility.
Hope this helps
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All of my boyfriend's friends tell me I'm ugly and he can do so much better than me. What are some ways I can improve the way I look? I just don't think I look pretty.
here are a couple of pictures of me (my hair isn't blonde and brown anymore it's dark brown/auburn)
http://s52.photobucket.com/albums/g14/kiirstinthegreat/?action=view¤t=DSC00108.jpg
http://s52.photobucket.com/albums/g14/kiirstinthegreat/?action=view¤t=l_77a2cb1b3f4578957a051490d299f973.jpg
Those are the only pictures I have that you can really see my face (link)
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Okay, I think I should tell you that your boyfriend's friends are all jerk offs and you should tell him that. Why is he spending time with such ass-hats when he could find some friends that actually respect women?
Personally, I don't think you're ugly. You wear a lot of eye makeup though. Maybe you should take that down a notch. But other than that, I'm not sure what to tell you.
If none of your boyfriends friends have girlfriends, that may be the cause of the verbal harassment. They may just be jealous of all the time you're spending together when he used to spend that extra time with them. They may just be trying to get him to dump you so they can get him back. I suggest maybe setting them up with some of your friends, or even just the girl that sat beside of you in math.
Hope it helps!
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uh..... how come sometimes you feel like a heartbeat "down there"? btw im a girl. (link)
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Well, it is possible that this happens because you are aroused. When you're aroused, blood rushes to your genitals and kind of 'thumps' which makes it feel kind of like a heartbeat.
Don't worry about it, it's natural for this to happen.
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im 17/f with no confidence at all to do anything..i wanna experience things..live..party it up..i mean im gonna be a senior. The thing is..i dont know how to boost my self confidence to go out and meet ppl..im not ugly..not fat..i just dont have good self esteem..i wanna LIVE..but where do i start? (link)
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If you don't have a job already, you should think about getting one. Think off all the places that kids your age hang out when they're not in school or at home. (movie theaters, restaurants, etc) Then go and apply to all those places. You will be forced to mingle and converse with your peers. Also you will probably be working with a few of them. Make friends with them and they will introduce you to their friends and etc.
Hope this helps.
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im planning a sweet 16 for me and 20-30 people i have some ideas like i have songs that we can dance to and snacks but i don't know where to throw the party and wat else to do instead of just dance it can't be a pool party becuz its during the winter
-where can i throw my party?
-wat else can we do instead of dance and eat?
and the buget should be under $100
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Well, about the location. You could use your local fire hall or even the YMCA if there's one near your neighborhood. Or you could use a basement, yours or a family member's/friend's.
Twister is always a fun party game for anyone. My friends and I still play. You could have a dance contest or karaoke.
Hope this helps!
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hello
does anyone have any songs that are about freindship and knowing your always there for eachother?
i would like soemthing that is eather alteritive, or country.
hugs and kisses! thankssss =] (link)
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There's actually a bunch of different kinds of songs here, not just alternative and country but I hope you like them.
A Friend Like You - Geoff Moore
Always be - LaRue
Always and Forever - Raze
At your Side - The Corrs
Anytime you need a friend - Mariah Carey
Blood on Blood - Bon Jovi
Best Friend - Queen
Circle of Friends - Point of Grace
Crash and Burn - Savage Garden
Candle on the water - Pete's Dragon
Friends - Bette Midler
Friends will be friends - Queen
Forever Friends - Sandi Patti
Graduation - Vitamin C
I'll back you up - Dave Matthews Band
I'll be there for you - the Rembrants
I'll be - Reba Macintre
I'll be there - Mariah Carey
I'll be there for you - the Moffatts
I'll stand by you - the pretenders
I'm your friend - Bobby Brown
I turn to you - Christina Aguilera
I wanna be there - Blessed Union of Souls
I will be your friend - Michael Smith
I will remember you - Sarah Maclachlan
If I only had one friend left - Dan Seals
Meant to be - Squirrel nut zippers
My friends - red hot chili peppers
that's what friends are for - Dionne Warwich and friends
Whenever I call you friend - Kenny Loggins
You were there - Simon Birch
Hope these work
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i'm 14/f...and a 9th grader
so i think i like this guy. and idk if he likes me. and i've been fooled many times before so i don't want to be sure he doesn't like me. so i barely see him in skool cuz there's 2000 students in my skool. and when i do see him he smiles at me..and if i walk by him he goes,"you can't say hi?"[and he's still smiling] and it's not like in a RUDE Tone...he says it so sexy..lol [sorry]..so i don't know if i should move on or stick to him. he's a 10th grader and probably 16 yrs. old!!!
and school will be done next monday..so will it even matter because skool is ending??? '
so basically i want to know if he likes me? and shud i take the chance? what should i say to him if i see him in the halls? just please tell me everything i need to know about this. sorry but i'm an amateur and not too many boys have liked me in the past!!! ThAnx iN AdVaNcE!!! (link)
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You should definitely tell him how you feel. Who cares that he's two years older than you?
If you like each other then it won't really matter that school is ending. You will still get to see each other and talk all the time.
You should just go up to him or stop him in the halls and pull him aside and tell him that you think he's cute and you'd like to get to know him better. Invite him to a movie or pizza or bowling, etc.
It sounds like he likes you to me. But if you're that scared of a possible rejection, then you shouldn't sweat it. If it does happen, you will both have the entire summer to forget about it. And if he says he likes you too, then you've got the entire summer to hang out with him.
Hope this helps.
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me and my ex had been talking a lot and when we dated we never had sex. he never made moves, and im to shy too.
well he came straight out and asked me to have sex with him. and i said i would. and i know its probably not smart because ill just like him more, but i was kind of anticipating it.
and he went from sayin he wanted to do it, making a night we were goina hang out, to blowing me off. he apologized and everything. but now its been almost two weeks since he's even talked to me.
why would a guy who has a free opportunity to get laid with no strings attached, just STOP talking to the person offering ? that's like against guy ethics .. im not good enough to date, and now im not even good enough to hook up with. kind of makes you feel bad for yourself in a way i guess .. (link)
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First off, kick everyone out of your house. The pity party is over.
Although girls have been taught from the womb that guys are just pigs that are only after one thing, that just isn't true. If you go around thinking that all guys are pigs, you're never going to find your monkey.
Okay, there are in fact some pigs out there, but they're not all from the barnyard.
Guys do have morals. Your ex may have just had the revelation that he doesn't just want to take advantage of someone that he once, and probably still does, care for.
Maybe this guy actually wants an emotional relationship instead of just a physical one. He had this with you before, and since it didn't work out for unknown reasons, maybe he thinks it's risky to come back to you.
Or, maybe your ex is one of those few pigs still running loose out there and is just playing you.
He could also just like the thrill of the chase. And once the chase is over, i.e. you saying you will have sex with him, he's done. If this is the case, he is just a player and you are not a pawn on a chess set.
You should absolutely not feel bad about yourself. You should actually feel angry because of your ex's hot and cold routine. If a guy only wants to hook up with you, he's not worthy of your body or your mind anyway. So look for someone that wants your mind first.
Don't worry, you'll find your monkey.
Hope I've provided some words of wisdom.
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im in seventh grade and a girl. well theres this boy i like a lot and ive liked him almost the whole school year. we used to talk and laugh all the time in the beginning of the year when we sat across from eachother in science but since then we barely talk. im still in lovve with him tho. its the end of the school year and im woondering if i should tell him how i feel? im afraid that if he doesnt like me back, things will be awkward then. should i tell him? (link)
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You should tell him. It's the end of the school year so you might not get another chance. He could come back to school with a girlfriend.
If he likes you back, then you've got yourself a boyfriend. If he doesn't, it won't be that awkward considering he will have the entire summer to forget about it and so will you.
The worst thing that could happen is that he will say no and you won't date him, but if you don't ask him, you'll never date him anyway.
Hope it helps!
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