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Jerry.. Chris.. Tony.. lion.. tigers.. bears...


Question Posted Tuesday June 12 2007, 7:11 pm

Okay sorry if this is confusing..

so a long time ago this guy Jerry liked me, but I didn't like him. Then his friend Chris started liking me, and I liked Chris. So Chris and I went out for 3 weeks, and then he broke up with me. Then these rumors came out that I liked Tony (Who is friends with Jerry and Chris.) and Tony liked me. (But we didn't like each other, we're just both big flirts.) and when Chris found out he told me about it made him jealous and realize he still had feelings for me. so then Chris and I started "secretly" seeing each other, but he never officially asked me out. and now the end of the year is coming up and we kind of stopped because we're both swamped with end of the year finals and sol's. But then this kid Derrick (Who is friends with Jerry, Chris, and Tony. But he's also my friend.) started texting me a lot and complimenting my outfit etc. Then Chris and Derrick hung out one day. That very same day Chris started texting me again..

Does he just not want me to talk to any other boys, or am I being paranoid? Because he can go days without talking to me. and he never says mushy stuff like "I miss you, I haven't seen you in forever" but Derrick always says that to me..

I really don't know what to do. I mean I don't like Derrick, I like Tony. But Tony's just a big jerk sometimes..

Can I get a guy and girl's point of veiw on this please?


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Additional info, added Tuesday June 12 2007, 7:13 pm:
OO for the last paragraph change the Tony to Chris haha!

sorry this is so confusing haha!!
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Ashumms answered Tuesday June 12 2007, 8:40 pm:
It kind of sounds like Chris is playing games. He may actually like you, that's why he gets jealous when he sees you talking to other guys but he may not want an actual relationship. If you both want to keep things casual then that's great. But it sounds like he wants to see you and other girls at the same time but he doesn't want you to date other guys at all. You should talk to him about it tell him that if he wants to be casual, then you can both see other people.

Hope this helps.

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