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13/f: Do i need love?
Do i really need love? I mean all my friends have at least kissed one guy and I haven't kissed, hugged or made physical contact with any of my past bf's. My first bf only touched my leg. My 2nd one was too creepy to do anything. My 3rd one never talked to me. How can i get a good boyfriend? HELP. I'm not enjoying being single much anymore. Please, i need emergency dating tips! PLEASE! I want ot date again. Sure my first experiences sucked, but still... Not all guys are shallow, right? HELP!
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Hey.
Well, I am 13 and i am a female and I haven't done anything that you have mentioned, but one day i know it will, and it will happen to you as well. Don't worry about it, that is one thing that us girl do the most- Panic and worry!
As we are the same age, i find that it is far easier to answer your question. I don't want it to happen like my other friends (behind the swimming pool or something) I want it on a date or at the cinema ect..
If you have any more qusetions about it or you want to just chat, then feel free to send me a message or email:
jesshatcher@gmail.com
SuperDuperJess
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well i'm 14/f and I still dont have a b/f but ya know what i just spend my time with friends and I'm learning how to love myself without a guy! After all you have to love yourself before anyone else can love you and that's what you should be learning while you dont have a b/f. And if you have alot of confidence then you should exspand that! One day you'll meet someone that sees that you have alot to offer and they'll love you for you!
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Oh. You are cute. You don't need love. You need to be able to be stong and happy by your self, and then love comes in as just an extra thing. You don't need someone to complete your life; but rather someone who will live it with you. You have a lot ahead of you, and I can't talk much, cause I am not much older. But I do know that you just need to be yourself and be confident. A bunch of friends are better to have then one boyfriend and that is it. Also, it isn't my place to say who you are dating, but you probably shouldn't want to be dating someone who is creepy or someone who doesn't talk to you. Your boyfriend should be like your best friend, that is when you know you have something real. Have fun this summer, and meet people from everywhere. Go crazy, and enjoy life. Don't worry about a boyfriend. Good luck!
hope this helps!! :] ♥
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you know wat being single aint alwayz bad but then again it is but no matter how many boyfriends you have there always a right person for somone and you just got to wait for that.one day you will find ur special person and you will love them and they will love you for who you are but untill then you are young and you are experience alot of things but hey thats part of life and part of growing up and you will keep on experience boys untill you find the right one and you will know.
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oh honey haha.. :] you're so young. you have a lot of life ahead of you and plenty of time to start kissing on boys. and to answer your question, no you do not need love, and at your age you probably will not find love anywhere, because boys still have cooties.
<3Beth 17/f
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Unless you can be happy single, there is no way that you are ever going to be truly happy with any guy, no matter how perfect he seems.
If you want physical contact with your boyfriend, then make the move. Boys are just as nervous as girls when it comes to this. He's probably trying to figure out a way to make the first move himself.
Think of a hobby you have or a sport you like. Then go places that include that hobby or sport, like a skate park or the basketball court. It's summer, so there will be plenty of guys your age pretty much anywhere you go. Just strike up a conversation. Ask him a question, even if you already know the answer. That way you will give him a slight confidence boost. He'll remember feeling confident around you and will want to feel that way again.
So go for it and have fun. Hope this helps.
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