okay thur is this boy tht i really lik he is my neightboor and i wanted to know some good ways to ask sum1 out tht arent tht.....lik scary and make you really nervous to ask i wanna ask em out but i dont wanna jus flat out go up to em and say "will you go out wit me?" he's told me he luved me b4 and comes up and hugs me but i still dont wanna b...flat out thanx alot and any advice appreciated
Ashumms answered Friday June 15 2007, 8:59 pm: You could just mention that you're going to do something (ex: go see the new spiderman movie) and ask him if he wants to come along.
Or you could ask him if he wants to come hang out with you and some of your friends and then at the last minute tell him they bailed on you. Then ask him if he still wants to go anyway.
This way, it sounds casual and it's no pressure on him. And it's not flat out.
If you start a relationship, you can always tell him the truth.
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