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Question Posted Monday June 11 2007, 5:32 pm
i'm 14/f...and a 9th grader
so i think i like this guy. and idk if he likes me. and i've been fooled many times before so i don't want to be sure he doesn't like me. so i barely see him in skool cuz there's 2000 students in my skool. and when i do see him he smiles at me..and if i walk by him he goes,"you can't say hi?"[and he's still smiling] and it's not like in a RUDE Tone...he says it so sexy..lol [sorry]..so i don't know if i should move on or stick to him. he's a 10th grader and probably 16 yrs. old!!!
and school will be done next monday..so will it even matter because skool is ending??? '
so basically i want to know if he likes me? and shud i take the chance? what should i say to him if i see him in the halls? just please tell me everything i need to know about this. sorry but i'm an amateur and not too many boys have liked me in the past!!! ThAnx iN AdVaNcE!!!
LiLReBeL6907 answered Monday June 11 2007, 10:18 pm: Yes he is definetly interested. Any guy that says that like you because they say it to strike up a conversation. So the next time you seem him say something like, "Hey, Im actually saying hi this time. So school is almost out and I am going to be soooo bored this summer. So if you want to hang out sometime give me a call." Then hand him a piece of paper with your number and see what he says. Since it is the end of school why does it matter? Exactly. So take a risk and flirt with him :) [ LiLReBeL6907's advice column | Ask LiLReBeL6907 A Question ]
Ashumms answered Monday June 11 2007, 9:22 pm: You should definitely tell him how you feel. Who cares that he's two years older than you?
If you like each other then it won't really matter that school is ending. You will still get to see each other and talk all the time.
You should just go up to him or stop him in the halls and pull him aside and tell him that you think he's cute and you'd like to get to know him better. Invite him to a movie or pizza or bowling, etc.
It sounds like he likes you to me. But if you're that scared of a possible rejection, then you shouldn't sweat it. If it does happen, you will both have the entire summer to forget about it. And if he says he likes you too, then you've got the entire summer to hang out with him.
superstarblue89 answered Monday June 11 2007, 7:55 pm: it still matters...just be relaxed about it...next time you see him say hey and be like "could I get your number...I think it'd be really cool if we hung out this summer" then trade numbers...call and text on occasion...make some plans to do stuff this summer...only if he wants to trade...if he doesn't then he's probably not interested but hopefully he'll want to trade numbers [ superstarblue89's advice column | Ask superstarblue89 A Question ]
arielle answered Monday June 11 2007, 7:54 pm: hmmm..ok basically i think he has a crush on you. and umm idk. since school is ending monday i would see how he acts and if he is acting normal, then just go up and talk to him and like ask him to do something. i know how hard that is to do (believe me) but if he says yes, great. you two will maybe have something over the summer and who knows? maybe into next year as well! and babe, if he says no (which it doesnt sound like he will), then you have the whole entire summer!!
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