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i want to lose weight over the summer. im not really that fat, im just heavier than i look. but its really annoying when my parents keep hinting that i should work out. they say they dont think im fat but im like.. why do they keep telling me this? its really annoying, cause then they say that i eat too much which i do sometimes, but im still not fat, nor have i ever been, really. i mean, im black (not american, like my parents were from africa) and black people naturally tend to have heavier bones, whether they appear to be fat or not. or some people say its muscle? i dunno. anyways, what are ways i can work out? like im 13, but how can i tone my stomach, butt, thighs, and arms before school starts? im also a girl. i mean i kinda want to be more fit too, i just dont want my parents to keep bugging me when i already know. i tell them this yet they still do it. i want to train like really early in the morning before my family wakes up, so i can get used to it and during the school year i can also train then. so what can i do?

um im thinking of trying out for my soccer team in the fall, but i didnt sign up yet though tryouts are in a month. sign ups ended like in june, and there was another part of the form due in like 2 weeks. ummm do you think i should give it a shot that they'd still let me try out? and im not even the best soccer player. i love that sport but.. my family is complicated now, since my dad is working in a diff state for some time, and my mom said this year we'd have to sacrifice a bit since my dad cant drive us to places sometimes. i still really wanna get in that. i like to play mid, halfback, and fullback, but i also need better skills in offense which i totally suck in. ugh, our school is really tuff. last year i tried out and didnt even make the b team. i dunno what to do anymore.. but please help. i also wanna do dance, but its harder to drop me for that than for soccer. :(

and its not like i dont eat healthy foods. my parents make lots of cultural foods. my mom just stopped buying bread.. we have like no snacks except for fruits like bananas and apples and junk. its annoying but when sometimes i just feel like eating for no reason, though im not that hungry. and when theres nothing to eat, i either eat too much fruit, too much food, or i binge on something else im not supposed to eat.. i know im not supposed to eat it, cause my mom told me not to eat it yet. but its like.. i dunno i guess i think that it would be the last time but it keeps happening. sometimes i even eat random stuff like sugar... i know its bad but.. i guess i have a problem. my mom keeps asking if i have a food problem and i say no.. please help me here i dont want to go to some wacko like psychologist. im sure my problem can be fixed

thanks!

btw: last time i went to the doctors, like last year, i was 155 pounds, and 5'4". (link)
im on a diet so try south beach diet ive lost 6 pounds in one week


my boyfriend is a total jerk. he dosnt say hi to me anymore. he hangs up on me swears at me is violent to me says he dosnt care about me nemore as much as he did says he hates seen me gets ppl to tel me hes not were he is so i dont come see him. says he hates seen me and that he dreads it says that im on the bottum of his list of prioirtys. he dumped me and said he was treating me bad so i wud break it of with him but then he wanted me back. hes grabbed my throat and said hel hit me. he tells people he dosnt want to be with me and im annoying and wishes i would dissapear. altho we hav a serious relashionshop and hav dated for about a year hes gettin himself into serious trouble and been arrested and charged and drinking every night. i love him so much and my biggest fear is that he wil cheat on me. i dont think he loves me neither do any of my friends. i just have alot of fun with him on weekends even tho he ignored me and yells at me for anything and everything i dont have the power to break it off PLEASE HELP ME IM DESPEREATE iv talked to him about it so many times and he gets mad and tells me to fuck off! (link)
the basic answer iz he's cheatin on you or he's going through a rough time. if u love him alot then wait for him to come to his senses. if not just move on to the next guy. there's plenty of fish in the sea instead of the jerk of a fish move to the beautiful and smart fish
good luck


Aight to make a long story short like a month ago i was at the beach and me and my boy's went to this icecream shop thing or wateva and these 2 sexy girl's i'm talkin like beautiful came and was standing behind me and they was and the dark 1 was tellin the spanish girl to talk to me or wateva so they moved to the other shack but i could still here them talkin and i didn't take my chance and say sumthin and we ended gettin on the same train.....Ironically i have summer program and shorty goes to it 2 and i'm still lost for words and can't say nuttin to this girl what should i do? (link)
ask her out duh
if its seems like she likes you ask her out
but first u need to go on a couple of dates and make sure before u even think about dates and hugs and kisses make sure you now here name
but i say go for it


my boyfriend found out i cheated on him. he broke up with me. i miss him alot. i dont know what to do. i regret it and everything. i was just wondering if anyone as been in this situation and got their boyfriend back some how. please help me please (link)
the best thing to do is try to talk to them
let them know it was wrong and you love them a bunch and maybe hell say he has to think about it but at least you gave it a try even though that was a wrong thing to do at least you know what you did was very wrong


ok... but he's been telling me about this other girl he likes..and i ended up not going to the party..so do i still go for it?? or just back down?? (link)
keep going for it because that gurl might do something stupid and then he won't like her anymore so just wait don't rush things u never know ull probably meet some cute hottie over the summer that likes u and wants to go out with u


so.. i've been talking to this guy...let's call him murphy. we've been friends for probably about a month now. and he's only "dating" this girl. but i've been helping him out with his love life..and he has been helping me out with mine (even tho i dont have 1 ...LOL) but he's cute,smart and funny...an all in 1 deal...lol. i've liked him since the 1st day i've laid eyes on him. but my friends think he likes me. but i don't want to get carried away b/c something similar to this situation has happened to me before. and yesterday[last day of school] ..we have the same math class so he asks[out loud 4 the whole class 2 hear.."do you want to go to a party with me?" and i'm all smiling n stuff[ trying to ignore him] and he goes u know u want too. you can't dance...huh??,,,then i'm like yea. then he goes, then prove it!!! but i don't know he confuses me sometimes. so what do you think about all of this? and what do you think i should do?? (link)
What So soon go ahead gurl
i think u should go to that party have a good time
hfe just might bring his "dating buddy" so don't be afraid to go out there and just talk to him
i also think that a very special someone has a crush on u so just keep it up as i always say

GOOD LUCK!!!!


sorry i'm bothering u so much..lol well i ended up not seeing him on the last day of school[today].. so i'm juss gonna give up! i've been single all my life and i ain't surpised i'm still single today. thanks for everything. keep doing what you're doing ;] (link)
its ok bother me as much as u want
i don't care if its 24/7
anyway don't give up on ur love life just give up on that love situation
GOOD LUCK
IF THERE'S ANYTHING ELSE TO BE AFRAID TO ASK!!!!


hey! i was the person who asked about the boy who liked me last week...and he was like:" can't say hi?" ..LOL


well, i haven't seen him for the past 3 days. and monday is THE LAST DAY OF SCHOOL!!!! so if there's a chance i don't seem him..should i just move on? because i don't know if he has a myspace. and basically i don't know anything about him.so what should i do?
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my myspace is umm neeneebrittany29@yahoo.com
follow your heart but i think you shouldn't because he might just like you but he won't admit it so yeah umm email me and i give you one on one advice ok


i am horney all the time and i fingure my own self... what is wrong with me? (link)
there is nuthin wrong with you most gurls do it
its of sign of gettin ready to grow up. So if it feels wierdm talk to your mom about it. she'll understand she probably did it to. you'll never no if u don't ask.


i'm 14/f...and a 9th grader

so i think i like this guy. and idk if he likes me. and i've been fooled many times before so i don't want to be sure he doesn't like me. so i barely see him in skool cuz there's 2000 students in my skool. and when i do see him he smiles at me..and if i walk by him he goes,"you can't say hi?"[and he's still smiling] and it's not like in a RUDE Tone...he says it so sexy..lol [sorry]..so i don't know if i should move on or stick to him. he's a 10th grader and probably 16 yrs. old!!!
and school will be done next monday..so will it even matter because skool is ending??? '
so basically i want to know if he likes me? and shud i take the chance? what should i say to him if i see him in the halls? just please tell me everything i need to know about this. sorry but i'm an amateur and not too many boys have liked me in the past!!! ThAnx iN AdVaNcE!!! (link)
yes he is definitely interested so ummm... you should the chances of askin him. u may not see him but if ur aloud to give him your number than give it to him and you can talk
maybe youll see him next year rite
if he ask you out follow your heart wat do you think its not that bad its a two year differnce!!!


i apologize in advance for the length.

i'm 17/f. i don't like drinking. i don't find a point in it. my mom and my sister drink all of the time. it makes them do ridiculously stupid things; typical when you are drunk. my mom has done things like walked into doors, broken valuable things of hers, fallen down the stairs with my cat in her hand, and so on and so forth. my sister is only 19, and she drinks almost every night out of the week. her and her boyfriend broke up over her heavy alcohol use. now, my boyfriend is starting to become a big alcohol user. when i try saying something to them, they say i'm preaching to them, or i'm making everyone mad by preaching to them. what can i say? i'm so sick of everyone telling me i'm preaching to them. i don't like the people they are when they are drinking, and either is my dad. my dad's not even talking to my mom anymore. i need advice on what to say. i don't want to cry about the way things are around my house anymore. any advice would be greatly appreciated. thanks :) (link)
Hey don't feel down you can only do all that you to help them. If they don't want to go to help try to see if help can come to them. For your boyfriend tell him that he is either goin to have to stop or the relationship probably will not work. but if youve him all u can do is hope that he will top and until he does help him through it all. Do the same thing with ur mom and sister and see how that works but take small baby steps


ive been going out with this guy for 2 months and its been okay but hes in a different grade and i hardly get to talk to him. my mom took my phone away before i went out with him and i still havnt gotten it back but he has a cell phone. the problem is my parents wont let me talk on the house phone so i have to call him when my parents arent around which is hardly ever! the problem is that every time i get to call him(which is hardly ever)he ethier has his phone off or he wants me to call him back. the longest phone conversation was maby 16 min and then he said to call him tomoro.every conversation we have ends with him saying can you call me later and its so annoying.i called him today and he asked could he call me later and i told him he couldnt because it was my house phone then he told me to call him later and i asked him when and he said he didnt care just to call him later. i was sooo mad that he would say he didnt care. i understand sometimes your doing something important and arent able to talk on the phone but this is EVERY time i call him! i hardly know him because i can never talk to him for more than 2 min. (link)
i think you should lay off a bit maybe he;s sayin to call him back cuz he has to do something

if this isn't workin for you either talk to him about to his face not on the phone and let him know or tell him that this isn't working and dump him


hey, i just got a hamster and it smells bad. i know your not really suppose to bathe them so how can i make her smell better? (link)
you should go to a pet store and get training classes from or a vet office and they'll teach u how he can smell better

overall take care of ur hamster don;t use things and let him eat things that humans eat and use you can make him very very very sick.


can you make online purchases with a debit card? is it safe? (link)
i guess so
but if your young make sure parents know'
but if your old enough just be careful and go to safe sites with you can purchase with a credit or debit card


does anybody know the name of that song in shes the man

the one in the carnival scene and the other one was like right after duke agreed to help sebatian with his soccer (it was like zaggaza) (link)
the song is called ZINGY BY AK'SENT


17/f
How do I tell my mom that I am pregnant? She thinks I am a virgin, so not only do I have to tell her I had sex, but I also have to tell her that I am pregnant. Ever since I was little she told me that I would be the one to most likely get pregnant first (out of my older sister and I. I just don't know how to tell her. What do I say? How long will she stay mad? (link)
She will probably forgive you but she will never forget what you did

that was a kinda wrong thing to do

plus your seventeen your getting older your are almost a women in a year or so

say mom i need to talk to you
tell her your preganet slowly
she'll probably figure out you
had sex
she'll ask you if youu know who the father is and she'll maybe want to meet him for some questions like how do he plan on taking care of your child

But Congrats if your happy
and GOOD LUCK!!! WITH YOUR MOM
I HOPE IT ALL WORKS OUT


I heard a song on the radio that I really liked! I'm not sure the name, help please?
It goes like this
"Wind it up (uh), wind it up(uh), wind it up oh yeah.
Wind it up(uh), wind it up(uh), wind it up oh yeah.
Wind it up(uh), wind it up(uh), wind it up oh yeah.
Forget the conversation, just wind your body up."
It's not by Gwen Stefani, it's a girl & a guy singing in it. Thanks. (link)
the song is called wind it up by gwen stefani


I really want a kiss. I'm straight, yet somehow I've only ever kissed girls.
How can I get a guy to kiss me??? (link)
i don't understand if your a girl well do you like kissin girls stay wat with your comfortable with
if your a boy than same
but the girls go for low category things it depends
don't act like your pressed just go with the flow
Good LUCK


Ok im 14 and a female and i need a dress for my brothers graduations, and i wanna amke sure i get the right one

I have Hazel Eyes and light brown hair with like blonde highlights and its curly, i have chubby legs so i want it like knee lenght and im fat in the stomach so what color should i look for in a dress and and desigh like a stripe right below the breast or i donno anything but im going to the dress barn so and im ganna get something with cleavge cuz thats the best part about me so what should i look for in a dress (link)
you should go wat you feel is right
i think you should have a nice turquiose dress
blue or red or a nice pink
getr the shade of any of these colors that go well with your skin tone
GOOD LUCK!!
TELLYOUR BROTHER CONGRATS!!




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