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What Changed?
Why would a guy that you work with flirt with you for months and stare at you constantly, and smile when you walk in the room; but then when you finally show an interest in him he freaks out and barely talks to you anymore? Does that mean he lost interest? Or could there be another reason for this change?
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well usually when a guy finds out you like him..and he feels the same he'll get really nervose and not talk to you..so this is a good sign =]] have fun.
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He might be nervous to talk to you, and afraid that he might embaress himself, or he might be trying to stop liking you and start being just friends but he needs to have some space from you for awhile trying to get over his feelings for you, or he has changed his feelings for you and afraid that they may come back.
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Well, there are plenty of reasons for this to happen.
He may just be a big flirt. If he has a girlfriend, he doesn't think that flirting is cheating, so he flirted with you, a safe choice because you're 'work buddies'. But once you showed an interest in him he had to back off so his girlfriend wouldn't get word of it.
Or he may just like the chase but doesn't want to actually catch you. See, after months of you showing no signs of liking him back he thought of it as a game. You know, see how long it takes her to break down sort of thing. But after he got your affections, he was finished.
Or, he may just be really shy when the flirtation finally starts leading to an actual relationship.
I suggest asking him about it or just casually mentioning it. Or you could casually ask him if he's dating anyone to see about the first possibility.
Hope this helps
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