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i`m a pansy ?
so my b/f was on AIM and he's at the movies with his sister and my bf`s friend katie . anyways, he IMed me & said "hey im with people who hate you" and i`m all "wow thats nice . because they thing i`m a pansy , right? just because i wear hollister doesn`t make me a prep . get over it"
(i get really annoyed because he is on the punkish-emo side & so are his friends) anyways someone goes "this is his sister & katie we hate you go suck a penis you pansy!" and idk what i should do , he was being really rude && idk what i should say to him the next time i talk to him . any advice ? what should i tell him ? break-up or not ?
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dump him.
he's a pansy for letting
them treat you like that!
just be like,
"We're over. I don't like the way your sister and whomever else trated me. They're rude and judgemental and you did nothing to stop them."
and not that I'n in any way a fan of hollister,
but they shouldn't judge you by what you wear.
steorotypes are the stupidest thing since high school musical for godssake.
(no offense if you like high school musical though)
or if yuo really like the guy and all that jazz,
then talk to him about it.
Tell him you think it's unfair and judgemental that they say those things to you, and it hruts you that he dosen't defend you.
hope it helps <3
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sounds to me like your boyfriend is entierly immature and isn't that into you if he is going to let that happen.
i agree entierly with your friend and i do believe you should leave his ass. he is going to either try and make it look like he didn't know what was going on, or he will be even more rude because he's pissed you're leaving him.
either way, you're wayy better off without him.
<3 Beth
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I agree..
your boyfriend should nevvverr talk about you like that, that's terrible. If he friends don't like you, that's one thing. But, if he's making fun of you with his friends, that's just being a bad boyfriend. Talk this over with him and tell him how it hurts you. You're not a pansy whatsoever for wearing what you like. His friends are so caught up in labels and they're really immature.
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Well, if he disses you when he's with his friends then he doesn't respect you at all. If he really likes you, then he would be telling his friends to shut their big mouths. It's even more disrespectful to you when he calls you just to tell you that he's with people that don't like you.
If I was in this situation, I would be telling this boy to step off a cliff. You need to find someone that actually likes you for you and not just because he thinks he might get laid. In fact, there's probably some guy you know that is just dying for you to break up with your so-called boyfriend so he can ask you out.
Frankly, this guy's a jerk and you need someone who isn't such an ass-hat. Personally, I think you should tell him to go screw himself and then tell his friends about that.
Hope this helps you.
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