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Is it true that girls dont like gamers? By gamers i mean people who play video games as a hobby or a profession. Also is it true that they dont like computer techs? It seems like everywhere around where i live that girls find that to be a turn off. I live in Tennessee, if that helps. Just wondering. (link)
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no they dont mind, dont spend all day acting like a dork and theyll like you, you dont have to wear your mario sunshine shirt to school, wear polo to tommy. if you dont talk about it they wont mind.
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I was taken into a family at age 6 1/2 and Ive been with this family since.Well the mom of the family and I don't get along and well i really wish we did.I love her to death but I just don't think she really knows how much I care for her.Im also scared to get close to her because I lost my biological mother when i was 3 and I don't wanna lose her.She has a very weak heart and isn't doin too well right now so now more than ever am I scared to lose her.I really wanna become closer and be able to tell her almost everything if not everything.Anyways can someone plz tell me how I can get closer to her.Ive tried to write her letters and tell her openly in person but nothing has seemed to work.Someone plz help.
Signed,
Desperate to get close (link)
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tell her everything u told us. tell her how u want to be close to her but ur afraid it'll make losing her even harder. and think of it this way if it's really that bad do u want her to die without knowing how much u love her. hope u become closer to her and that u can finally tell her everythig u feel!
~Reenie~
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Hi JennaRESPECTS i am really upset. Im really worried that my best friend is avoiding me. I dont want to ask her because i dont want her to get mad at me. But i dont know what to do to find out if she is or not. what should i do? Help me please.. she means ALOT to me. I love her alot. Thanks so much!
Sincerley,
Confused and Worried.
My real name is alli.. but thats how i feel (link)
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i no how that feels and it really sux! invite her to do something fun or just call her to talk if it still seems like she's avoiding u u should ask. becuz when u think about it wats the difference in having a friend who doesn't hang out wit u and someone who's not ur friend not hanging out wit u. the only difference is it really hurts when u think ur friend is avoiding u!
hope everything works out!
~Reenie~
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hi! ok well i just started highschool . and my best friend goes to dif. school then me . and were allowed to talk to much cuz her mom dont like me and its a long story . well she sneaks phonecalls to me . and ovr the summer we would talk bout dif. things and she was totally dif. ( good dif.) b4 she started this new school. and she called me 3 days ago and she was acting REALLY preppy , and her voice sounded fake . and she kept bragging bout her new friends and her boyfriend she has ( boyfriend , its only been 1 week since school started) . and like she'll talk to me for bout 5min. and she'll ok i hav to go , and she just hangs up and duznt evn say bye and she duznt evn giv me a chance to talk . and its pissing me off a lot!!! i dono wtf happned to her , shes totallly different and wen she called one time i missed the call cuz i left my phone in my car and i got it and i saw the # and called it bak and her NEW friend answers so i ask if jenna was there and her NEW friend sez " jenna! its ur lil friend" i was like WTF!! and its pissing me off and i dono what to do . do i sound jealous?? i dont wana sound like a bitch but she's turned INSTANT POPULAR PREP!!! help plz!!!!!!! :( (link)
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it sounds like she really started to be rude to u. ask her y she's acting like dat and tell her dat it's really annoying. if she doesn't stop i think u shouldn't talk to her anymore! u don't need ppl like dat and u'll make ur own friends who WON'T treat u like dat!! hope i helped! and hope u meet some friends who don't treat u like dat!
~Reenie~
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I use to hate this girl at my school, i never said anything to her hurtful its just that she acts stuck-up but the problem is that my friend is friends with her and i cant stand being around her, I dont wanna tell my friend because i am scared she will stand up for the girl and stop talking to me. (link)
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first try to get along wit dis girl. maybe she isn't that bad once u no her. if she's still acting really stuck up tell ur friend even though u don't mind them being friends u don't like her, u tried to be nice to her but sometimes u think she acts stuck up and to please not bring her along when u 2 are gonna hang out. and if she gets really mad at u then that's her problem she should understand there r going to be ppl u don't like and that she can't MAKE u like them. hope i helped and hope it works out 4 ya!!!
~Reenie~
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Well...It started out as:
This guy IMed my friend and she added him to a chat we were having.Well after my friend left we started talking and he gave me his other screen names. We talked/talk everyday. Well, we got really close...and now I think I may be starting to develop feelings for him.
Is it wrong that I might like him as more than a friend if I've never met him face to face? I don't know if I should...because...well,I'm almost positive he is NOT a paedophile...but one can never be to sure. I don't want to get hurt like that, but I just want to know if its wrong to have a little crush on him. (link)
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it's not wrongto have a crush on him BUT i don't think u should meet him. he might not seem like a pedophile or anyone dangerous but that doesn't mean anything. in this case it's better to be safe than sorry!
~Reenie~
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Ever since fifth grade ive had a 2 really close friends that were like the only ones i ever hang out with. But one of my friends is also in this group of girls who im friends with but they always look like they have so much fun! I really want to hang out with more people but how do i do that with out acting like a tag along? (link)
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start inviting that group of girls over to ur house. then maybe they'll start to invite u places too. ur the one who has to talk to them first since the rest of them belong to a group. and u don't have to limit urself to just them! join a club that interests u or a sport. and talk to the ppl in ur class maybe u'll find another really great friend along the way! hope i helped
~Reenie~
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This girl and I recently became really close, we used to be good friends and then spilt apart. What got us to be so friggen close again is she went through the same thing I went through. All the drama with other girls befriending you talking behind you back and all of that. We are so close now and can trust each other and throughout the whole summer are bascally each others only friends. Well I am going to college now, and shes still in highschool and on the cheerleading team, where all these girls are. Well a whole bunch of stuff went down and apperently she does talk to tthis one girl that I know of which I don't care because I am sorta ok too. But the thing is apperently shes telling her and these other girls stuff about me. Like the things this girl told me to do because I was about to fight them .. they fought out .. not like everyday things but like things about fighting with a key between your fingers and if worst comes to worse use mase. And apperently when I was talking to this one girl she said all that to me, which my good friend told me. Also work got out that I had talked to the cheerleading coach, only my good friend knows and these two other girls I just "reunited with" that I`ve known since I was 3 and been super close with in the past so I know it wasn't them. So now I just don`t know what to do with this good friend of mine, like to know how close we are its crazy. But then I wanna ask her all these things but don't want to be :ignorant: or like blaming her like how did these girls find out when you said this all to me? And why did this girl tell me to watch out who i say stuff too and that shes friends with my "good friend"
thankyou so sorry if its confusing!! (link)
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look u sound like a good person and ppl r going to take advantage of u sometimes becuz of it. (believe me i no) and that's wat this girl did, she used u so she could have something to talk about. Since ur going off to college u'll meet "real" friends and it's the PERFECT time for u and her to go ur separate ways. good luck!!
~Reenie~
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My mom actually needs help with this one, but I'll explain.
Last night my neighbors who are around my age (I'm 14) came over. My mom rented 3 movies (even though we really couldn't afford it) but being the whiners they are, they didn't want to see any of them, so we let them bring their own movie over, for my and my 11-year old bro to watch with them. They chose Scary Movie and I have no idea why their mom let me! It was really inappropriate for my brother, who's going in to sixth grade. I mean, people were giving each other bjs and hjs, a girl got stuck to the ceiling by cum, etc. It was really digusting. The worst part is that they thought it was hilarious, Nick (older one, around my age) in particular kept going, "Noelle, come here" (my mom's name) at the grossest parts. Their mom is normally a pretty good mom but I just don't understand how on earth she could think it was appropriate for my brother. Obviously her boys were too immature for it too. My mom is going to call their Mom, Denise, whom we've been friends with for many years. Denise can get offended and mad very easily, so what should my mom say? And what should she say next time the boys want to bring over a movie?
Sorry about the long question. I rate! (link)
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ur mom should tell her that she doesn't think ur brother is old enough for those movies. and to please get something a little more age appropriate 4 him. hope it works out 4 them!
~Reenie~
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Okay I am seriously about to go crazy! I posted a question about my moms b/f being a jerk before so this kind of continous sort of. But My moms b/f is name dale and he has a 13 yr old son. well his son and friend went to this club for 13-20 yr olds and i felt like sleeping in the basement tonight. I wake up at 2am and find these 2 chicks sleeping in my room! He let his son bring in 2 girls from the club! im about to go nuts cuz i dunno what they are going through in my room! Dale is only doing this cuz he knows im pissed! im freaking 16 yrs old and i have no say about who can sleep in my own freaking room! Do you think im overreacting (link)
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ur NOT over reacting AT ALL. i would be so freakin' PISSED if that happened to me. ur 16 u deserve ur privacy!!! try to lock ur door at night or somethin' cuz that's ridiculous!!!
hope that changes.
~Reenie~
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my boyfriend and i have been together for almost 2 years now.. this year im going to be a senior in high school, and he's going into his sophomore year of college. he plays basketball, so sometimes during the season it is hard for us to be together. we made it through last year, but i just feel like im not really up to make it through this year. he lives like 20 minutes away down in the dorms. i really love him and dont want to break up, but what else can i do? i need attention haha... i feel selfish, but no.. im really just used to having him around whenever i need him. any tips, thoughts, suggestions? (link)
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being in luv should make u happy if ur not happy while ur in luv sometimes it's best to get out of it. explian how u feel and how u need attention maybe that will make him realize he should spend as much time wit u as possible! maybe u guys can work somethin out. give it some time to see if things get better but if they don't u need to figure out wether u can keep up wit a relationship like dat or wether u need someone u can ALWAYS count on to be there. hope EVERYTHING works out 4 ya.
~Reenie~
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My ex boyfriend whom I haven't talked to in a month just called me the other day. We went out for 6 months and he is 19 and im 17. Then for the last 3 or 4 months we talked like a couple times a month until last month when we didnt talk at all and during those 3 months i would always cry because i missed him so much and couldnt talk to him or anything. Then he called me a couple days ago and apologized for everything, told me he loved me and missed me and how much of a jerk he was and asked if i would give him anotehr chance. i really want him back but I dont know what to do i love him so much but I dont want to get hurt again but he is like the only person who truly makes me happy and makes me smile...I need advice quick! :( (link)
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everyone makes mistakes. give him another chance! but explain how u felt when he ignored u. BUT if he does it again tell him not to let the door hit him on the way out of ur life!! If u have any more questions im me on littlehelpergurl
~Reenie~
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ok well there is this girl that i have liked for a long time now but thought she was always " out of my league " well finally i told my best friend that i liked her one day and the next day he went and asked her out well they broke up and now the girl found out about how i liked her and she liked me the whole time too so now we wanna get wit each other but my friend keeps sayin if we do he wont ever talk to me again so im not sure what to do
what would you do???
sorry its so long (link)
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i don't think u need friends like dat. he betrayed u first if u told him that u liked dat girl and then he asked her out. so wat if he never talks to u again. he needs U more than u need HIM!! Hope i helped.
~Reenie~
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okay, this guy likes me, i mean really really likes me, and i am crazy fro him too, and we have a history. but anyways. he told my friend he really really likes me (we are a big group of friends...lol) and that he doesnt want to give me the impression he doesnt liek me cuz he does. but he's not ready for a relationship right now. but when he's ready he'll ask me out. and i think that i know why he isnt ready, and it's cuz of my freind (now ex-freind) who caused him to break up with me once and and then flirted around with him, just cuz she liked the attention, she didnt care a thing about him, and he ask her out and she laughed in his face and told him no. so, yeah, i think that may be why. but i dont know
so my questions are what does he mean by he's not ready for a relationship and what shoudl i do abotu what my friend did, cuz it realyl makes me mad that she would play with his head like that (even tho it was like a yr ago.)
any one have any ideas?
I RATE!!! (link)
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i think he means he wants to take things slow cuz of wat happened last time. he wants to show u that this time he wants it to work out better. and as for ur EX-friend just ignore HER!!! she's not worth ur time if she wants to be like dat it's her problem and if that doesn't work count to ten and think of good things like her falling off a cliff (hee hee hee) Hope he asks u out and i hope it works out this time!
~Reenie~
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my best friend changed so much in the past year. when i first met her she was almost prude and she was such a lil goody goody. she said she would never let a guy go up her shirt and how she would be afraid to jerk off a guy because she would think she'd hurt him lol. well she has been with this guy for about a lil bit over a year now. she has changed so much. she's drinking now, she has sex.. like too much sex (she does it with him every night like 3x) i really dont know what to do. i hate the fact that she has changed so much. all of our friends say the same thing and talk behind her back. they say stuff about how shes changed so much and how gross her and her boyfriend are when they are out in public with us. a little while ago her and her boyfriend were on me and my boyfriend's asses about how we hang out too much.. well now they are being hypocrits bc ever since they started having sex, they have been hanging out like everyday. i wonder if its because they wanna have sex? idk but i really need to say something but i dont know how.. what do you think? (link)
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well do u LIKE the new her? if u don't just tell her that u don't want to hang out wit ppl like dat. if u do still want to be friends wit her explain y u don't like how she acts and how u feel when u r around them. maybe u shouldn't hang out wit her as much as u used to. but don't be harsh cuz remember it's her life and she can live it how she wants to. i hope i helped.
~Reenie~
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My ex boyfriend whom I haven't talked to in a month just called me the other day. We went out for 6 months and he is 19 and im 17. Then for the last 3 or 4 months we talked like a couple times a month until last month when we didnt talk at all and during those 3 months i would always cry because i missed him so much and couldnt talk to him or anything. Then he called me a couple days ago and apologized for everything, told me he loved me and missed me and how much of a jerk he was and asked if i would give him anotehr chance. i really want him back but I dont know what to do i love him so much but I dont want to get hurt again but he is like the only person who truly makes me happy and makes me smile...I need advice quick! :( (link)
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So.. he hasn't got laid in the time since you've broken up, realised he's never going to get any and now comes crawling back to use you? Right.
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how do they test you for a.d.d? (link)
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theres a series of tests, infact i have to go... next week i think a series of 15 hours, 3 hours for 5 days... and im not quite sure yet, i'll tell you after i get tested!
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ok well im 14 and a girl and ive been goin out w/ this boy for awhile now and i love him more than anything and hes so awesome and nice to me and cracks me up all the time!!!! but he has this friend logan that keeps talkin to me and like every1 knows he likes me and i like him but just as a friend!! just as a friend!!! hes so freakin halarious and is funny but sometimes he talks to me infront of my bf and i think my bf is startin to think i like logan more than him but i dont and i cant be mean and tell logan hey stop hangin out w/ me u kno!!! i mean i dont wanna make my boifriend mad at me cuz i like him more than any1 ever and then i also cant be mean to my friend logan wat the hell do i do im so confused this sucks!!!! plz help plz help!!! (link)
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and just tell logan u like him as a friend. explain to him he will always have a place in ur heart. BUT he also has to understand that u have a boifriend that u love and don't want to lose. explain that to ur boifriend after talking to logan. if logan is really ur friend he'll understand! hope everything works out!
~Reenie~
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I met this guy, this AWESOME guy... I used to be one of those, daring girls, i would have turned really slutty and a rebel..huge if i didn't find this guy, this guy is a strong christian, he turned me around and got me help through God, he took me to church and everything and showed me how strong God is and how much I need him. He didn't like me after awhile. And that was my first love. im 14, who can feel love at this age, i know sounds stupid as ever. But this guy, had the greatest impact on my life, we're best friends, and he does this to every girl, just leaves everyone for a new one. Hes really good looking, and a really good kid. It's just, he was everything that I wanted. I've told him I loved him, he doesn't understand. I'd die for that kid.. Well, I almost did once, actually. He means everything to me. But recently we got into a fight that lasted for a month, that was the worst time in my life, it was the loneliest, coldest month of summer in my life. He forgave me, and we're okay now, but we're not as close. I want to be close, I told him I miss him.. But.. I'm still heartbroken and I still love him and I want to be here for him, even if it is just his best friend. But we aren't that close anymore, and I want to be that "best girl" in his life, the one who was there to wipe his tears and to hold him close when all was wrong. PLease help me..Just tell me what's going on... Please...
babii balla (link)
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just do wat u did here. open up to him. if u start trying to be close friends again maybe he will to if he knows that u trust him. be there 4 him. i hope i helped and i hope it works out.
~Reenie~
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okay well last night me and a bunch of friends were at the mall and we were just hanging out and this kid i thank i kinda like was there we were hanging out and stuff and i guess you could say we were "flirting" and 3 of my friends came up to me at the mal and were like he likes you you should go out w/ him hes really pretty you should but i really dont know if he likes me or not and im not to sure if i want a boyfriend rite now im so confused (link)
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ask him about it. if he does like u get to kno him better. then maybe u will want a boifriend and if u don't explain it to him. just say "all my friends keep telling me u like me, wats up?"
that's my advice to u. hope it helped!
~Reenie~
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