ok well im 14 and a girl and ive been goin out w/ this boy for awhile now and i love him more than anything and hes so awesome and nice to me and cracks me up all the time!!!! but he has this friend logan that keeps talkin to me and like every1 knows he likes me and i like him but just as a friend!! just as a friend!!! hes so freakin halarious and is funny but sometimes he talks to me infront of my bf and i think my bf is startin to think i like logan more than him but i dont and i cant be mean and tell logan hey stop hangin out w/ me u kno!!! i mean i dont wanna make my boifriend mad at me cuz i like him more than any1 ever and then i also cant be mean to my friend logan wat the hell do i do im so confused this sucks!!!! plz help plz help!!!
Derfel answered Sunday August 22 2004, 4:53 pm: Talk to your boyfriend and explain your just friends, ask if he has any worry's and address them. Your allowed to have as many male friends as you want and your boy friend has to Appreciate that. The foundation of any relationship must be trust - and if your relationship is going to work he has to trust what you tell him is true.
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napalm3400 answered Sunday August 22 2004, 4:29 pm: Well u can nicely tell logan that hey, we are just friends, and tell ur bf how u feel about him and tell him that he is the only one u love, dont u think 14 is a little young to love someone like a bf? well thats my opinion, hope i helped so i can get a good rating. [ napalm3400's advice column | Ask napalm3400 A Question ]
Hello180 answered Sunday August 22 2004, 4:21 pm: just talk to you boyfriend. Ask him if he's worried about it, and either way tell him he has nothing to wory about because you love him and wouldnt even consider hooking up with his friend. [ Hello180's advice column | Ask Hello180 A Question ]
Karen answered Sunday August 22 2004, 4:05 pm: Tell Logan that you are going out with someone and you are afraid that you are going to lose your trust and relationship with this person that you are going out with. If Logan likes you, he should listen to you and he will start to spend less time away from you. Also, tell Logan the truth that you only like him as a friend and that you are in a relationship with someone else. Hope I helped :) [ Karen's advice column | Ask Karen A Question ]
Jackie__xO answered Sunday August 22 2004, 4:04 pm: Personally, i think you need to really tell Logan that you don't see him this way and that you only see him as a good friend and you need to be completely honest with your boyfriend...honesty is always appreciated so just tell him everything and i hope everything works out for the best! Good luck! [ Jackie__xO's advice column | Ask Jackie__xO A Question ]
alyssa_ann answered Sunday August 22 2004, 3:55 pm: Your boyfriend prolly loves you as much as you love him. And if he thought that you liked Logan then he might not trust you as much as he should. I would prolly hang out with Logan still and if your boyfriend can't take that then I would move on. Hope this helps!! [ alyssa_ann's advice column | Ask alyssa_ann A Question ]
Jennifer790 answered Sunday August 22 2004, 3:38 pm: tell logan the truth, tell him u really like ur boyfriend... and u like him ONLY AS a friend he will understand. Honesty is the key!! its the best way to go!!! tell your boyfriend whats going on to so he doesnt get upset and reasure him everything is alright [ Jennifer790's advice column | Ask Jennifer790 A Question ]
brittishbaby answered Sunday August 22 2004, 3:26 pm: just tell your bf, were only frends and thats all were going to be. and thngs like that. but also assure ur friend that u have a bf but say it nicely so he doesnt get mad. IM me at JustASweetKiss76 id u have any other questions. [ brittishbaby's advice column | Ask brittishbaby A Question ]
mysticpixie05 answered Sunday August 22 2004, 3:21 pm: well just talk to your boy friend and explain to him that logan is just a friend and thats all and tell your boyfriend that you love HIM. basically tell him everything you have just told me. he'll understand. and if he doesnt then that means he doesnt trust you and you deserve some one who does. Good luck and i hope this helps ya. let me know how everything works out. just IM me and if ya need anything else just ask. XOXO [ mysticpixie05's advice column | Ask mysticpixie05 A Question ]
orphans answered Sunday August 22 2004, 3:19 pm: and just tell logan u like him as a friend. explain to him he will always have a place in ur heart. BUT he also has to understand that u have a boifriend that u love and don't want to lose. explain that to ur boifriend after talking to logan. if logan is really ur friend he'll understand! hope everything works out!
pinkdiamond22 answered Sunday August 22 2004, 3:18 pm: if u really like ur bf just tell him tha truth tell him that u have no intrest in logan.i mean yea logan's your friend and all but u seem to really like ur bf & u dnt want him to break up wit u or anything.as for logan just tell him to lay off a lil bit.if he's really ur friend he'll understand how much u like ur bf.i mean u can still hang out with logan and all just make sure ur bf knos that logan doesnt mean as much 2 u as ur bf.
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