Alright, for those of you who don't know me, i'm Jackie (obviously, check my username ;-]) and I'm 15, livin in Marlton, CHS student, etc. etc. I sdtarted this thing 'cause I thought I could put my amazing advice to use lol. I've been through alot and can relate to alot of people's questions, so I'll use my own experiences to help others. If you want to talk to me or ask me a question you don't want posted on my site, just send me an email: jackie7021@yahoo.com
Alright people, i'll add more later
lots of love,
Jackie
Website: My blurty
E-mail: jackie7021@yahoo.com
Gender: Female
Location: originally philly, now marlton
Occupation: studenttt
Age: 15
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Member Since: August 16, 2004
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slicing and dicing, she cuts deeper and deeper,
just one drop of blood will make her happy.
Crying and shaking, she raises the knife,
wishing for the courage to take her own life.
Pushing harder on the blade, trying to die,
she often just sits and wonders why;
Why are people so selfish and hating,
nobody knows the pain she suffers through.
She just wants love, why don't they understand this?,
Crying and trying to die once again,
all she really needs is one caring friend.
Depressed all the time for reasons unknown to herself,
wishing all the pain would just go disappear.
No courage to actually kill herself,
just cutting makes her feel better.
Wishing she could die, not knowing why,
just wanting love and companionship.
Crying and shaking, she raises the knife,
wishing for the courage to take her own life...
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Okay wow...this is something I've never had experience with, so i'm gonna try my best...
It seems like you think that killing yourself would be the best course of action. Whatever you do, don't do it. Though life may seem hard and unbearable and that you are totally alone, stop thinking that. There are people in the world that care and would not want to lose you. Life does get better, even though it doesn't seem like it ever will.
And as for the cutting, you really need to stop. It's dangerous to your health and you don't want to do something that may give you a temporary fix from the pain you are experiencing. Please, try to get some professional help. Doing this to yourself won't help and you need to focus on feeling better. I wish you all the luck in the world and just hold on. You'll be happy if you do.
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i have looong hair that i can't seem to do anything with, it looks nice straight, but i want to SPICE it up a bit, without dying it, ive done that enough
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there's a few things you can do without anythin like dying it. You can try highlites or you can try different haircuts. Try gettin layers, either chunky ones or your basic layers to give you more shape to your hair. Or you can try different ways to style your hair. Try scrunching it or curling it. If you want some more ideas, try talking to the person that cuts your hair. i'm sure they've got some good ideas too. I hope this helped!
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I'm 14/f, and my best guy friend is really awesome, so awesome infact that I actually like him as more than a friend. The problem is, I liked him before too and I told him then and he (atleast then) liked someone else. I really like him, but I don't want to ruin our friendship! (link)
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Well, i think one of the best things you can do is be honest. Honesty is always appreciated, no matter what is being said. He may like you the same way you like him! But if he doesn't, that's okay because there are sooo many other guys out there, so don't be afraid to find someone else! Good luck and I hoped this helped!
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i am in 8th grade and i never had a b/f and no one has ever asked me out!!! is that normal or am i like idk weird or sumtin (link)
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Don't think that you're weird or something! I didn't get bf's until i started high school. Sometimes its better to not get into relationships in middle school. Don't feel like you're weird or something because you're not. Just give it some time and I'm sure you'll meet someone who's perfect for you! Good luck and just stay patient! I hope i helped.
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hi does toothpaste rellay work on pimples/zits?!
KLG (link)
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I've never heard that before...it might, but instead of using toothpaste, i suggest hydrogen peroxide...it pulls all the bacteria out and it will heal better. And if you want the redness and swelling to go away, try putting ice on them. It really works!
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I'm 13/f with long blonde hair. I'm getting my hair highlighted (a lighter blonde) in a few days and i was just wondering is it really really bad for your hair? Can highlighting it do permenant damage? I'm not sure if i still want it highlighted if it's gunna ruin my hair. (link)
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Well, i highlite my hair and it doesnt do any damage. I've been gettin highlites for about 3 years now, and as long as you use like a shampoo and conditioner thats for color-treated or chemically-treated hair, and just use basic hygeine, you'll be okay. Be careful during summer tho, because chlorine can cause damage, but as long as you always wash your hair after being in the pool, you should be okay!
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ok well there is this girl that i have liked for a long time now but thought she was always " out of my league " well finally i told my best friend that i liked her one day and the next day he went and asked her out well they broke up and now the girl found out about how i liked her and she liked me the whole time too so now we wanna get wit each other but my friend keeps sayin if we do he wont ever talk to me again so im not sure what to do
what would you do???
sorry its so long (link)
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Wow, what a tough spot you're in! I've been in a situation similar to that, and I know how hard it is to make that kind of desicion. First, really talk to your friend. If he is as good a friend as he thinks he is, he'll understand and let you be with the girl you want to be with. And he he still insists on never talking to me again because of it, maybe he's not as good a friend as he thinks he is, as a good friend would try to understand. But, also remember that girls will come and go, but good friends always last. You gotta decide which is more important to you. I hope this helps and good luck!
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Im goin out with a guy who is 2 years older than me and he lives an hour away and we can never see each other and our parents don't approve of the relationship.He can drive on his own in January so then we'll be able to see each other but as of right now we can't and well im not really sure if i should stay with cuz well shouldn't relationship partners be able to see each other at least once a week?or at least once every 2 weeks?Anyways there is this guy who lives in the same town as me and is only 15 minutes away and he really likes me and i kinda like him and well im not sure if i should dump the other guy and go out with this one or stay with the other one.Anyways I really need help so plz offer as much advice as possible...thanks....
Boys are very Confusing :( (link)
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Long distance relationships are really hard to maintain. In all honesty, you need to see that someone pretty frequently and if there's a chance you'll barely see that person for a few months in a row, you may want to consider ending the relationship, as it will only get harder as time goes by. As for this other guy that likes you, i think you need to consider how you feel about him. If you *really* like him, then think about your other relationship, but decide that if you love your current boyfriend enough, try to stick it out a little while longer. good luck!!
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wut do i do? my boyfriends best friend ahas been saying crap to me about how i should treat my boyfriend and is always gettin me and my boyfriend into fights. i told my boyfriend about it and he says maybe u should listen to him and wont tell him to stop. i no i dont treat him like crap but he thinks i do bcuz his bf tells him i do. his bf had a bad relationship a lil bit ago andi think hes tryin to ruin r's. wut do i do? (link)
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Your bf should really be listening to what you say. If he cared about you at all, he would take into consideration what you're saying. It seems that your relationship isnt going well, and you really should think about ending it. No one deserves to be treated that way. It's not fair to you. You can do better than that. Your bf needs to learn to not always listen to his best friend because your best friend can sometimes be your worst enemy.
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i liked this one guy for like 2 years or so and i think he likes me but i didn't talk 2 him for like 3 months and then i saw him at the fair and started talkin 2 him again and i think i like him again cuz when i wasn't talkin 2 him i didn't like him nemore. but i talk 2 him online and sometimes i think i am talkin 2 him and it is one of his friends and they tell me not 2 talk 2 him and stuff and tells me he is gay but when i talk 2 him and i know it is him it seems like he likes me. could he like me and what should i do about his friends say that stuff cuz it gets annoyin and sometimes hurts what they say??? HELP !!!! (link)
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Well, it seems to me that, number one, you gotta be careful of what you say because of his asshole friends, and number two, you gotta make sure you're not setting yourself up for heartbreak. Make sure that he feels the same way you feel, and then advance, but try to figure out whats going on with him and if you can't figure it out, just ask him!
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ok well im 14 and a girl and ive been goin out w/ this boy for awhile now and i love him more than anything and hes so awesome and nice to me and cracks me up all the time!!!! but he has this friend logan that keeps talkin to me and like every1 knows he likes me and i like him but just as a friend!! just as a friend!!! hes so freakin halarious and is funny but sometimes he talks to me infront of my bf and i think my bf is startin to think i like logan more than him but i dont and i cant be mean and tell logan hey stop hangin out w/ me u kno!!! i mean i dont wanna make my boifriend mad at me cuz i like him more than any1 ever and then i also cant be mean to my friend logan wat the hell do i do im so confused this sucks!!!! plz help plz help!!! (link)
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Personally, i think you need to really tell Logan that you don't see him this way and that you only see him as a good friend and you need to be completely honest with your boyfriend...honesty is always appreciated so just tell him everything and i hope everything works out for the best! Good luck!
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