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friend? or more....?
I'm 14/f, and my best guy friend is really awesome, so awesome infact that I actually like him as more than a friend. The problem is, I liked him before too and I told him then and he (atleast then) liked someone else. I really like him, but I don't want to ruin our friendship!
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it might seem like it will ruin the friendship, in some cases it does. But if you kind of hint towards it he might either figure it out and hint back or come right out and tell you, or he might need a lil more to let him know. If he doesn't like anyone else that you know of, hang out w/ him a lot and let him know how much fun, and cool etc. you are to hang around. he might just end up liking you!
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If you told him before and it didn't ruin the frienship, then it probably won't mess things up now. Tell him that you still like him and he just might feel the same way for you.
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You have NO idea how many times this has happened to me. Not just having them liking someone else, just liking your best friend. For me, it's always turned out badly. I either get "I don't date friends, it ruins friendships if you break up", or "I'm not sure what to say..." or "Aww, I'm flattered". But it depends on the way you say it. I mean, telling them alone can change friendships. So just do what you think is right, no one can make this choice for you. If you do tell him, I hope it turns out great.
~Laura~
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just tell him u like him, and if he likes u 2, then that shuddnt ruin a friendship it would just make it "more friendly" lol yea and if he duzent like u like that, u just have 2 move on, but that wont hurt tha friendship i dont think. just take ur chances!
Xo HoPe I hElPeD oX
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2nd time is not the charm in fact its bad, if you were rejected once and you stayed friends trying again is one of the worst things you can do. now thats not to say you shouldnt go for it. flirt and stuff and make him ask you. if you ask him again it will make things fairly uncomfortable if he says he still doesnt like you. how long has it been? the less time theres been the more likely he will be to take the hint however the longer its been the worse of an idea it is to be the one to ask. hope that made sense.
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i think that you should tell him about how you feel, hopefully he'll feel the say way, if not than try to keep contact with him so that you could keep the friendship goin'. hope i helped.
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Well, i think one of the best things you can do is be honest. Honesty is always appreciated, no matter what is being said. He may like you the same way you like him! But if he doesn't, that's okay because there are sooo many other guys out there, so don't be afraid to find someone else! Good luck and I hoped this helped!
||.xOx.|| Jackie <3'
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I think you should tell him how you feel. It wouldn't hurt. Also, if he doesn't like you back as more than a friend, I don't think he'll stop being friends with you. Hope I helped and good luck :)
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Oooo, I've been in this situation too! It is such a difficult position to be in. But I ended up telling my guy friend that I liked him, nothing came out of it, but it just felt good to be open about it. If you feel comfortable enough to tell your friend, then I say go for it. Who knows? Maybe he could like you back. =) Good luck, hun. Whatever you do, keep you and his friendship strong. Friendship should always be first, and relationship should come second. I hope I helped. If you have any more questions, feel free to leave them for me!!! MWAH
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I would just be honest and tell him you like him. Even if he doesn't like you back, i dont think he will stop being friends with you. If he does, he wasn't worth it anyway.
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