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a friend dats never therre. . .
hey i am 14/f i reli need sum help with dis i hav dis friend n she tells me everything n we ben thro quite a bit i was always therre for her wen shtuff happened n i always helped her out tha problem is dat weneva i hav shtuff goin on dat i need 2 tlk bout she never listens lyk i start sayin sumthin n she'll cut me off n start tlkn bout herself or i want 2 tell her a funni stori but she interupts me in mai first sentence n starts sayin sumthin bout melissa(one of her reli good friends) i dunt wana confront her bout it cuz i kno dat she will get reli mad cuz she always tells me dat she is therre for me but in reality she isnt PLEASE HELP thank u sooooo much
* aLiCiA *
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Well isnt a friend someone who will be there 4 y0u thru thick and thin...and some who always listens 2 you....? i think so0o...If shes n0t willing 2 listen 2 y0u then she isnt much of your friend...well i think y0u should also talk 2 her bout it..and see wut she says!?ive been thru thys problem b4 and there tuff yes i kn0...butt she is your friend so0o you should talk 2 her bout ignoring you....
* Jenn *
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She isn't much of a friend if she's not willing to listen to you. You really should confront her. Tell her how you feel, though the truth may hurt, if she's a real friend, she'll be be glad that you brought it to her attention. If not, then she was never really your friend to begin with.
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You either got to:
A. Confront her.
or
B. Don't be there for her.
-xXoBrianna
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Hey girl if your friend doesn't want to listen to you then should find aonther friend who is loyal to you and will listen to what you got to say. I think you should talk to her about how you feel and if she start acting like you say she does then just try to take a break from her.
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ok well that happens to a lot of people. I think one of the only things you can do is let her know she cuts you off and it bothers you but tell her not to take it personally and be real nice about it.
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I have been in this situation so many times before, and it REALLY sucks. What I think you should try to do first is talk to your friend. Tell her how you feel, and let her know she isn't being a true friend because true friends give time to EACH OTHER, not just in a selfish one-way direction. Unfortunately, if she doesn't change, I'd say its time you found another friend who is there for YOU also.
Hang in there and good luck. I hope I helped in some way. If you have anymore questions, please feel free to ask.
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