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dont know what to do
ok well there is this girl that i have liked for a long time now but thought she was always " out of my league " well finally i told my best friend that i liked her one day and the next day he went and asked her out well they broke up and now the girl found out about how i liked her and she liked me the whole time too so now we wanna get wit each other but my friend keeps sayin if we do he wont ever talk to me again so im not sure what to do
what would you do???
sorry its so long
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Your Friend should understand that you like her and that they broke up. Just talk to him and ask why he doesn't want you to and then go from there. Good Luck!
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Ok..First of all...how Good of friends are you and that guy? Second..It is kinda retarded that your friend goes out with this girl knowing that you like her! Thats so messed up. 3rd If you guyz are BestFriends and love eachother then a girl couldnt break that up. Eventually he will forgive you. But thats also taking a risk of a friendship. Which one is more important..Friend? Or Girl that you love!? If you guyz are truly good friends then pic your friend...If you guyz arent that f=great of friends then pick the gurl!
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i hate to say this but your friend doesn't sound like a really good friend. he went out with the girl you liked knowing that you had feelings for her. if i were in your position i would probaly go out with the girl. your friend will eventually forgive you.
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personaly, i think u should go out with her. your friend sounds like a jerk; u told him that u liked her and then he went and asked her out .. so much for a best friend. GO OUT WITH HER- forget about ur friend.. he'll get over it
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lea
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tell your friend to go climb a barbed wire fence. he betrayed you! you told him you liked a girl and he asked her out? the barbed wire isnt mean enough for him. now hes trying to tell you not to go out with her and they broke up? jeez he has some nerve. go het her tiger lol.
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Well its not right that he did it to you.. like i said.. friends can not go out with ppl their so called *friends* like.. its wrong... you pretty much have 2 choices.. you could go out with her and lose a friend.. or you could stay friends... although he did hurt hurt you and all.. you should treat ppl the way you want to be treated..
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Well i wouldnt really care if he went and did something like that to you. Hes not a good friend in teh first place, he doesnt deserve to have you talk to him.I mean, you didnt get mad when you told him that you liked her and then he went off and asked her out! So just tell him that, and if he gives you a stupid reason, then i dont htink you should worry too much about loosing him in the future or not, because after a while he`ll probably end up doing a lot worse to you.
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i don't think u need friends like dat. he betrayed u first if u told him that u liked dat girl and then he asked her out. so wat if he never talks to u again. he needs U more than u need HIM!! Hope i helped.
~Reenie~
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if he wants to be like that then he is not a friend. first off he had no right to go and ask the girl out for himself the next day all because you liked her. if she is the person you are gonna be happy with in your life right now, then go for it and dont worry about what other people say or think. as long as your happy then you dont have to worry about it.
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hun,
oh, this is a bad situation. my advice to you is to go for the girl. because if your friend is threatening you with not being your freind, then he is not really your friend, or he is jealouse. and jealousy can be an ugly ugly thing. but if you like the girl, go for it.
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Wow, what a tough spot you're in! I've been in a situation similar to that, and I know how hard it is to make that kind of desicion. First, really talk to your friend. If he is as good a friend as he thinks he is, he'll understand and let you be with the girl you want to be with. And he he still insists on never talking to me again because of it, maybe he's not as good a friend as he thinks he is, as a good friend would try to understand. But, also remember that girls will come and go, but good friends always last. You gotta decide which is more important to you. I hope this helps and good luck!
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Why would your friend do this to you?!?! You obviously liked her way before he did. and yet he this to his "so called friend". I would be sooo pissed! But Ask him first about why he doesnt want you to go out with her. and Ask him why he asked her out right after you told him you liked her. But I would still go out with he girl. you even said she likes you too!! I had a friend like this kind of. It wasnt as bad because if she found out who you liked then she would start to like them too but she never went out with them but it was still sooooo frustrating! Keep in touch!! and i hoped i helped al little!!
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wait... u told him u liked her and he goes and ask her out the next day? wow.wut kinda friend would do that? I would still go out with her.If she likes u too then go 4 it! :)
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Hey! Well da first thing is, why did ur "friend" do this to u? Most guys think dat the gurls out of their leagues....which is so not tru!*lol* Your "best friend" is really wrong for doin dat to u! How did u react to it? i mean why did he do dat to u? Especially da gurl u like? I mean he's ur best friend so u don't really want to be madd @ him forever...but it's juss wrong!Your friend has no right really to say"if u go wit her, i won't talk to u anymore" u should be da person sayin dat, dude if ur friendship is dat strong, then this will all pass! I say go wt da gurl, talk it out wit him, N see if it'll work out, if not, then try to meet new ppl! Bros don't do dat to eachotha!If i wuz in ur postion, i would first off talk to ur friend, N try to see wut da hell is up? then i would talk to gurl, N see how long this thing been goin on(( as in liking u)) then ask if she would want to date, but one thing...if she knew u guys were best friends why did she go wit him? did she use him to try to get wit u? or did she like him too?Gurls should not get into a guys friendship, N vise-versa!!Do wut u think is right...But really talk it out wit ur "friend" see wuts goin on,N talk to gurl! I say go for it! Hope muh advice works! Tell me how it goes! GOOD LUCK! Take care
-Phuong
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First I would ask your friend why he doesnt want you to go out with the one girl.I mean there could be something he knows about her and didnt want to tell you or he might not want you to get hurt.But if he doesnt have a reason then i think thats kinda mean of your friend to do.Even if he doesnt like the girl he should still be happy for you and your girlfriend.There's always that chance he could be really jealous of you.I mean look it he got the girl for a little while but she's liked you all that time.I definatly think you should go out with her but give your friend sometime, just try and put yourself in his shoes for a minute.Good Luck!Let me know how it works out.
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go with the girl, he betrayed you and wen out w/ her so y cant u?? i think u should go for it. but do wut u want. If you need nayhting else feel free to ask or IM me on JustASweetKiss76.
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ok well first of all, yur friend knew that yu liked this girl .. and he still went and asked her out for himself!! ..so he shuld have no room to talk .. let yur friend kno that hez the one that wuznt a good friend...remind him that yu were the one that told him yu like her .and then HE went and ask her out for HIMSELF?? tell him that its not right how hes threatening to not be yur friend anymore if yu 2 go out bc hes the one that disrespected yu in the first place..
and also, if this girl lyked yu all along..then why did she say yes to yur friend????
-ash
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