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Having boy trouble and I really need help!!
Im goin out with a guy who is 2 years older than me and he lives an hour away and we can never see each other and our parents don't approve of the relationship.He can drive on his own in January so then we'll be able to see each other but as of right now we can't and well im not really sure if i should stay with cuz well shouldn't relationship partners be able to see each other at least once a week?or at least once every 2 weeks?Anyways there is this guy who lives in the same town as me and is only 15 minutes away and he really likes me and i kinda like him and well im not sure if i should dump the other guy and go out with this one or stay with the other one.Anyways I really need help so plz offer as much advice as possible...thanks....
Boys are very Confusing :(
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Think to yourself. Who do you feel most confortable around? Who do you look forward to seeing everyday? You should pick the guy who you really like, based not upon how far apart each of you live. :)
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Long distance relationships are really hard to maintain. In all honesty, you need to see that someone pretty frequently and if there's a chance you'll barely see that person for a few months in a row, you may want to consider ending the relationship, as it will only get harder as time goes by. As for this other guy that likes you, i think you need to consider how you feel about him. If you *really* like him, then think about your other relationship, but decide that if you love your current boyfriend enough, try to stick it out a little while longer. good luck!!
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who do u like more? answer that ? and then go for them, relationships are all different so u cant base urs on everyone elses... just go with ur instincs and dont worry it will all work out in the end
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i say this advice A LOT but get to kno the guy u live near see if this relasionship could go anywhere. i'm not saying go out with this guy but become friends and see wat happens.
~Reenie~
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Well, I think you should go with this other guy cuz he's much closer to you and as you said your parents dont really approve of the guy who is 2 years older than you. But you never know it could be worth the wait! hope i helped! ~kayleigh
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Sweetie if you really like your boyfriend you will try and make it work. It will only work if you make it. So don't just give up on it because "normal" relationships see each other once or twice a week. Thats terrible thinking. Be happy with your relationship, because maybe that couple that sees eachother one or twice a week is extremely miserable. Think about it? And if this guy that lives in your town is def. making you happier then dump your boyfriend and go for it. BUT! Don't dump your boyfriend because this guy just happens to live in your town and you're just looking for an easy way out. When really you may not even like this kid, but since he lives in your town you feel a bit angry that your boyfriend isn't there. And you go off running to the next boy you see. This is a very complicated decision. And i woudln't just take a second to think about it. THink about your boyfriend, didn't he make you happy? Does he still make you happy? And maybe even once your boyfriend can drive he'll be able to come visit you every day! I mean its only an hour away, its not too bad. So think about it, okay? I hope i helped. Rate me? =)
anna
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Yea boys are definatly confusing!Well if you really like the guy who your with now I would stay with him.It could be worth the wait.Right now your in a long-distance relationship which being apart from each other is really tough, but will pry make you two stronger.You should try and be fair to yourself and fair to them.I think whoever you have stronger feelings for is who you shoudl be with along with who makes you happy.Hope i helped.Good Luck!
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do oyu love the guy your wit ? n how logn have you been with him?
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It sounds like it isn't working out. You seem very sad that you never see your boyfriend. It's not worth feeling this way. I think you should break up with him. Tell him that you don't feel like you can handle a long distance relationship. Wait a few weeks to get over him, then go after the guy who lives in your neiborhood.
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