me and my ex boyfriend were one of those couples where we were exact opposites. he was kind of "Wigger-ish" and i was moare "Skater". he would even call me a skater .. and then he'd say how much he hates them. it always affended me so he would add "Except for you" but it didnt make much of a difference. when he found out my favorite color was orange, he got all weird like "Holy fuck, you're only supposed to like black". who the hell tells their girlfriend, let alone anyone .. what colors they can like? it really pissed me off, and we broke up later that night for other reasons, and he just moved here over the summer (thats how i met him). now hes going to my school where no one knows him, and he's going to be in most of my classes. i really liked him even though we were different. and im shy around guys so i probably wont talk to him. what should i do if i want to be with him again, but keep him from treating me like shit?
Jennifer790 answered Sunday August 22 2004, 4:05 pm: dont label ppl... save that for soup cans!... tell him how u feel tell him u dont apprciate how hes acting and that it hurts ur feelings and if he really cares hell stop and if he doesnt stop then dump him... i skateboard to and i dont like how ppl judge and sterotype... so dont worry ur not alone and im sure if things get worse u can find sum one better! good luck [ Jennifer790's advice column | Ask Jennifer790 A Question ]
tinkerbell answered Sunday August 22 2004, 12:49 pm: That really sounds like the kind of teasing that he wouldn't notice that you were upset by it. Like he probably thought he was just joking around, you know? So if you want to get back with him the 'treating you like shit' is probably going to continue because I think that's his personality, that kind of joking. Either get along with it, tell him how you feel about it, or forget him as a dating possibility. **Kacie** [ tinkerbell's advice column | Ask tinkerbell A Question ]
icey0990 answered Sunday August 22 2004, 11:55 am: Hey..being that he`s new, he`ll be looking for someone to kinda guide him on his first week or so. Work up your courage and offer to do show him around to friends and etc. , then i think it will be easier for you to get back with him. At lunch talk with him about your past relationship..ask what he thinks about giving it a second try. If you dont want to do that, just keep showing him around..you guys will get closer, have a few laughs, and hopefully one thing will lead to another. :) Good luck..!
-melissa- [ icey0990's advice column | Ask icey0990 A Question ]
Madde_Moe04 answered Sunday August 22 2004, 11:53 am: well if hes going to your school,and if you dont like him now just stay away from him and if he bugs you at all then just tell someone..but if your starting to like him a lot and dont want him to treat you like shizit then talk about it with him...hope it helps :) [ Madde_Moe04's advice column | Ask Madde_Moe04 A Question ]
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