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Question Posted Monday August 23 2004, 12:24 am

This girl and I recently became really close, we used to be good friends and then spilt apart. What got us to be so friggen close again is she went through the same thing I went through. All the drama with other girls befriending you talking behind you back and all of that. We are so close now and can trust each other and throughout the whole summer are bascally each others only friends. Well I am going to college now, and shes still in highschool and on the cheerleading team, where all these girls are. Well a whole bunch of stuff went down and apperently she does talk to tthis one girl that I know of which I don't care because I am sorta ok too. But the thing is apperently shes telling her and these other girls stuff about me. Like the things this girl told me to do because I was about to fight them .. they fought out .. not like everyday things but like things about fighting with a key between your fingers and if worst comes to worse use mase. And apperently when I was talking to this one girl she said all that to me, which my good friend told me. Also work got out that I had talked to the cheerleading coach, only my good friend knows and these two other girls I just "reunited with" that I`ve known since I was 3 and been super close with in the past so I know it wasn't them. So now I just don`t know what to do with this good friend of mine, like to know how close we are its crazy. But then I wanna ask her all these things but don't want to be :ignorant: or like blaming her like how did these girls find out when you said this all to me? And why did this girl tell me to watch out who i say stuff too and that shes friends with my "good friend"

thankyou so sorry if its confusing!!


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orphans answered Monday August 23 2004, 3:29 pm:
look u sound like a good person and ppl r going to take advantage of u sometimes becuz of it. (believe me i no) and that's wat this girl did, she used u so she could have something to talk about. Since ur going off to college u'll meet "real" friends and it's the PERFECT time for u and her to go ur separate ways. good luck!!

~Reenie~

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xxoBriannax answered Monday August 23 2004, 3:38 am:
If she was such a good friend, you wouldn't be hearing the shit you are. When you go to college, you'll meet new people. But, if you still want to be her friend just talk to her about it and ask why she's telling people that, tell her that you know it's her because you only told her. Good luck.








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Sunshine answered Monday August 23 2004, 1:29 am:
If she really is true friend, then she wouldn't be telling everyone what you told her. Since you are going off to college, this is the perfect opportunity to go your seperate ways.

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LilMia811 answered Monday August 23 2004, 12:42 am:
so... she befriended you. are you surprised. you cant trust many people these days. stop hanging with the girl, shes not your friend. shes gonan cause you trouble,

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