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guy isnt ready for a relationship????
okay, this guy likes me, i mean really really likes me, and i am crazy fro him too, and we have a history. but anyways. he told my friend he really really likes me (we are a big group of friends...lol) and that he doesnt want to give me the impression he doesnt liek me cuz he does. but he's not ready for a relationship right now. but when he's ready he'll ask me out. and i think that i know why he isnt ready, and it's cuz of my freind (now ex-freind) who caused him to break up with me once and and then flirted around with him, just cuz she liked the attention, she didnt care a thing about him, and he ask her out and she laughed in his face and told him no. so, yeah, i think that may be why. but i dont know
so my questions are what does he mean by he's not ready for a relationship and what shoudl i do abotu what my friend did, cuz it realyl makes me mad that she would play with his head like that (even tho it was like a yr ago.)
any one have any ideas?
I RATE!!!
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WEll give him some time he probably just doesnt wanna get rejected like your friend did to him. So maybe if you wait he wil lbe ready. AS for your friend confront her as to why she did this to you. But thatz wrong- your friendz should never do that to you
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This happened to me recently. The whole thing about how the guy you really like but he doesn't want a relationship is exactly what I went through with my last boyfriend. I liked him for 3 months before we ended up going out and we made it for almost 2 months. Just wait it out. Talk to him all the time. Make sure there are situations that you two can hang out and you can show him that you aren't pressuring him. It works, I swear. My,now, ex-boyfriend Tom waited for 2 months to ask me out because he wasn't ready. I waited and he asked me out. So just show him what a fun, interesting person you are and do not ask him when he's going to ask you out. That will show him that you're impatient.
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i think he means he wants to take things slow cuz of wat happened last time. he wants to show u that this time he wants it to work out better. and as for ur EX-friend just ignore HER!!! she's not worth ur time if she wants to be like dat it's her problem and if that doesn't work count to ten and think of good things like her falling off a cliff (hee hee hee) Hope he asks u out and i hope it works out this time!
~Reenie~
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he prolly means that he likes you alot and doesnt want to jump into things out of the fear of rejection and being hurt again. try talking to him and let him know you feel the same way for him and let him know that you dont wanna hurt him. and as for what your friend did to him, there is nothig you can really do except for maybe talking to her and telling her how bad she really hurt him and now because of it he is scared to get into a relationship with you. and if she doesnt care then you dont deserve to have a friend like her. but whats done is done and you cant change the past. lemme know if ya need anything else. ill be glad to help, just leave one in my inbox or IM me. let me know how things work out. good luck! XOXO
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PeRhaps he is saying that he's "not Ready foR a Relationship" because he Really *DOES* like you, but he may just need some time to fully exploRe all of his options and make the best choices. And as faR as what youR fRiend did.. I wouldn't do anything about it; because what CAN ya do, ya know? It's in the past.. damage done. Just tRy to move on and shake it off; no biggie. I wish you the veRy best of luck!! Hope I helped!! =D
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