Hi JennaRESPECTS i am really upset. Im really worried that my best friend is avoiding me. I dont want to ask her because i dont want her to get mad at me. But i dont know what to do to find out if she is or not. what should i do? Help me please.. she means ALOT to me. I love her alot. Thanks so much!
Sincerley,
Confused and Worried.
My real name is alli.. but thats how i feel
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Friendship? orphans answered Monday August 23 2004, 4:00 pm: i no how that feels and it really sux! invite her to do something fun or just call her to talk if it still seems like she's avoiding u u should ask. becuz when u think about it wats the difference in having a friend who doesn't hang out wit u and someone who's not ur friend not hanging out wit u. the only difference is it really hurts when u think ur friend is avoiding u!
hope everything works out!
AllyKnows answered Sunday August 22 2004, 3:47 pm: Hey my name is alli too sept its spelled ally. Anyway, what you need to do is like ask her if she wants to do stuff with you, like come to your house or go to a movie or something and if she says no to the majority of it, then yeah she prolly is avoiding you so you then need to ask her if there is anything wrong. She could be mad at you, something could be going on in her family, anything could have happened if you find out she truly is avoiding you. That's why you need to confront her to see if she's alright. just say hey, are you okay? We haven't been hanging out much lately and i was wondering whats up? Don't just burst out ur avoiding me. That will get her upset. Good luck. [ AllyKnows's advice column | Ask AllyKnows A Question ]
MissIiVannaH answered Sunday August 22 2004, 1:00 pm: you need to sit down and comfront her because if u really care about her then u need to ask her wuts going on and let her know u dont want to lose her friendship thats the best thing i think u could do.well good luck i hope i helped....:) [ MissIiVannaH's advice column | Ask MissIiVannaH A Question ]
UnluckyWishes answered Sunday August 22 2004, 12:31 pm: Wow.I know exactly how you feel, right now i'm going through the same thing, with my best friend{practicaly sisters}.right now i'm just giving her some time to herself.Maybe she wanted a break for a while, if you two spend all the time together.I'd let it go for a couple more days and see if she calls you or give her a call and ask her to do something.Or you could talk to her on the phone, in person ,IM her, or send her an e-mail asking her whats going on , I feel like i'm losing my best friend i dont want that to happen.Just tell her straight out what your feeling, as long as she's your friend she'll respect what your saying.Hope i helped.Let me know how it works out. [ UnluckyWishes's advice column | Ask UnluckyWishes A Question ]
xoMarisox answered Sunday August 22 2004, 11:36 am: If you think your friend is avoiding you, you should confirm it with her. You need to tell her how you feel and what you think. She may get angrey but, she really shouldn't. It is her prob. not yours! Rate me please! Hope I helped! [ xoMarisox's advice column | Ask xoMarisox A Question ]
JennaRESPECTS answered Sunday August 22 2004, 9:50 am: Well maybe she is avoiding you once in a while because she needs some time alone!!!you need some time away from your "best friend" also , i mean school is starting in 3 days!She might be very busy.
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