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my parents don't like my boyfriend..because i went out with him before and he treated me pretty bad..but i really think he has changed but i don't know if my parents think that or not! what can i do to make them gain trust back in him? because if they don't trust him that means i don't get to see him as often?
i rate super high! (link)
Well, there really is nothing you can do to get them to trust him again. You obviously have mentioned him to your parents, so they have probably seen how much he hurt you. He has hurt their "baby girl" and therefore doesn't even deserve a second chance. You can try talking to your parents about it, invite him over for dinner, etc, but that's really all you can do. It's then up to your parents whether or not they want to trust him again.




This year at My new Middle School* I met this really Cute boy .. + He's in like all my Classes and we became really good friends.. well about a couple days ago He asked me out and i said yeah! But Then i found out that he only had one gurlfriend but they went out for awhile but they never did anything so his friend told me he thinks he never kissed! Well I dont JuSs wanna be a couple that talks i wanna kiss and hold hands and that lil Stuff! So should i JuSs make the move or should i tell his friend to get him to do it ?! Oh but he does hug* lol!! Alright.. Please Help Me Out (link)
make the move, you dont have to wait, there no rule against that, it appreciated, he probably shy or nervous


i am a freshmen ... and a senior is hitting on me ... it is now September ... but this has been going on for about a year. He is a Lifeguard at a pool i was at during the winter, and he IMed me and told me that he really likes me and that im pretty and stuff and he wants to go out with me. He seems nice but my parents will NEVER go for it .... but he still talks to me and stuff ... at times he can be gross ... but hes pretty nice ... i never see him tho .. he goes to a different high school..... im just SO CONFUSED !!!! (link)
dont go out with him hes to old and it wont work out.


Alright i'm a 15/f and over the summer i got into a fight with a friend. Well she's a complete bitch so I had no problem getting ride of her. Except now she's acting like an ass and making up all this shit about me. I really could care less waht the fuck she wants to say but she's like convincing all these guys to hate me. Right now the last thing I want are my guy friends to hate me. what do I do to get her to buzz off? (link)
well see this is a problem, the only thing i can think of is for you to "deal with her" but i dont know how big you are or any of that whatnot. there really isnt a whole lot you can do other than convince them that what she is saying is a lie or just confront her about it and say that she needs to stop and try to make it so that you are both mutual, not friends or enemy.


alrighty then my best friend that i've been bests friends w/ for like 4 yrs won't speak to me. and i had no idea why until yesterday --- i'm going out w/ chris and i just found out that she had feelings for him and i told her that i'd break up w/ him just so she could try to have him and she wont say a word and i try to talk to her but she just ignores me so i dont know if i should break up w/ chris...i mean i really really like him and he treats me right.....doesnt try to have sex w/ me, he just holds my hand and kisses me, and is always there when i need him most...i just dont know wat to do...help please i need it
~*lashes*~ (link)
it's obvious u really like this guy and that u didn't kno that ur friend had feelings for him. i think that u shouldn't break up wit him becuz (by the way ur friend is acting) it seems like she would have gone out wit him if he had asked her out instead even if u had feelings for him. try explaining how u feel, and also u two might need to take a break from each other. hope it works out with ur friend. and hope i helped!

~Reenie~


my boyfriend doesnt talk to me .. what should i do? (link)
hey hun well i would try talking to him and ask him whats going on and if he still doesn't talk to you then its not worth the struggle.....
tell me what happens!
xo danielle


im having a sleepover and i need a theme.there will be 3 girls there and we r 14 so plz help wiv sum good themes i rate well (link)
i think u should discuss it with ur friends and see what the would want as a theme.


Hey! Okay, well I am 14 female.. about 5'7 235lbs! I know... FATTY! but still... So, i wanted to go to this weightloss school but it was almost 6,000$ and across the U.S. for me so my mom was like NO WAY! but first I wanted to get homeschooled. and then again No! so I was like Private school.. Too much money she said.. I have 4 sisters n she is seperated from my dad!! So yeah, I have to go to a public school (freshman) n alot of ppl make fun of me.. I cant run fat or anything.. n i wanna start losing weight now, pick up my speed, and then just be a whole new me next yr.. i used to play softball, and i was well good at it.. but got too old to play slow pitch!! I mean im not saying i have no friends or anything.. but my thighs, but, stomach, arms, n etc... I know.. drink water n blah blah! but nothing works for me.. im probably gonna get Slim in 6 (www.beachbody.com) but I dunno if it will work or not.. im thinking i wanna lose 100lbs or so n sorta fat but like not too fast! i just wanna be left alone n not singled out everytime i go somewhere with a bunch "skinny" ppl, and this sumemr i was gonna change everything but stayed n side n was lazy!! n now 2days b4 school starts i wanna chnage everything!! i know its gonna take time but i wanna try sommin n see if it works.. i need lots of ideas, help, motivation, and support!! I seriously want a whole new me. i mean the "stretch marks" are ugly n never gonna go away so ill always remember being fat, i just want it to stop!! i wanna be the one not scared to speak up, and express what i think, i wanna be the one telling the person not to be making fun of someone, not the one being made fun of!! I want to change me!! have a high self esteem n just have fun!! so yeah u think u can help??? I'd rlly appreciate it!!! Any advice will help me .. i mean have any of u ever been n the same position or anything?? I was thinking baout even killing myself once, and i wanna "throw up" wut i eat but i dunno if thats smart, its like i cant stick to anything.. all i know is i wanna look good ... fast... not for boys... but for me.. n for all the teasing to stop!! I ask u all hoping for help!! Thanks alot, xOxOxO (link)
I think u should drink more water and dont eat big meals.Whatever u do, do not eat cheese,icecream,candy,no dairy products,or fruit. Always be on the go.Never be lazy. hope i could help...............


Ok when either me or my brother are on AIM it says we have ad-ware in the AIM software. When I'm in it it randomly puts on a away message with this link and it says still friends?? We've run the Norton Anti-Virus on it and Spy Sweeper which is supposed to get rid of ad-ware and spy-ware. How did we get it and how do we get rid of it? (link)
i had the same thing, i had to delete aim and download it again, just save your buddy list and delete it, if you have dial up than youll have to spend time downloading, i hated that so i got cable its fast. just delete it and download it again. its free.


is wakling just (or close) as good for you as running? like can i loose weight from walking 20 minutes a day or does it have to be running? thanks i rate!! (link)
youll lose more weight running


does drinking lots of water actually help you lose weight? and if yes, how much should u drink? (link)
its not the water that helps you lose weight its what your drinking the water in place of, if your drinking water, you not drinking things like coke or other beverages that have a large amount of sugar in them, drink as much as you normally would, dont just sit around drinking water and expect to lose weight you should drink it when you want to.


I'm 14/f. Yesterday I found out that one of my closest guy friends likes me in a romantic sense. Let's call him "Jordan." He has liked me for possibly a year. We have been friends since we were 2 years old. I have just recently, a month ago, started liking him in a romantic sense. My problem is that I did like another guy let's call him "Dave" for a year and a half. I fell hard for him. I only saw him once over the summer. I have since stopped liking Dave as much as I used to. Possibly because I haven't seen him, and possibly because I have just gotten over him. I don't like Jordan as much as I used to like Dave. Jordan asked me out and I am afraid to say yes in the event that I see Dave and fall head over heels for him again. I like the friendship that me and Jordan share. I don't want any awkwardness between us. I get EXTREMELY nervous around guys that like me. What should I do? Should I go out with Jordan and hope for the best? Or should I say I want to stay friends? I feel that knowing that we like each other is enough and that it also leaves the possibility open to dating and a relationship. I should also mention that I have never had a real boyfriend before. Sorry this is so long, but I could really use some good advice. (link)
youve known "jordan" for a while so you should know if he is good to his girlfriends,(honest and whatnot) so go out with him.


Hi, I'm a 15/F. I guess you could say I have like average self esteem. Some days I think I look SO adorable. But other days I hate everything about myself. For example: I bought a shirt and when I tried it on I loved it , then I tried it on at home and I thought it made me look horrible. Does anyone know why this happens to me & what I could do to fix it ? Thanks in advance.

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keep the tag on it and take it back, get another one: repeat as desired.


about how much does contacts cost?! and how easy are they to use?! i rate high! (link)
i depends on what type you buy and they are pretty easy to use as long as your not nervous. good luck


ok.. how many of you think its possible to love at 15? i kno there's girls on here and guys that say they love their bf/gf. but do most of you take it as "puppy love?" i think it is possible. bc see my bf now.. ive been with him 9 months and i lost my virginity to him and the thing is my mom and family dissapprove of me and him together... because hes black n im white. but i still go to see him and he comes to see me at like the park and stuff and we hang out. and im 15 and so is he. i mean i kno this may sound stupid but i really can see myself with him forever. like i dont want to be with anyone else. i kno i love him and not that fake stuff. i would do anything for him. i kno u all dont think i kno what love is bc im so young but thats ok. but i do love him with all my heart and i would die for him... but how many of you believe that u can love someone at 15?
id like to hear ur comments. ill rate. thanks..
Manda (link)
i think it's possible to be in love at any age. but sometimes wat ppl think is love is really just a crush. but it's not always that way. i think if u've been together for 9 months and u still say u love him then it sounds like u really do love him!!! Good Luck wit ur bf!!!!

~Reenie~


I have to get an MRI done on my head...(lol) n im closterphobic(sp?)..anyone know any ways to help me get thru that hour? (link)
well your not completly sealed in so remember that


will you be considered a "nerd" if you wear glasses in highschool?
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no, well you will be if your a nerd.


I'm not very physcially fit, I dont exercise a lot and well i started skool few days ago and i have gym..my teacher is crazy and makes us run a lap, run up stairs, run down a hill, do 20 crunches, 10 pushups, and then do it one more time! Before that we have to run acrross the football field doing things like skipping, jumping,jogging whatever. And thats all for the warmup! is there anything i can do to less the pain i feel after we have our warmup??? my legs are so sore i can barley walk! thanks i rate! (link)
i just started playing football for my highschool so i know how you feel. we are pushed a lot and sometime you want to give up but truley the only way to make it easier is to not give up, make sure your coach gives you water, your body wont appear to be dehydrated but inside its not running as well as it should, just drink water and dont give up.


im using to being around my friends. . ever since elementary school .. and now i moved to a different city within 4 miles of my hometown.. so now i have to go to a different high school than everyone else and it really really sucks. i cry at school like everyday.. i really want to go to my other high school, and i could, but my parents wont let me.. ive tried convincing them everyday for like 1 week and a half and its not working .. and i know its not going to.. im thinkin about moving in wit my aunt that lives down in pompano so i can go to the school im happy at but she lives in a sort of ghetto area so im not sure .. but i wouldnt care ... yet i dont want to hurt my moms feelings by just leaving... how can i just GO to the school i want to go to? (link)
well i'd give this school a shot. u've only been there for a couple of days. maybe u'll make some new friends. just start talking to some of the people in ur class. and besides u u only live 4 miles away from ur old friends. u can still talk to them on the phone, on-line, and go over each others houses. hope u make some new friends at this school and hope it turns out O.K.

~Reenie~


Here's the deal, I hate school so much! I do really well, but I just hate it? Any suggestions? (link)
just find one thing u love to do and can look forward to. that's wat helped me get through school! y don't u see if there are any clubs at school ur interested in. then u can look forward to that during the day. p.s. EVERYONE hates school!!!! hope i helped

~Reenie~




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