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Freshmen/Senior
i am a freshmen ... and a senior is hitting on me ... it is now September ... but this has been going on for about a year. He is a Lifeguard at a pool i was at during the winter, and he IMed me and told me that he really likes me and that im pretty and stuff and he wants to go out with me. He seems nice but my parents will NEVER go for it .... but he still talks to me and stuff ... at times he can be gross ... but hes pretty nice ... i never see him tho .. he goes to a different high school..... im just SO CONFUSED !!!!
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the age difference is a huge factor... and if you never see him what are you going to tell your friends? "i have a boyfriend but i never see him and my parents dont kno about it" Go for a guy in your grade or in 10th! you'll find out youll b a lot happier! But there seems to be something wrong with a senior likeing a freshman! Just be friends!
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Ussualy when a sernior likes a freshman that means he wants freshmeat aka BoOtY. He sounds nice but be carful! Be friends with this guy insted of going out!
xoxo chels
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He might want to use you maybe? Just a thought. If that's not the case, there are still other problems.
I know "age shouldn't matter", and that is true, but it can be a big obstacle. You'll have to deal with friends and family and crap. After his senior year he'll probably be off to college. You'll still be in highschool for another three years. Do you think you can handle that? Think about the future. That would really suck to disobey your parents and lose their trust and then a while later break up with the guy because it just didn't work out. Think about the future and the consequences. Also, he goes to another highschool and you said you never see him. It kinda sucks, don't you agree? You wouldn't get much time with him and who knows...he might have some other girl back at his highschool.
Whatever your choice is, I wish you luck.
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*Haha, I was a freshman and went out with a senior. My parents told me I couldn't date him, so I told that me and him were just good friends. They believed it and they thought he came to pick me up to hang out with a group of people. So you can use that for your parents..*
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Three years older? It won't really work out. Best case scenario, if he really is interested in you and doesn't want anything but your pleasant company, he'll be off to college in a year. Plus, you'll probably end up hanging out with all his senior friends, and it'll be very, very awkward. Worst case scenario, he wants to take advantage of you. Keep it at just friends if he's a nice guy - that's the best deal you'll get.
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dont go out with him hes to old and it wont work out.
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wow..well, first off sweetie. Im a sophmore, and my boyfriend of 6 months ((today!)) is a senior..we go to diffrent high schools. we've found out that age doesnt matter because we care and love eachother so much. if your not feeling this between this guy tell him straight up. tell him you would just rather be friends. i personally dont think age matters at all..as long as you two care about eachother enough and he realizes that he cant cross the line that YOU should set then things will be alright.
x0x-dani
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