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i am a 14 yr old girl and of my boyfriend always wrestles with me what does that mean ? (link)
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he's just flirting with you. a lot of younger guys do that in their relationships. heck i do that even now and i'm 18. it's nothing bad.
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This is going to sound gross at first and I apologize. I'm going to try to word it as maturely as possible. Okay, I was talking to this boy that I sort of like, well, that I'm "attracted" to & he had a "boner" or whatever term you want to use. This happened right in the middle of lunch when we were chatting. People found out and started say that means I "arroused" him and that he must have some sort of attraction to me. I'm kind of confused on whether this is what it means because this happened. Thanks.
Btw, I'm 14/f
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happens to me all the time. and even when i don't intend it to. but that's how it works. like for example a girl i know will like lay her head on my shoulder and i'll get one. or i sit next to her and i get one. or i think of her and i get one...hmm she really makes me horny. hahaha
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Ok alot of people i know think that i'm not a virgin ( even my own family). I haven't had sex and so what i know alot about sex. and they think i've given oral too.which i have not.i tell them over and over again but thyey don't belive me. And ruemers are already goin around that i'm a ho. What can i do to make them belive me? (link)
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hey man, i've been there. granted i'm a guy, it's the same. i'm a virgin, i haven't done anything sexual with anyone. but people like to think otherwise. and there's nothing you can do to change people's minds. so what you should do instead is this: ignore it. yeah it sounds stupid, and yeah the people talking about you is gonna get worse, but ignore it and tough it out then the kids at school will move onto some other kid to make fun of. that's how kids work. they find a victim, then find another a few weeks or months down the road.
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I used to be very fond of this guy a lot and sort of those feelings still remain with me to this day. The thing is that this guy I'm sure has moved on and I'm nearly there when it comes to this. I mean this guy has put me through so much and although we don't talk, it's like I know him . He hangs out with other girls now, and he's more popular now . I don't want to be with him, but it's just that it seems like all of my friends are liking him. My feelings for him are still yet causing me insecurities .I just want to know why he can't look at me, and I want to know why he's going out with all those girls . I need advice on how to get real closure and I mean real, real, closure. Don't tell me time . I've spent three years with time . Just please. Help me . Oh and if it's time, then make sure that you have a good explanation please and some tips . Thanxs to yah (link)
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he can't look at you because he obviously still cares about your feelings. i mean it's obvious. that's how i am with a girl that i've broken up with and she sees me again. i avoid all contact and just ignore her. cause i'm worried about how she might feel. so what should be done is this: you need to talk to him. yeah it's hard doing that too, cause talking to an ex is always hard but it needs to be done. then you gotta tell him how you feel and ask him how he feels (this might be hard cause guys don't talk about feelings) then go from there. you gotta patch things up with him for there to be actual closure.
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My boyfriend's a rather sexual person, and I'm..getting there, haha. I've given him an orgasm and we've been trying to give me one. I'm kind of reluctant cos it hurts! Should it hurt? We are not having sex, fingering, but no intercourse. When he touches my clitoris it seems like pain, but also kind of good, but like tickling in which you try to move away. It hurts when he presses too hard of course, but then doesn't give that weird kick when it's not hard. The other day he was touching my clit and my leg started spazzing, but the clit hurt, but it felt like we should keep going, yet we stopped cos it hurt me kind of. We don't think I came. Wondering, what aren't we doing? And what does an orgasm feel like for a girl (or anyone)? (link)
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the clitoral area is a sensitive one, and can send painful feelings through you as well as good ones. have him work the area around your clit moreso than the clitoris itself. it's just as effective, and should keep you from getting that painful sensation. the clitoris is a gathering of nerve endings and is incredibly sensitive to touch. so have him touch the area around it but not the clitoris itself.
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on my site...there is no like average rating..it used to be there but it's not there anymore? any ideas to why it's like that and how i can get it back? THx a bunch! (link)
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i'm pretty sure you have to have been rated 5 times within the past 30 days or something like that. just answer some questions and hope you get rated :)
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ohk so i have liked this guy already for about a year. he says he likes me too but i dont think he does cuz one day he acts like it and the next day he dont. he keeps getting my hopes up and it hurts cuz i noe he's just messing me. he also keeps flirting with one of my best friends, and with everyone else he also tells them every single thing he says to me. so i am hurting so bad. what should i do ? (link)
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first dont tell him personal stuff about you cuz he seems like a the school jerk that thinks every grl is in love with him. also leave him alone cuz he will cheat on you.
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Okay, there's this chick I know, who was kind of my friend. Here's where the problem starts. I heard that she thought I was annoying (but she still thought I was cool), so I backed off a bit and didn't hang around her a lot. NOW, she's in a fight with a really good friend of mine because she (the mean girl) called her (my good friend) a b*tch. I also heard that she wanted to rip up a card I made her for her birthday (but, being the great person she is, she just threw it on the ground when I wasn't around). I have to go to her birthday party soon, but she's so mean... This party is also for another person (who's a good, nice person). How can I cope with this girl being mean? I'm sorry this is so long, but I will rate! Thanks so much! (link)
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hey! this same thing happened to me except there wasnt a birthday party involved. anyway you dont have to hang with her at the party or even talk to her. if you think she wont respect your gift give her something small or cheap cuz all shes gonna do is throw it away. meangle with other people but if she talks to you then keep the answer short and simple then walk away. if you dont feel confortable @ the party than leave.
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What are some lyrics for songs from THE USED, or sites i can go to to get them. ill rate a 5! thanks!!!!
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http://www.letssingit.com/ has all their songs :)
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I like this guy at my school and he flirts with me and stuff but my friend likes him too so i asked for her and he said he likes her!!! so now i am depressd do u think it is true or he is just saying it??
-heartbroken (link)
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i don't think someone would just say that they like someone. he might like you though, just try to be really nice to him and he might start to like you and ask you out. this happened to me before, but i just got over it. so if things don't work out then just move on, i know it's hard but it's better than to just keep on liking someone that likes someone else! hope i helped!!
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ok well i have been best friends with illy,cassie for at least 4-3 years each.. latley now that were in high school and everything they always group up.. and i feel like ok .. should i walk away or just go with them... im never a follower.. i cant stand that, but illy has a boyfriend and her boyfriend obviously like cassie better than me.. the reason is i have no idea ! i mean her boyfriend doesnt bother me, but at times he does.. i dont know how to explain it.. any ways all last week i was dealing with alot of family problems, and both of them knew that.. so i wasnt all in a very good mood to talk even though i still did.. friday comes along and cassie and illy have planned to go to this dance recital at our high school, they didnt even invite me to go.. but i wanted to go any ways so i asked my good friend brittany if she wanted to go... so me and her went ! we got there and brittanys friend steven had already had our seats saved and about 3 others that if any of our friends showed up could sit there.. well i saw illy , cassie 2 rows in front of me.. i called illy to ask her something and cassie picked up the phone.. i said if they had plans to hang out with eachother afterwards and if we should all do something tonight.. cassie said no then hung up pretty much right away before i could ask if they wanted to come sit by me and britt.. cassie texted me saying ' why didnt u sit by us ' and i explained that steven had me, brittanys seats saved and that i wasnt really invited by them to go any ways.. she kept saying ' whatever ' so i finally said ' you know wut cass, this whole week you've been really bitchy towards me, not illy '.. and she just replyed thats pretty sweet.. and im like are you mad at me and she just said ' id rather not answer that ' so i was pretty much like forget it.. later that night through text i said i was sorry for whatever i did but it wasnt a good week for me until today but then u had to go ruin it by being a bitch to me for no reason..
... so now she said last night she wasnt mad @ me.. but she ingorned me completly today and when she was by me and illy she just talked to her..
i have no idea what to do, should i just ingore her ? or what ? please help.. ill rate ! (link)
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you really don't need friends like cassie!!! friends don't do that 2 each other. if she's leaving you out and being mean 2 you like this, then you've said sorry and there's nothing you can do about it. if she's still mad at you even though you said sorry, then you need better friends. she doesn't deserve 2 have friends like you. you should just ignore her and tell her that if she keeps doing this then you don't need a friend like her
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Lately i have been sad all the time im never happy anymore im always mad and sreaming or sad aand crying.. why im i like this all of a sudden..
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your under a lot of stress and really depressed. have you been getting a lot of homework? maybe your under a lot of stress because of homework and 2 many tests. on weekends go do something really fun and maybe that'll make u feel a little better.
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okay my guy friend and i were suppose to spend yesterday together but we didn't cuz he didn't call me. he is not a dependable person. so today in the hall he said hi and i ignored him. was that the right thing to do? and does anyone have any ideas on what i should say to him or what should i do? (link)
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you should never just ignore some1 without telling him what's wrong. you should talk 2 him and tell him 2 at least call next time 2 say that he's busy.
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is it weird if someone ((a guy)) rights a song for you ((he likes me ALOT)) and sings it to you on the phone? it seems weird to me
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it is not weird it is sweet and nice i guess u just dont know a cute and nice guy when u here one
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i am getting major bullied at school. everyon says to stick up for myself but it's so hard. my teacher knows but they don't do anything which is screwed up. i talked to the counselor and she said to confront them in person but i don't want to do that becuause that pus me in danger (link)
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i know it's way harder than it seem standing up for a bully. just ignore them and see what happens. if you act like you dont care then they'll go find some1 else to bully. if that doesnt work then tel your mom to talk to the bully's mom maybe. if that still doesnt work tel the principal again. schools are suposed to help you out when uyour in trouble.
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ok, me and my boyfriend have been going out for a little over 3 months, but we havent made out yet. we hold hands and kiss, but not open mouth. we've said that we love each other, and idk. is there a problem with this? i mean we talked about it and said we're ready, but like we just cant find the right time cuz of school and stuff. (link)
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u should wait until the time is right. if u rush into things ur relationship wil end quicker. dont b afraid 2 wait. u'll know when the time is right
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It feels like me and my friend are getting farther apart... we are in 10th grade and we met when we were in 4th... we became like best friends in like around 8th... idk... she has been hanging out with diff ppl... her boyfriends friends and these older ppl... they smoke and drink and such... she wanted me to hang with her and them but i'm not like that... i use to drink and i have tried smoking but its w/e... her mom let's her go out with them and such... im scared one day something is going to happen... like she will get hurt and i didn't do anything to help her... like all if em or most of em drive and i'm scared that she will get into a car accident and i didn't tell her anything... she told me for her boyfriends b-day present she was going to give him her virginity... she asked me and i told her idk cause im waiting till i get married and such... but i just need to knw what to do... honest please... none of that "just talk to her crap"... no offense but i've heard of that and tried but i have gotten no luck... i love her to death but idk what to do...
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I know all the other people reading this are thinking this to. Talk to her again!!!!! Maybe you didn't talk to her right or somthing. Let out your feelings. Tell her that you're really worryed about her and that you know she's going to get hurt if she keeps doing this. Say u feel like you tow are getting farther apart. Tell her everything you told me.
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(15/F) I have two best friends, and I'm either with one or the other. I don't have any other 'good friends' in school. Everyone is already settled with their own group of friends and I feel so alone when I'm not with my best friends. I think girls view me as a snob though, because I do have more guy friends and honestly I'm attractive. How do I get more friends and find people my age that I have stuff in common with? I don't want to come off as desperate or dorky but I do need more girl friends to hang out with. (link)
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hey girl!
start by saying hey to people then they will start feeling confortable around you. thats how i made a friend and i didnt even know it. i thought i was just saying hi to her and then out of no where we aare friends. but if that doesnt work you vould host a cool party and invite lots of people. then they will know how cool you are. you just have to have confodence in yourself and that s all you need. i only have 2 bests friend but i have some friend but i refer to them as talking buddies cuz i dont go around telling them all of my buisness and that is what you have to do. get talking buddies not just best friends!
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ok..i need to save up about 350 dollars... i am old enought to babysit..but the problem with that is that i dont know anyone that i could babysit for...i am not old enought to get a real job like at a store or something...so does anyone have any siggestions on how to earn money??? thanks! i'll rate high for good answers!! (link)
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hey get money,
you could do a car wash and at the car wash you could sell goodies like cake and stuff. then you could sell old clothes and toys. also you could do a dog walking job or dog wash. also if you are good at doing nails you could do that on people for about $10 each. or do wraps on children's hair if you know what that is. also make stuff like arts and crafts or draw pictures and sell them! there are lots of things to do!
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I have to give a speech in fron of the whole class next week, and I'm absolutely terrified. I am really bad at speeches. I start shaking and I can't read my notcards. Does anyone have any suggestions to help me get over my fear? (link)
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dear speech,
i have the same problem. i hate makind speeches! the best thing to do is study your notes about 10 minutes a day before the speech and then you will pretty much memorize them. also when you do the speech pick a spot on the wall above the kids heads and talk. that way it appears that you are looking at them but you are really not!! lol.
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