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want more friends
(15/F) I have two best friends, and I'm either with one or the other. I don't have any other 'good friends' in school. Everyone is already settled with their own group of friends and I feel so alone when I'm not with my best friends. I think girls view me as a snob though, because I do have more guy friends and honestly I'm attractive. How do I get more friends and find people my age that I have stuff in common with? I don't want to come off as desperate or dorky but I do need more girl friends to hang out with.
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Just start talking and being nice to more people in your classes/lunches. It couldn't hurt. Thats how i met all my close friends, and even now, I don't have a lot. besides, its better to have one or two GOOD friends, than a bunch of wishy-washy, fair-weathered friends.
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The best thing to do is just go up to someone who you'd like to be friends with, smile and say hi to them, and start a conversation. In my school, I used to think that this girl that I saw hanging out with some of the popular kids and the jocks was snobby just because she hung out with them. During my music lesson, I decided to talk to her, and discovered that she is an extremely kind, sweet, and nice person. You won't come off as desperate or dorky at all; just go up to them and say hi. If they are snobbish enough to refuse to talk to you because they won't change their image of you in their minds, then they are not worth it at all.
Good luck:-)
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Try to talk to them be nice and let them know that your not a snob!!So what if you hang out with more guys then girls! Just start a convorsataion with them! YOU NEED MORE FIRNEDS NOT JUST 2! so talk to other people as much as you can and ask to hang out or meet at the movies or go shopping!!
xOx ViLLy*
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hey girl!
start by saying hey to people then they will start feeling confortable around you. thats how i made a friend and i didnt even know it. i thought i was just saying hi to her and then out of no where we aare friends. but if that doesnt work you vould host a cool party and invite lots of people. then they will know how cool you are. you just have to have confodence in yourself and that s all you need. i only have 2 bests friend but i have some friend but i refer to them as talking buddies cuz i dont go around telling them all of my buisness and that is what you have to do. get talking buddies not just best friends!
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Trying talking to other people .. like in your class. i have one great group of friends but we are all friends with all types of people. if that doesnt work try joining a academic .. after school or sport team !! its fun and you will defintley meet new people! hope i helped please rate (:
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just i met all the friends i have in common with was by one friend that i had a lot in common with and had her introduce me to her friends (the ones i didn't know) and since they had a lot in common with her they did with me. hope that helps
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hey.. lol well first off don't go around with a thick head and tell people your attractive lol.. i mean i know alot of girls like that and there all bitches.. they know there hot and they take advantage of it.. lol just smile and say hey to people you usually wouldn't talk to .. or just someone you would want to start a friendship with, one thing will lead to another and you'll get alot of friends . trust me! it worked for me!!
where do you live, that'd be awesome if we lived in the same place.. i live in greeley co. you can write me back if you want!!
i hope i helped!!
=) love. DEMERY
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Try talking to other people. If you sit beside someone in a class try to be super nice and have a conversation with them. Just try to be as nice as humanly possible to people. They will start to warm up to you and then before you know it you'll have more friends. Just be nice they won't think your desperate or dorky unless you walk up to them and say "will you be my friend because I need more" and I doubt that you're planning on doing that. Just be youself around people and try being really nice.
Good luck I hope I helped
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If your soo cofident in yourself just go out and talk to people... if they don't like you tough luck... don't worry about what people say... all that matters is what you say and you...
Gomesy
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maybe when your around other people dont act like a snob since you think thats what people think of you maybe you shud jus be friendly or if you see someone from your school at the mall or something wave .. and talk with more people at school or in your classes ; dont be so up your best friends butt when you are around other people .. dont mean to be blunt about it ! always smiLe ! muCh love mO
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