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Mean Friend
Okay, there's this chick I know, who was kind of my friend. Here's where the problem starts. I heard that she thought I was annoying (but she still thought I was cool), so I backed off a bit and didn't hang around her a lot. NOW, she's in a fight with a really good friend of mine because she (the mean girl) called her (my good friend) a b*tch. I also heard that she wanted to rip up a card I made her for her birthday (but, being the great person she is, she just threw it on the ground when I wasn't around). I have to go to her birthday party soon, but she's so mean... This party is also for another person (who's a good, nice person). How can I cope with this girl being mean? I'm sorry this is so long, but I will rate! Thanks so much!
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I'd ignore her totally I mean it's not your fault she's mean and she is obviously two-faced believe me you'll regret it if you don't end this "friendship" now!!!
Luv,
advicehotti21
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WOW! thats a tough one.. i dunno, i think you should just totally ignore the mean girl! and be there for the other girl:) and just act like nothin she says bothers you! haha good luck
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hey! this same thing happened to me except there wasnt a birthday party involved. anyway you dont have to hang with her at the party or even talk to her. if you think she wont respect your gift give her something small or cheap cuz all shes gonna do is throw it away. meangle with other people but if she talks to you then keep the answer short and simple then walk away. if you dont feel confortable @ the party than leave.
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I think thats it's a good idea to stay out of her way. This girl has some problems that she needs to take care of, if there are alot of people at this party then I don't think you'll have a big problem. If there are very few people at this party then you could have some problems, talk to the "birthday girl" about it. And your other option is to tuff the party out. If it's really going badly then leave early.
Good luck,
~kooka
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