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okay my guy friend and i were suppose to spend yesterday together but we didn't cuz he didn't call me. he is not a dependable person. so today in the hall he said hi and i ignored him. was that the right thing to do? and does anyone have any ideas on what i should say to him or what should i do?
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you should never just ignore some1 without telling him what's wrong. you should talk 2 him and tell him 2 at least call next time 2 say that he's busy.
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It's a good thing to do if you want to start an argument!Oh well, it's done now. I would explain to him that your feelings were hurt because he didn't call. A family thing might have come up or something, give him a chance to explain himself.
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honestly, the right thing to do is what you think. i don`t think you should have completely ignored him but it was rude of him not to call. if it was my bestfriend (also a guy) i would have just went up and yelled at him. guys are slow, they dont understand that when you say your going to call - YOU SHOULD CALL! lol anyways, just talk to him and do what feels good to you!
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I dont think you should've ignored him. I can understand that you are most likely mad that he didn't call you but you should've talked to him and try to find out the reason why he didn't. Just call him or talk to him instead of ignoring him.
x0x-Sarah
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You shouldn't have ignored him, especially if he tends to be forgetful. You could have at least /asked/ for an explanation as to why he never called... Sometimes things liek that just sort of happen : :3 EJ
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nope..you did the wrong thing. why dont you just ask the guy why he didnt call you? explain to him that you really wanted to hang out, and he dissapointed/upset you by not calling. dont ignore him, cuz im sure you still wanna be friends..right?
zack
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Understand that people that no one can depend on have an issue with themself. If you ignore them because he didn't show whatever is making him undependable may be affected by you ignoring him. You should explain to him that you were really looking foward to hanging out with him and he let you down. Say how much it dissapointed you. If he continues to do it that is when you have the right to get made and give him the silent treatment. Hope yall work things out!!
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well come on we all kno when guys say there going to call they never do you do have a right to be mad and well since he ingored you do the same let him know whos boss please you dont even need him but if can this game im sure you can play it better
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Well,since you know he's not a dependable person,it really shouldn't come as much of a shock!But since guys sometimes require being hit over the head before they understand something,the silent treatment isn't always the best thing.Just ask him how come he flaked on your plans yesterday.And if you feel like he might have done it on purpose say something like "You know,if you don't wanna hang out with me,I'd rather you just let me know instead of ditching me". Just try not to sound stand-offish and bitchy about it,as mad as you may be.Because if you sound that way,the odds are increased that he will respond the same way-rudely!Just ask him what's up!Hope this helps ya out hun! ;)
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yea that was pretty childish. why dont you just ask him why he didnt call. if you knew he wasnt dependable, maybe you should have taken the responsibility and called him. istead of knowing he might do it (unaware) and then ignore him for it. if he has a problem, help him with it, dont ignore it.
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