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Virgin?
Ok alot of people i know think that i'm not a virgin ( even my own family). I haven't had sex and so what i know alot about sex. and they think i've given oral too.which i have not.i tell them over and over again but thyey don't belive me. And ruemers are already goin around that i'm a ho. What can i do to make them belive me?
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I guess in THIS case you can't Really *MAKE* eveRyone believe you. Honestly, I KNOW it must get REALLY annoying, but you can't go aRound pleasing eveRyone, ya know?? Just don't woRRie about it. If you've told them, and they can't accept it.. then the hell with 'em!! You seRiously don't need that kind of shit. *YOU* know who *YOU* aRe, and that's ALL that matteRs!! :)
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Go To The Gynocologist! The Can Check And See If Your Cherry Is Still There And That Should Show If You Are And If You Are Not! All Truths Will Be Bared So If You Do This Make Shure That Your Really Being Truthful. About The Oral Though, Idk Hopefully When She Finds Out That Your A Virgin Shell Believe You! ;]
Good Luck!
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hey man, i've been there. granted i'm a guy, it's the same. i'm a virgin, i haven't done anything sexual with anyone. but people like to think otherwise. and there's nothing you can do to change people's minds. so what you should do instead is this: ignore it. yeah it sounds stupid, and yeah the people talking about you is gonna get worse, but ignore it and tough it out then the kids at school will move onto some other kid to make fun of. that's how kids work. they find a victim, then find another a few weeks or months down the road.
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Do you dress provacatively? if you do, stop. Tell your mom to take you to the gyno- the doc can check to see if your hymen is broken which usually only happens during sex (unless you shove tampons up there really hard) and she can tell your mom that youre still a virgin. Hopefull she can eventually trust you about oral too. You can't do anything about school really- if you cock tease the boys, theyll think youre a slut. If you dress skimpy, the girls will think youre a slut. So be good, don't worry so much about other people. Theyll forget about it eventually if you act right. kids can be cruel, good luck hun.
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Nothing and plenty.
For starters, did you do or say anything to lead them to have so much faith in what they heard? If not, maybe you should ask them, jsut to get the air cleared. This could all be a result of a simple misunderstanding.
But if you never did or said anything that could have caused these accusations, then I would try to find the source of these rumors and confront the person.
Please remember that a real friend who knows and loves you would never repeat something like this. They would in fact reply with "I know soandso, and she would never do such a thing"
Good Luck!
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You dont have to make these people believe you, you know that its not true and thats all that matters. You cant let the stuff that people say get to you, you just got to keep your head up high and tell them all to fuck off. You know the truth and if other people dont believe you then oh well they can think what they wanna. Well i hope i helped if you need anything just ask*
-Caitlin ♥
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There isnt much you can say rumours are horrible. Your family should belive you anyway! tell them that you did not do it and that they should belive you. The rumours will stop!!! hope i've helped you
luv shelly
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there is nothing to do or say that will make people stop talkin about you like that. it will blow over in time. and as long as you know the truth about yourself then thats all that matters.
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Why do they have to believe you? You know in your heart what you are. If you are behaving like a slut, then people have a tendency to believe that you are. And sometimes it is the people you hang with. There was an interesting rumour that I did drugs in school, but I hung around people who did. (Which is bad because I could get in trouble because of them as well, but that's another question).
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Maybe your actions speak that you aren't though you aren't conscious of it. Try to act prim infront of them and if you're disturb by what they are judging about you then tell them straight that you are a virgin and if they don't believe why should I care much about close-minded people? You don't need to prove it to them if they are that close-minded, at least you told them the truth and nothing but.
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