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Posted Saturday July 02 2005, 12:46 am
I have a small but confusing problem, to do with my friend.(I'll call him John)John's dad is a CEO and he has been out of the country for the past 10 months. He got back almost a week ago and saturday he sat down his family and confessed that he had been unfaithful to John's mother durring the 10 months. This really shook up John, he's scared, confused and really unsure of alot of things right now. And he came to me. And I don't know how to respond to this. I want to be supportive and I don't know what I would do if I were him. And he's alot more than a friend, and about 3 years older. What would you do if you were in our situation?
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well i would sit down and talk to his father and ask him if the ceo is more impotant than familey and tell him that he needs to spend more time with his wive and get to no there needs and be there to comfirt them well thats all and i hope it works


Posted Saturday July 02 2005, 12:46 am
I have a small but confusing problem, to do with my friend.(I'll call him John)John's dad is a CEO and he has been out of the country for the past 10 months. He got back almost a week ago and saturday he sat down his family and confessed that he had been unfaithful to John's mother durring the 10 months. This really shook up John, he's scared, confused and really unsure of alot of things right now. And he came to me. And I don't know how to respond to this. I want to be supportive and I don't know what I would do if I were him. And he's alot more than a friend, and about 3 years older. What would you do if you were in our situation?
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Just being there with him and telling him you care about him will mean the world to him.


13/f
ok i've never had a bf ever in my life. im kind of over weight and i dont think im very ugly but im prolly not really pretty eaither. i do have some guy friends but not real boy friends. i really want a bf cuz i always see my friends with there bfs kissing and holding hands and hugging etc. i've never been kissed either so i feel so left out cuz all my friends have please give me some good advice and please help me!! (link)
i didn't have my first girlfriend til i was 17, my first kiss until then either. it's not a bad thing, it's just we all go into relationships at our own rate and speed. and if your rate may be slower then so be it. don't focus so much on it. when it happens it happens.


I've heard and read about this thing called JAMA. I've only heard asians talk about it. What is this JAMA thing? (link)
JAMMA also stands for japanese arcade machine manufacturers association. it's the standard regulation in any and all arcade machines in the world. the JAMMA harness is a bundle of wires that connects everything in the machine together, and this harness has to be certified by JAMMA before it can be used at all. it's all pretty cool stuff...if you're into arcade things that is.


To start out, I'll tell you this. I'm only 15, but regardless of my age I think I could be in love. I've liked this guy for almost three years and he's pretty much all I think about. Every song I hear relates, in some way, to him. But that isn't the problem. He recently told me he liked me. And a few days later said he thought we would eventually go out. well, I don't think that's going to happen. I heard from a friend that he hasn't liked anyone since this one girl he liked a few months ago. Which would mean, he didn't like me. I asked him and he said I'm great and all, but he didn't like me any more than a friend. That kind of made me give up, you know? I felt like I failed or something? I don't know. I'm not really the jealous type, until it comes to him. So recently I've been talking to this other guy, he really likes me and I really like him. But the way I like him doesn't compare to how much I like the other guy. so, this guy is supposed to ask me out when we hang out this weekend, so I've heard. If he does, I'm scared to ruin the chance with the other guy i REALLY like. Although, I can't wait forever. But I need help soon. I have to decide. I'm really thinking to go for this guy that really likes me. What do you think? (link)
i think you should go out with the 1 that likes you, cause if some 1 really likes you you shouldnt have to wait for them. I know how you feel. i have loved this guy for like 2 years and i dont even think he likes me, but i still go out with other people. so there 4 i think that you shuld go out with the one that likes you. you sound really nice and that guy shouldnt make you wait
i hope my advice was helpful to you.
and goodluck with whoever you choose
~*Brandi*~


at my school we have to wear collared shirt, with only 2 buttons unbuttoned. we can wear jeans or skirts, but the skirts have to be longer than 2 inches above our knees. i like to dress originally, and cant stand the thought of going to school looking exactly like everyone else. also i live on an island, so whenever you buy a shirt someone else in your school probably bought it too... and with this collared shirt rule, like 9 or 10 people end up with the exact same shirt. does anyone have any suggestions for interesting ways to make my outfits less boring? (link)
BE CREATIVE! buy white shirts and tye dye them or use fabric paint..GO CRAZY! u can go online and buy iron ons from anything like music to cartoon characters! JUst be creative! Get friends to sign the shirts, or sign ur jeans! just express urself!
Hope I helped
Brittney


any idean to loose weight QUICK (link)
diet pills, run a mile every day, eat only those fruit smoothie thingys until u loose as much weight as u want, buy an exersise bowflex thingy. umm and jus streach and run, all that stuff.
hope i helped ^O^


What are some good songs to like dance to like...

Girls just want to have fun

songs like that

thanks (link)
usher-yeah
avril-complicated
usher-burn
christenia-jenny in a bottle
britney spears-lucky
us against the world i aint sure who its by though (srry)



i hope i helped ya,have fun
~*Brandi*~


It really bothers me that those damn kids won't give that nice bunny any trix...i mean u are suppoused to share right....gosh that is so mean...what should i do to get over it? (link)
you know, that has always bothered me too, i mean seriously. THEY TEACH US TO SHARE, THEN THEY DONT SHARE WITH HIM! i mean whats up with dat, i wanna give that rabbit some trix cereal really badly!!!!!


hey i have trouble with planes. they bother me like, im so nervous i dont have any fun! in about a week i have to ride on a plane BY MYSELF along with my sis but still ive never done this before plus i cant stand planes. can anyone give me tips on how to actually sorta enjoy a plane ride? im just like AHHHH!
please help! i rate 5's for great advice! (link)
Hey, I had to travel alone halfway across the country last year all by myself. And yeah, I was pretty scared too. Just bring a TON of magazines, or books, and your favourite music (some airlines don't allow discmans though). Take motion sickness pills, 1/2 hour before you leave. And just make conversation with your sister.. talk about what you're going to do when you reach your destination, etc.

I guarantee it won't be that bad.

Hope I helped =) [please leave feedback!]


When you have a tampon in can you still pee I mean go to the bathroom?

please anawer (link)
Yes, Tampons dont affect your urinary system any what so ever...bRiTtNeY


What is the Vitamin that makes your hair grow? And were can i get this Vitamin? (link)
Vitamin E! You can get the actual vitamin at a drug store or health food store, but there is a shampoo and conditioner that is Vitamin E based and it works faster..and you can find it at Sally's Beauty Supplies ...hoped i helped..bRiTtNeY


my boyfriend cuts and im really scared for him..he just started so i want to stop him, but when i do he gets mad at me. wat should i do? help help help! (link)
i know its really hard. so if i were u i would probably tell some1. i know they will get mad at u. but i mean it could kill them if they hit the right spot.in the long run they will be so happy at u for stoppin them. I wish ya goodluck!
I hope i helped!!!!!!!
:) ~*Brandi*~


how old are most people when they start masturbating? I know this is a weird question and I don't want to [masturbate], but I'm just curious. (link)
first time i played with myself: i musta been like 1 or 2 i just know my parents told me my hands were always in my pants

first time i masturbated: well i was like 5 and i had a hardon and i was just playing with it then i just started to pull and well yeah

first time i masturbated to orgasm: i was 10 and i used handsoap

first time i came: i was 12 and it was a big wet mess.


im 14/f and ive never really had a true relationship. i think its because people just see me as the nice girl. plus, im not the prettiest thing in the world. what should i do to get guys to notice me?

MizzNiceGirl (link)
dear mizznicegirl,
SORRY ITS LONG!!!!
dont let yourself think that you are not the prettiest girl in the word cuz the truth is no girl is and every girl in the world has something they dont like about themselves. next you are beautiful in your own way and dont let any1 tell you other wise!!! you just have to be confident in yourself and just be yourself! have fun cuz when boyz see that you like yourself then they will start to like you! plus boys r not serious @ 14 any way so just have a fun relationship not a really serious one.


Is it possible to lose 10-20 pounds by July 20? If so, can someone please give me some tips? Thank you in advance. (link)
Drink at least one cup of water with each meal. Drink a cup of green tea whenever you get hungry outside of meal time. And if you really want to lose weight, cut about 500 calories from your diet, so you can either count calories or drop a meal. I prefer to drop one and eat the other two meals just like before. I would try and drop dinner, if you can, and eat a late lunch. If you can't do that, just skip lunch. This is basically my diet, plus I run 5 miles on mondays wednesdays and fridays, 4 miles on tuesdays and thursdays. But I run track, which is why I do all that. I went from 124 ilb to 106 over the course of a few months. Good luck.


i got wallpaper from this site called www.screensavers.com i was wondering there is any possible way to delete wallpaper because the wallpaper i got from the site i don't want anymore so is there anyway to delete wallpaper off your computer? and if there is could you tell me the process or steps in order to get it off your computer thanks ~ sunshine1232 (link)
To get rid of your wall paper, just overwrite it with a new one, find an image, right click and select "set as wallpaper". As for the screen saver, delete it through add or remove programs. Those are the easy ways to do it. If they don't work, just search google.


I have massive amounts of spyware and all that crap. I am going to have to re format it but I'm wondering if I can fix it on my own. If I just download a spyware removal program-it makes it worse. I tried removing the program, but all it does is show up again. Is there anyway I can remove programs for sure without using "add or remove programs" because it doesnt seem to work. Oh and any other tips for stopping this whole spyware thing? Whoever thought of spyware should be shot... (link)
Spybot S&D is a good one.

Use that to get rid of it, it will work.

As for removing the programs without using add or remove option, you can go directly into your hard drive via my computer, local disc, program files, and delete the whole file that the program is in.

If an error occurs, just boot into safe mode and delete from there. Sometimes they wont delete due to them being in use. You could also force delete it from command prompt.


What is the meaning of this: At this exact point in time, within my body and soul, located in the crevices of my very heart, dwell massive feelings of deep negativity which are directed towards your whole self, concentrating more specifically on the rash choices and abrupt words flowing from your inner vibe, and this displeases the usual glee and joyfulness pumping vigorously through my veins, and I am full of frustration and confusion to whether or not you will attempt to mend this problematic situation, however, please have no emotions of fear as these sound waves hit your ear drum and your brain processes them through its complicated mechanism, because to put it simpler and more precise, you may not have the ability to comprehend my speech of brilliant yet vastly intelligent vocabulary, and if this vivacious sentence of tempestuous words has taken up too many minutes of your precious time in this life, then I forever am sorry that the main cause of all this ruckus was you. (link)
It means: I am mad at you.

Two brilliant young minds came up with this excellent extension of a sentence.

*margaret*


Does anybody know how long it would take to make a little bit of chub on my stomach turn into a nice toned stomach? I don't want a six-pack or anything, just a well toned stomach. Also, besides crunches, does anybody know some exercises that could help the process of my stomach getting toned? (link)
Try pilates. It works for me if you keep with it and do it every day. You can buy tapes and dvds from Wal-Mart and other stores like that. My favourite is called "CRUNCH Pick Your Spot Pilates".

Hope I helped =)




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