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Well, I started going out with this girl since Friday, right? I really like her, and she really likes me, but I can't seem to know what to say because I'm sitting at her table with all of her friends at lunch now. I can't really relate to her friends, girls OR guys. Today was the first day I sat at her table though, and I held her in my arms during lunch after we ate our food. I didn't speak much to anyone, even my girlfriend. I said I was sorry I didn't talk today too much because I was tired. Any suggestions on what I should do? I'm sort of a video gamer, and she and her friends aren't, so I'm not sure what to say to her sometimes at lunch or to her friends. Please, any suggestions on what to say, do when I'm around her, and say around her and her friends? Sorry this was a long post, but I really need help on this one. I'm 15/M, and she's 14/F.
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When in doubt...always ASK about her and her life!
Guys think questions are nosey. Girls thinks questions mean you care!
NEVER talk about yourself unless she seems interested first.
You might want to read Dale Carnegies "How to Win Friends and Influence People." It will help you seem like the worlds most interesting person and really, it's just a book on how to care about OTHER people! It won't just help you with Girls! It will help you with every relationship in your life!
At least TRY it and let me know what happens!
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okay. so, well thought out and honest answers would really really help me. how can you tell if a guy likes you.
if it matters, im a 14/f
thanks a whole bunch
(giving examples is perfectly fine) (link)
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There is a BIG difference in a guy being attracted to you versus LIKING you! I've seen a lot of girls hurt by not recognizing the difference!
When a guy LIKES you, he will want to get to know you (not jut be ALONE with you) and he will want to do things for you that make you happy.
It could be a simple as a smile, a note, a single flower, a thoughtful phone call, etc.
A guy likes you when he pays only YOU attention even when there are other girls around.
Beware of the guy that doesn't do any of those things but says things like "you're really hot."
Trust me - Ignore his WORDS and observe his ACTIONS.
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okay im 16/f.
i was in 2 bad car accidents and my leg is paralyzed along with all the other bad injuries. my leg is just "dead" it impairs me. my doctor says i should have it amputated, but i don't know if i can make that descision. can you please help me? (link)
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Oh wow. I'm very sorry to hear that. But, the only person who can make the decision is you. Whenever I can't make a decision, I make a list of the pros and cons of each option. So what would be some pros if you got your leg amputated? And what would be some cons? Try this. I hope I helped.
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I'm getting a 6week old basset hound on thrusday and I'm not sure what i want to name it. I was thinking of Mya. any one got any unique names for it. Its a girl (link)
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aw i think Mya is such a cuttie name!! i would deffo go with that!! aw lol xxxx xx
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Most of the boyz I have been with want to have sex with me but I say no because I THOUGHT I belived in abstanence. But now I have had a relationship with this boy for two months and I think he is the one. I am so in love with this boy. Everyday we talk he tells me he loves me, he wants to get married, he wants me to have his kids, and he wants to be with me for ever. I want to have sex with him but I am scared that he will say I am not doing it right. please help me. I am in desperate need of an answer. What should I do? (link)
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Answer: Two months is not enough time to truly know a person's character. Right now, the relationship is all rainbows and butterflies, right? That will change, trust me. It may change for the better - a deeper, more realistic type of love. But then again, it may change for the worst.
My advice is to wait. Wait until you've been with this guy longer, after that "high" of being with a new love wears off. He may not end up to be the person you think he is now. Wait until you've been together for a longer period of time and when you are 100% ready.
Don't stress so much about it! Take it slow. Just a thought - Is he pressuring you into having sex? Think back to the guys you have said no to in the past. Was there a point in those relationships that you considered having sex? If the answer is yes, aren't you glad you didn't do it?
When you are with the right person, are comfortable with yourself, are 100% ready, things will fall into place and happen naturally. Just don't forget to use protection. ;)
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ummm what are the first signs before getting your period? (link)
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Some girls break out before their period starts (more acne than usual). Some signs are: you are already getting discharge, have pubic hair, and your breasts have already begun developing. I hope I helped.
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Sorry if it`s long I`ll rate 5`s!
I love my mom and all but she really bothers me. I am 13 and I`m kind of mature for my age. My mom said I could get my belly button peirced a yeah ago and she said yeah after I turned 13 and now shes saying no. I turned 13 April 25th and its so unfair I`m getting to really hate her so now she asked " What do you want for Christmas?" and I said. " A new cell phone and a my belly button peirced" and she goes "Your not getting neither your phone is fine."
My phone is a peice of sh1t and falls apart like 5 times a day. And I really want my belly button peirced and she said yeah last year so it`s completely unfair. My little brother gets everything he wants its unfair to me.
How can I convince her to let me get my belly button peirced? And how can I explain that she is unfair to me?
Thanks in advance. I`ll rate 5`s!! (link)
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I think you need to have a little chat with your mom. You need to tell her that it is unfair that your brother gets what he wants, and you don't get anything you want, or deserve. She probably is just scared that your belly button will get infected and stuff like that. Tell her that getting it pierced at an actual peircing place is much much more safe than doing it yourself. That is what I told my mom when she said no to me.. and it worked. As for your cell phone, you should show her how crappy it is. You could say you'll pay for half of the cell phone/belly button piercing. I hope I helped.
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I'm going to participate in a Speak Out program at my school, where I have to give a speech. We have to pick a topic - any - of our choice to talk about, three minutes or so tops. Well I need to give in a topic by tomorrow or after tomorrow maximum, and so far my teacher has advised me to talk about something I know from personal experience. So far, I could only think of depression: why do kids fall in to it, and how can it be stopped, the abuse of drugs, and thats it, but thats not personal experience. I was depressed for around a year, but I was in seventh grade and its unpleasnt to think of it. im a sophmore now, but ANYWAY, does anyone have any ideas for important topics, something that would get me picked? regardless of personal experience and such. This is really urgent and I really appreiciate good, well thought out answers.
Thank you. I'm fifteen and a sophomore, by the way, for those who didnt catch that the first time. (link)
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Answer: Check out this website! It's PERFECT for you! http://www.speakersandartists.org/topics.html
It's amazing what a simple Google search can find. ;)
Also, a topic doesn't necessarily have to happen directly to you for it to be a personal experience. For example, if you were doing terrorism, just because you weren't in New York City on 9/11 does not mean that event did not personally affect you.
Anyways, good luck!
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16.f...My good guy friend, also on my tennis team with me, started to like me over the summer. He like talked to my bff about me, to find out if I liked him? Atleast that's all she could/would tell me. We went on like 2 dates to a movie a couple months ago but I decided I wasn't that into it. So, it's been a few months and I'm successfully tried to not talk to him as much so not to lead him on or anything. But I just found out that he still likes me hardcore-his friends call me and are like "do you like jared?" UGH it's just really annoying. So, now i really just don't like him in that way and now *partly bc of his friends calling me, who by the way i have never met* well, I just don't know what to do. I thought we had moved passed that but boy was I wrong. What should I do?! (link)
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Answer: It's perfectly fine if you want to just remain friends. Sometimes guys make a lot better friends than lovers!
It's good that you're not leading him on, but don't leave him in the dark either. Tell him, as politely as possible, that you're not interested. Say something like, "I really like you as a friend, and I don't want to risk losing that."
Things might be a little awkward after the talk, considering how much he likes you. Hopefully things will get back to what they once were, and you won't lose your friendship. Even if they don't - don't sweat it. It's always best to follow your heart.
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Ugh this makes me so upset because I'm way too obsessed with my boyfriend. Granted i do love him and he loves me I just feel like I have to be with him all of the time. I don't really hang out with my friends that much because my whole life is based on him. We almost broke up because I don't like him to not pay attention to me after I had spent 5 hours with him that day. We are on a break right now, but I need some help because we are getting back together on Monday. But I would talk to him and still crownd him while we were on our break. We've been together for over a year so it's not just a fling. I want to do anything I can to save our relationship. I really really love him and I don't want to lose him. Can someone please give me adivice? (link)
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Answer: Spending too much time together, to the point you are obsessed and get on each other's nerves, is how a relationship dies.
I will use my aunt and uncle as an example for this one. They are happily married with two grown sons. They have never had any *big* marital problems. The reason is... they both have their own separate lives! She spends time with her girlfriends, while he goes out fishing with the boys. If it works for them, it should work for you!
I've made the same mistake as you. When you're in love, you want to spend time with the person who makes you happy. However, you can't lose yourself. Your friends will resent you if you blow them off for your boyfriend. Your boyfriend will resent you for being so clingy.
Ask yourself why you feel this way. Are you afraid of losing him? Have you been hurt in the past? Has he ever done anything untrustworthy? If you truly love your boyfriend and you have no reason not to trust him when he's not with you, you should respect his wishes. Give him some space. When you finally get to see each other after spending all day doing other things, you'll appreciate each other even more and the love will grow stronger. :)
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I cheated on my ex-boyfriend while we were together. I realized I did not love him, and broke it off with him after that. Well, I still loved him very much and he loved me, so one day we decided to hang out as friends. Well, one thing led to another and we ended up having sex. Well, I realized how much of a mistake that was, so I stopped seeing him or talking to him completely.
Now I found out I am pregnant. I am 19 years old and he is 20. My ex-boyfriend is a really good person and I think he'd make a very good father. If our problems weren't enough, here is the biggest issue.
He is foreign. He is staying in the country on a student visa. He will have to leave in 6 months unless we get married. I desperately don't want him to leave. Not for me, but for our future child. The flight to his country and back to visit would be 1200 dollars per trip. Everyone is pressuring us to get married so he can fulfill his fatherly duties and our child could have both parents around. We've research all possible ways he could stay, and it basically comes down to him marrying me.
What should I do? I can't see myself being with this person forever, but I can't see my child only getting to see his father once a year or so. I am seriously thinking about marrying him until he becomes a citizen, and then divorcing. Ugh, it's so frustrating, I don't even want to think about it!!! (link)
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your obviously immature and you shouldn`t have had sex. Instead of being responsible for your child, you want to marry and divorce him, and your only thinking of yourself. little girl.
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how do you french kiss? (link)
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Answer: My first boyfriend and I had never been with other people before, so we both had to figure it out on our own! It's quite simple, actually.
Here's how we learned. One day I had a mint in my mouth and when I went to kiss him, I passed him the mint. We passed it back and forth until it was completely dissolved - but we did not stop there! *wink* We soon became experts in french kissing!
If your boyfriend has experience, then let him lead the way. There's really no wrong way to do it. Just watch out for the teeth, keep saliva to a minimum, and don't use TOO much tongue. Anyways, good luck!
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okay well i have long, thick blonde hair.. and in the shower it comes out REALLY EASiLY.. and a lot. like seriously ... a bunch of hair. idunno.. so .. does anybody know any shampoo && condishiner(sp?) that prevents this.. right now i use Tressime.. ((im 13/f if it helps any)) (link)
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Answer: Your hair could just be sensitive to all the harsh chemicals found in hair products. The shampoo I buy is all natural and it works great! I get it from the local health food store.
If your hair is falling out by the clump fulls, I'd recommend seeing a doctor. It may be that you're not eating properly or could possibly be a side-effect of some medicine you are taking. It's always best to make sure of these things!
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I have a friend that i've known for a year or so and she's been my best friend but lastely she's been getting on my nerves. she acts like me and does things like me and it's bothering me. It's been getting annoying and i don't know what to do. please help me! Thanks. (link)
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just tel her nicely that you find it uncomfortable with her copying you and that she should find her own style etc. you could even suggest other things for her to do so that she isnt with you all of the time, but be gentle when telling her and talking to her because if it was you in her shoes it would most probably upset you. hope i helped x plz rate me xxx
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well my Sims2 is stratched well not alot . anyone know how to fix that without having to go buy a CD repair kit. ive already tried peanut butter,hair conditioner,&&perfume. i got those from websites and it didnt help (link)
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Answer: I'd say just go out and get the repair kit. You've probably already damaged your CD even more by smearing peanut butter and hair conditioner all over it. Is it really worth all this trouble? :)
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I'm 17. I've been dating my boyfriend for 4 months now. He's 24, and things couldn't be better. One problem. He's married to another woman. I had NO idea he was married when we got together 4 months ago. Had I known then what I know now, I wouldn't have ever kept up contact with him. So, I know, but he doesn't know I know. And I'm guessing the wife has NO idea about his infedility. I've known this for about two weeks. I taped us "in the act", in case I ever needed proof.
Question is: how should I go about handling this?
Should I bring it up to HIM first?
Should I somehow tell his WIFE? And if you think I should do that, in what form of communication do you think would be best?
Do you think I should just end the relationship suddenly without mentioning it to him, and then stay the hell away, or what?
I would like to know if MY significant other were up to no good. I know it's not so much my business, but I would have trouble living with myself knowing I kept such a drastic secret from a woman who has every right to know. :( (link)
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Answer: I question your motives for wanting to tell, especially considering the fact you taped it. Revenge for a broken heart? Hopes that you may break up the marriage and he'll come to you? I'm sure you're a lot better person than that. Do not tell the wife.
First of all, you need to look out for yourself. What if you did tell, and the husband/wife ended up blaming you and coming after you for breaking up the marriage? This man lied to you about such a huge part of his life, who knows his true character. And the wife... if you showed her that tape and her husband was sent off to jail, who knows how she might react.
Chances are, the wife already knows he's a cheater, and if she doesn't, she will figure it out eventually on her own. Women are not stupid. Maybe she does know but is not ready to come to terms with it yet. Maybe she does know but doesn't care. Maybe they have an open relationship. Maybe they are going through a divorce. There are a lot of possibilities here, but don't let yourself get caught in the mess. If you do, you will look like the bad guy, even if that's not the case.
Yes, you need to discuss it with him. Tell him you know about his wife and unless they are in an open relationship/process of getting a divorce/some other valid reason, you need to cut contact with him. Tell him you are no longer going to see him as long as he is married to his wife. Do not allow yourself to be the pawn in an affair. You will only have your heart broken. If you continue to do as you are doing, he will probably not leave his wife because, as he sees it, he is having the best of both worlds. He is using you for his own pleasure and selfish purposes. When you are in a relationship, you are supposed to give yourself to one person, not only half of yourself.
Does he know you are only 17? The laws regarding sexual crimes against a minor vary from state to state. Some states are as young as 16 in regards to consent, others are 18. It is your choice whether or not to inform legal authorities if he has committed a crime, but keep all of these things I have listed in mind before doing so. You don't want to open up a can of worms.
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ok so my moms going into operation tomorrow. and its not a big one. but im just scared cause she told me you can die over the littlest ones too. and im really worried.. what can i do to get my mind off of everything? (link)
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try to not be alone becuase i know when i am alone is when i start thinking way to into things like what ifs and everything, go to school talk to your friends you family about anything just concentrate about having a good day.
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what are some good stores that sell cheap clothes? clothes that are pretty and something a teenager would wear.. any suggestions? (link)
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abercrombie and fitch
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i sweat alot and i use good deodarant but i find that i stink by the end of the school day and i wont take off my hoodie. whats hould i do? (link)
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take a deodarant to school with you can you can put it on freely, or perhaps you should try using a different brand? if none of this works perhaps try a 'sports' deodarant or a mens one (mens are a lot stronger) also you could carry a body spray so that if you do smell the body spray will cover it. hope i helped luv please rate mexx
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ok this is a riddle that most of my friends dont get, i do know the awncer and ill give it to you o the feed back! easy 5!
What get's wetter,
The more it dries? (link)
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lol i'm really slow at this kind of stuff
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water? lol i know i'm really stupid but owell
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