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My best friend and I got into a fight because she lied to me about why my boyfriend broke up with me. She actually told him she was in love with him and stuff like that.. since she KNEW he also liked her. And the reason she did that was to get him to break up with me.. all because of jealousy! Well.. she finally told me the truth.. AFTER she knew 2 other people told me. She thinks im mad at her for causing him to break up with me.. but im mad because she lied.. I tried to tell her that.. and she got really defensive and blocked me. Everytime i try to talk to her at school, she walks away from me.
She and I have been friends for a few years now. I hate for our friendship to end like hers and her other best friend's did. How can I talk to her? I tried appologizing and all she said was .. "Mhm Im sure you are". How can I make her realize we are both better off with each other? (link)
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What on earth are YOU apologising for?
You're the one who was lied to.
You're the one who got dumped because of her.
And you want to be the one to apologize? I think not. F her and the horse she rode in on. Get a new friend.
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Ok, this boy and I have gotten to know each other pretty well over the internet. And just the other day he found out what I looked like. He had said I was pretty but I wasn't sure if he was just not trying to hurt my feelings. He says I'm not his type but when he told me what kind of girls he liked, it was exactly me. I'm not just saying this, it's VERY true. He can't really say I'm not his type because he hasn't gotten the chance to talk to me in person. By the interenet, he says my personality is awesome. He considers me a good friend. I hear that in school, he talks about me a lot. Saying I'm really cool and one of his friends. He trys to find out who my friends are in his classes so he can talk to them about me. I don't know what to do. I have only said hi to him once in person. When he sees me at school, he stares a little bit and starts talking about me to my friends. I don't know if he likes me and I just want to give everything time. I really need help. THANKS! I'll rate GREAT!
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Just talk to him in person like you do on the net. I would say you may be giving him a mixed signal if you don't talk to him in person.
I'm having trouble with why he didn't know what you looked like if you go to school together.
Sounds like he likes you though.Talk to him and find out.
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How do you avoid a person that likes you but you dont like them back, not even as a friend. But it feels awkward to be around this person! And he just keeps followin you around and asks you if you like him or not and when i say NO then he asks me again and again and he wont stop until he heres the answar he wants but i wont give it to him! NEED ADVICE!!! (link)
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You know what? I had this problem myself.Talk about your whack jobs! I just had to ignore her.Not that she stopped.I was rude to her and mean to her and it made no diffrence whatsoever. The best thing I can tell you is ignore him as best as you can and hope he gets tired of it soon. You can just come right out and tell him you can't stand him & get lost,but be prepared for him to laugh like you're joking or something.Sorry I wasn't more helpful. Good luck getting rid of the leech.
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Ok, heres the deal.
Almost a year ago two months from now I met a girl on the net over an MMO. She's young like me, 17, and has a very addicting personality. We became friends quickly, and we talk about alot of things together, and swap alot of pictures from good times we've had with friends, family, etc. I found her to be attracting, but foudn it strange too. I've not met her in RL at all, because she lives states away... but the most freaky thing is that we're going to that state this summer break, very close to her area..
So, what if, when I meet her, I /do/ like her? My parents know that we'll be meeting, and they don't have any negative feelings about it. What should I do, try to let her know and then maybe during or after college make a move? (link)
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I think your're too young to be thinking to far in the future.It will be great for you to meet this summer.I'm sure it will be a little awkward at first, which is normal so don't freak out about that.
I see no reason why you can't be friends.She lives a long way off so I wouldn't expect more than that.Also she is enough older than you that I really don't think she's going to wait around for a romance. Sorry. That doesn't mean you can't be great Inet buddies.
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hi...my name is anna. i like this guy who is a year older than me. hes really sweet, quiet, hillarious........and to my knoweledge hasnt have any-very many g/fs. everytime i see him i cant speak or anything. i saw him the other day and i ran. how stupid am i. I RAN!!! i couldve done anythingelse but no....i ran. i was wondering...like what do i do? i met some girls who sit with him at lunch. they know him so well. and i dont. im sooo jealous. i cant stand the madness of having a b/f but i think hes rite for me and im so clueless. thank you soooooooooooo much!
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Hi anna....Next time you see this guy stand still. You just got nervous. If you like him though you have to let him talk to you! Just start with a simple hi when you see him.After a couple of time it will get easier.Hopefully after that you can add another sentence or two.Good luck....maybe buy some heavy boots..:}
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i really liked this guy, then he cut his hair and i just dont have any feelings for him, but i think he does for me... hes still nice and all, but do i sound jujmental? (link)
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Why would you stop liking someone just because they cut their hair? Of course he still nice, do you think cutting your hair makes a person mean or something? Do you want someone to judge you by the way you look.? I don't think you do.It will grow back.
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I've started using a gothic appearence. (I dressed in black a lot and use dark black make-up on my eyes and either brown or red lipstick.) Nobody even understand why I'm doing it. I'm sort of doing it as an expirement. (Sorry if I spelled that wrong.)It freaks out my teachers, classmates call me a vampire, my boyfriend acts scared of me, and my parents don't like anything about my new look. All I've changed is how I look. I don't want to lose my friends just for the sake of looking gothic. But, if they can't accept how I want to look, are they real friends? What should I do? Advice please! (link)
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sounds like you got results to your experiment.
If you like the look keep with it.If your personality doesn't undergo a major change people will see this sooner or later.If they just can't get past the way you look then they are the ones with the problem.
First impressions are pretty strong.If you want to continue you'll just have to accept the fact that you'll be getting a lot of strange looks and you may even lose a few friends. The decision is all yours to make.
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Okay, well I need to make friends. I talk to a lot of people in my classes, but once class is over I'm left alone. I dont have a group of friends where I can sit down during lunch or break or whatever...and just hang out. I get out at school during lunch, so I never stay for lunch. If I see a familiar face, I say hey to them and we talk for a few min. And thats that. I am an outgoing, fun, etc. person and all, I just dont have real friends to hang out with at school and on the weekends. I do have church friends, but I want SCHOOL friends. How can I make school friends? Its sorta depressing me.. (link)
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Is there anyone in particular that you want to hang out with? If so, just jump in and start hanging around with them.It could be they like you but don't know how to approach you.Maybe come back from lunch early or something.
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Ok, I'm 13/f and my parents won't allow me to have a boyfriend. I've tried almost everything!! If any of ya have any ideas to get my parents to think it's ok to let me have a boyfriend, please message me!! (link)
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You are young yet. This won't be what you want i'm sure but you just wait.If you don't argue with them all the time maybe they will let up if a special event comes up or something...maybe not.
You have plenty of time (even though it doesn't seem that way). Talk to your mom about the boyfriend. You don't have to say he's your boyfriend, just tell her you like him.Tell her about his family, how nice he is etc. Just talk about him.Maybe given time she will let you go to a chaperoned event that she approves of or something.
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21/f Here's the situation my fiancee's aunt (married in) is so annoying I just want to pop her in the mouth. She makes these assumptions about me and then gossips about me. Many people including my fiancee has told me that she thinks i am too "sassy". The problem is no one asked her opinion! I am tired of her lecturing me about things that she thinks are going on but they aren't. example: My fiancee and I disagree like all people do on some things. She says why are yall fighting about things that don't matter! WHAT FIGHT? And she takes people's opinions especially hers for truth.She has good sides but this overshadows the good in her. How do I get past this without knocking her out?!? (link)
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Well hopefully after you're married you won't have to see her very much.That would help!
When you do have to see her and she mentions you being "sassy"...tell her that you know you're sassy and fiance(use his name!)likes me this way.
As for the lecturing...Tell her everyone is entitled to their opinion but she's wrong about you.Don't elaborate or give her anything to argue about.Leave it at that.
Try not to disagree in front of her.If you do,politely tell her that it really isn't any of her business what you and fiance are debating.
The key is just be nice but firm.Don't let her get to you because that is probably what she wants.Pretty soon she'll move on to someone she can get riled up.
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my friend is totally crushing on this guy. she loves him so much that she went and made a statue of him made out of aluminum foil. but............he doesnt like her at all. i have no idea why. she's really pretty and nice. he's mean to her in the way that he always laughs at her when she messes up and sometime i hear him talking about her. the problem is that the guy she likes, likes ME. and if i tell her, then shes gonna hate me and think i'm a liar and she will be heart broken. if i dont tell her in time,she's gonna tell him she likes him and she's gonna get told off.
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Why is it everybody is so obsessed with letting people of the opposite sex know they "Like them"?
Just curious.Actions speak louder than words.
If she doesn't see or hear how this guy is treating her I really doubt she'll hear you either. Aluminum foil statues...come on now, the girl is goofy about him.
I don't really know why you would want a guy who would treat your friend like crap. He's not real nice it doesn't sound like. I mean if you start dating him is he still going to treat your friend this way? I'd wait and see if he grows up first.
If you should decide to go for it you will probably lose your girlfriend.Just tell her he's to immature for either of you and move on.
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hey im 13 and i live in pennsylvania around pittsburgh... i want to start thinking about what college i want to go to.. i want to become a psychologist or a lawyer... what are some good colleges to look into? (link)
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Check with your school guidence counsler.They should have some answers for you.Or check out some web sites. Just type in lawyer+schools and see what you can find out or psychology+schools.
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i want to go to this party but i'm not sure if my dad will let me. How do i ask if i can go? answer ASAP 2 hrs til the party! will make people favorite columist And give fives!!! (link)
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You simply ask.If you lie about it and you get caught he'll never let you go again.
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Ok so there's this guys Shawn, and he doesn't live here. We have been off and on since the summer, and i'm so insecure about the relationship because all the other guys i've been with have been pricks. I never see him so i dont consider it a relationship..and i can't just be friends with him because i have stronge feelings for him, and it's not going to work ever again. But it hurt's so much when i see him sign on or talk or think about him. He was the first real guy that accepted my eating disorder and my cutting habbits. I need to get over him because i don't wanna feel this weay anymore. But everytime i try it feel's as if i can't feel the same way with another guy. I'm thinking of deleting his s.n and getting ride of anything that has to do with him..taking him out of the picture completley. (Because if he really loves me then he'll be there later in life, right?) What do you think? (link)
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Excellent i'm glad you've been treated and I'm glad shawn was supportive in your treatment.
If he doesn't live near you then you really are unable to have a boyfriend/girlfriend relationship anyway.So right now just be friends.
Why do you think you're unable to just be friends anyway? He obviously likes you and cares about you to have supported you in your time of need.Not all guys would do that ya know.
You can go out with other guys if you want to and he can date others as well.It will hurt I know to think about it.But, you may find someone new and still have a great friend.Or, if not one day you will be together.I would try to move on but I would not take him out of the picture all together. He's been a good friend.
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Hmm... Where to start. Ok, so I've been going out with this girl for a couple of months and it's been amazing. Some of the best months of my life. And I have this friend that I think has a crush on her. He will always play with her hair and like give her little nicknames, and that stuff of the sort. Also, her one friend keeps asking me how much I like her and stuff like that. It is just kinda suspicious. What do you think, should I worry or what? (link)
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You should tell her that these things bother you.You should also tell your best friend that his behavior bothers you.He should keep his hands off your girlfriend,if he is a friend.
The third person friend interference thing is something girls do for reasons I fail to understand.I guess it's what they do when they are to chicken to ask for themselves.Either your girlfriend is uncertain of your feelings for her and is having the friend feel you out about it, OR, the girlfriends friend likes you and is trying to see where the relationship is heading.
Whatever the case is you have to talk to these people and see whats going on.
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(15/f) My neighbors music is so loud I hear it on the opposite side of my house from the side that he lives on. I don't want to go to his house, and my parents are home so I can't blast ours that would def. be louder. He is around 40 something? Any ideas? (link)
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The proper way to handle it is for your parents to tell him his music is disturbing you.Then if it doesn't quiet down you call the cops.
Or you could be like the Osbournes and just throw a ham at them.
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Okay well last night I had my bf over and we got sexual.. Well to get to the point we wern't gonna have sex so we just fooled around.. Well he came(spelling error lol) and he was down there when he did it.. He made me go in the bathroom to check if ne got in but I dont know.. I dont know what to do. and I dont want to tell him I am scared. I am a 14/f
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Don't panic.Is it possible be pregnant? Yes it is.If he wasn't inside you at that time, it is possible but not real likely.So don't panic.Wait and see if your next period gets here first.If it does you are ok.If it doesn't then tell your mother.
This shouldn't be happening to a girl your age.You are sooo young.If this happens again, you make sure he wears a condom. Condoms are not a guarentee though so you really are better off waiting.BUT, if you think you have to be messing around....Play safe!
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I want to make a pie for my friends on pi day, because it's funny and dorky and this monday (3/14!) but I've never made a pie before. What's the easiest pie to make? (link)
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Pie is easy....well the innards are easy.I can't make crust to save my sole.I cheat and buy the already made kind.Put it in a pie pan and add your favorite pie filling from a can.If you want to get fancier look up a recipe for the insides and buy a crust.Graham cracker crust is my fav and really easy to do.Just look up some recipes and have fun with it.Now you have me wanting pie. I may have to cheat on my diet today.
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so we are jsut friends but my mom says i cant date until im 17 or even just like go somewhere with him last night he was like how many days i was like what hes like until you turn 17 i was like 50 some hes like do you think you will still wanna go tot he movies with me by then. so does he like me or just being friendly? give me lots of advice and i rate high (link)
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Sounds to me like he's willing to wait for you and abide by your parents rules.What a great guy! Sounds like he likes you to me.Hang out in school until then.Make a date for your birthday!
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I have some friends and every time they move out of my class they dont talk to me but when i am in there class im there bff. Why dod they do this? (link)
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They can be friends without being BEST friends.You can't be best friends with everyone you meet.Enjoy their company in class the same as they must enjoy yours.
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