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Possible Break-up Situation?
Hmm... Where to start. Ok, so I've been going out with this girl for a couple of months and it's been amazing. Some of the best months of my life. And I have this friend that I think has a crush on her. He will always play with her hair and like give her little nicknames, and that stuff of the sort. Also, her one friend keeps asking me how much I like her and stuff like that. It is just kinda suspicious. What do you think, should I worry or what?
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If it has been amazing, and she is into it NO. Mabey you should have a talk with youru friend though and hers.
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well tell your gal how much she really means to you. kiss her on the cheek and tell her you'd be lost w/o her
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Most importantly do not play jealous because that could ruin everything. If you feel threatened by your friend and think she would prefer to be with him just start treating her better, make her feel special spend more time with her and let her know that you care, girls like that. Also, talk to your friend about how you do not feel conformable with him flirting with your girlfriend and nicely ask him to back off. Whatever you do, do not start fights because that will turn your friend and you girlfriend against you. One last thing when her friend asks you how you feel about your girlfriend, tell her the truth because that might be a test let hre know that you think this were some of the best months of your life so she would tell her friend.
I hope this helps!
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You should tell her that these things bother you.You should also tell your best friend that his behavior bothers you.He should keep his hands off your girlfriend,if he is a friend.
The third person friend interference thing is something girls do for reasons I fail to understand.I guess it's what they do when they are to chicken to ask for themselves.Either your girlfriend is uncertain of your feelings for her and is having the friend feel you out about it, OR, the girlfriends friend likes you and is trying to see where the relationship is heading.
Whatever the case is you have to talk to these people and see whats going on.
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don't worry for yourself but worry for your gf. just ask her who she wants. that's all you can do.
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Well i would question your friend about this. Dont argue about it because if the relationship does end you will have lost a friend. But it seems like she likes you if its amazing and you's have been going out for a while. So i wouldnt worry too much about her likeing/doing stuff with anyone especially because its your friend. So i'd just ask him. hope i helped. xo-ashley
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If she truely loves you, she won't be leaving you anytime soon. Even though guys usually dont tell other guys thier feelings, i think you just need to tell your friend you don't like him flurting with your girlfriend.Good luck!!!
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Ask your friend if he likes her because you see how he acts when he is around her. Talk to your girlfriend and confront her and tell her how your feelings are when you see this happen. Let her know how you feel. Ask what she thinks about it too.
-Katrina aka here x 2 x help
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I agree, it is a little suspicious, but it is nothing to worry about before you know for sure what is going on. Be upfront with your friend that you think likes your girlfriend. Ask him straight up if he likes her, and just say you've been noticing that he has been flirting with her alot and you want to know what is going on. Hopefully, it is nothing at all. Quite possibly, it is just his personality and he is just a flirtatious guy. If this is the case, maybe he just wasn't aware of what he was doing and will ease up if he knows it makes your uncomfortable. Now about your girlfriend's friend... First of all, I hope you are telling that girl how much you love your girlfriend each time she asks you that! I don't really know why she would be doing that, and I doubt it relates in any way to your flirtatious friend. I would also suggest though, asking her why she asks you that, next time she approaches you with that question.
In your question, you didn't once mention that your girlfriend was acting strangely. So I will assume she is acting normal towards you. This is the most important thing. If she was acting weird, or overly flirty back to your friend, I might get a little suspicious. But it sounds like your relationship is going fine. Don't jepoardize your relationship by becoming overly protective of her because of your suspicions. Until you get everything sorted out, don't jump to any conclusions or act any differently. I hope everything turns out okay for you... to be honest with you, it just sounds like your friend is jealous that he doesn't have an awesome girlfriend, like you do, and is just going through a 'wishful-thinking' stage. Hope this helps. Leave me a message in my inbox and let me know what your friend said, or if you need anything else!
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Coming from a girl my boyfriend feels the same about my friend Max. I wouldn't break up with her. She's still into you, just trust her. If she really wants to be with you, which I'm sure she does, she won't do anything with your friend. And tell your friend that he needs to back off of the pet names and touchy feely things becuase shes not his girl. But say it nicely that way you dont have some soap opera thing going on. I know its hard in this situation but just wait a little while, the answer will reveal itself ... (wow fortune cookie moment lol) ... But I would advise you talking to your friend to let him know how it feels when he does this. If your girl has treated you amzingly for the past couple of months I don't think she would cheat on you now. I hope my advice helps. Any questions look in my advice collum for my instant messengers
-Malicious
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confront him and ask him what's goin on.
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Well, hopefully your friend doesn't like her, but these are signs of liking someone. So, I suggest you say, "hey, I'm starting to get uncomfortable with the way you act towards my girlfriend, do you like her?" and start from there, now, don't get upset, if he tries to take her and keeps flirting with her, thats when you get upset.
-TheTeenGirl
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Ask him if he has a crush on her. Don't make assumptions, but just ask him. Then ask her friend why she is asking you these questions.
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