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Hey. My name is Katrina I am 13 years old. I am a great listener and I have good advice. I am here to help you with whatever questions you need answered. I will try and do my best and give you good advice and I hope that I helped! Thanks.
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15,f ok i used to go out with this kid i meant on vacation [we'll call him dave] so i ended up going out with dave for a yr and i eventually broke up with him for somebody else and he got really mad and i havent talked to him until just recently. i really want to be friends with him again but i cant talk to him about it . my best friend asked if he was friends with me and he sed no but hes always talking to me and i think he might like me again maybe even more than a friend but i was told he liked someone else i also think im starting to liek him again what do u think i should do ~ plz help xoxo
Try and talk to him. Let him know how you feel. Let him know you think you started liking him again so he knows. But dont come off too strong cuz you dont want to scare him away. Tell him you want ot be friends if he doesnt want to go back out with you again. If it doesnt work then hes not worth it. There are plenty others out there. Dont worry if he likes you he will come running back. Just make sure you let him know how you feel. Please Rate
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Im 17f and ive never had a boyfriend. It used to bug me, but i dont have a problem with it anymore. Not to sound conceited, but i could easily get a boyfriend if i wanted one. But right now Im not really looking for one. Plus, i have high standards. Well my family constantly makes fun of me because ive never had a boyfriend. And my sister (14, who is the hugest slut and will have sex with anyone who says hi to her) always calls me a lesbian. Then my dad and her will laugh and make jokes back and forth about it. It really offends me that they say things like this because it hurts, even if its not even true. I try to not let it bother me, but they do it all the time and its hard to ignore. Ive already told them to shut up about it, but then they bother me even more. What am i supposed to do? Even if they are joking, it still bugs me.
Ok. Tell your parents and your sister that you are not into looking for a guy because your concentration is on other things besides guys. Tell them that your feelings get hurt when they "joke" around with you. Tell them how you feel and im sure it will stop. Hope I helped! Please Rate
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Ok, I'm 13/f and my parents won't allow me to have a boyfriend. I've tried almost everything!! If any of ya have any ideas to get my parents to think it's ok to let me have a boyfriend, please message me!!
Ok. First show them that you are responsible. Do whatever they tell you. Do good in school and help around the house. Second make sure he is also a good guy good grades not a trouble maker and very nice and polite. Third ask your parents if he could come over for dinner so they can get to know him. Make your parents feel safe and let them know your older now and you can be trusted. Hope I helped! Please Rate Katrina aka here x 2 x help
this boy wanted 2 hav sex wit me but i told him that mayb l8er......im not sure if i should but im not sure if i shouldnt....wats the bad part about havin sex...well use condums...wat sould i do? i rate high
Ok. well first I recommend that you guys are old enough and responsible. Make sure you guys are truly in love b4 having sex. The bad part is the consequences. You might get pregnant and then you'll have to decide on an abortion or to keep it. Its a hard job trying to raise a baby. But if you get an abortion youll regret it. Yes you should definetly use condoms but think about what your getting into. Do you really love this guy? Or is he just in it for the sex? Make sure you love him he loves you and you guys will stay together forever. You have to be committed to something like this. Having sex is a big discussion. Raising a baby and delivering a baby are not easy to do. Wait until your older and until your more experienced about the consequences of having sex. Dont rush into it just because this boy asked you to. Do what feels comfortable to you. Dont let anyone pressure you into doing something you feel uncomfortable in. Please Rate
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all the boyz in my class and all boyz that i kno r shorter than me and i hate it bc they all say i only want a girl that thin and pretty and short and im not short or pretty or thin even though everyone tells me i am but im sccared that no boy will ever ask me out. wat should i do?
Ok. Im in the same situation as you are but I am not taller than every boy in my class. lol Ok. So people always tell me like my parents or my friends they tell me that their are millions of guys out their and somewhere and someone is out there for you. In this situation i cant do much for you or me. All we can do is just go on with our lives have our regular day and just be yourself. Just be true to yourself and everyone else and some guy is going to want you for who you are. Just be patient the right one will come along. Dont be scared boys will ask you out. Besides right now in our age this isnt real love as we get older that is when we experience the true definition of love. Dont worry your time will come. Please Rate
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i had this best friend and i told her who i liked. shes in 8th grade and im only in 6th and my crush is in my class. after skewl my friend went up 2 my crush and asked him out 4 herself rite after i told her i liked him. i was so mad at her 4 doin that 2 me. now they r goin out and im still mad at her. in math class my crush sits rite infront of me. wen we get 2 correct ppl he alwys asks me 2 correct him. so i do. my other friends sit rite next 2 him and she always picks on me since i like him. he told her 2 stop pickin on me. then she started spreadin rumerz that he liked me and that we were goin out. so my friendship is ruined wit her and now this boy hates me 2 bc he thinks i started the rumers. so this 1 girl that i thout was my friend ruined my life. wat should i do?
You can try and talk to your best friend and tell her everything that goes on. Tell your crush that if hes going out with someone then you guys can be friends nothing more. Tell rumor spreader not to spread untrue things about people because its mean and unneccessary. Tell that person that they wouldnt like it if their was a rumor being spread aorund about them that was true. How would they feel? Talk it out with your crush and your friend. If your friend doesnt believe you then shes not a friend at all. Tell her that you thought it was really mean to go and ask out your crush when she knew you liked him. Please Rate -Katrina aka here x 2 x help
My friend just got a boyfriend awhile back. He's a really sweet guy, but he always flirts with me & my other friend. At a dance last night he kept touching me! I told my friend that he's bad news but she didn't think much of it. I know she deserves so much better than him. What should I do?
Try and talk to your friend and tell her whats going on and what hes doing and if she doesnt believe you try and set up a plan like a trick and try to catch him in the act. Katrina aka here x 2 x help
Heyy everyone. I just got over a minor soore throat and a cold. But now I have a really really runny and atuffy nose. My throat is alot better, it just feels tight when i swallow. Is there anyway I can make this head cold go away before 7:00 tonight? thanks!
Ok. Here is my advice. Just try and stay in bed all day. Drink lots of fluids. Blow your nose often an use vicks. Its that cream you put under your nose to open up your nostils so you can breathe. Have a wet cloth on your forehead so you dont get a fever.
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ok im 11/f and i got this awsome friend. he thinks so highly of him self and wants 2 hav sex and is only 12. im rlly scared 4 him bc i dont want him 2 make a mistake that he might regret wen he gets older. he my best friend and ive never been so worried 4 him like this b4. it would b weird 2 talk 2 him bout sex but i think that if i dont he might do it and hurt a girl and regret it l8er. wat should i do?
Ok. I think you should definetly talk to your friend. Your right he could hurt the girl or regret it later. Talk to him or tell a parent about it that you can trust. Talk to him and tell him about the consequences he will be facing if he does have sex. Tell him to wait the right girl will come around. Be patient. Dont rush. Katrina aka here x 2 x help
im only 11 but my brother has the cutest best friends in the world and they are always over our house. i like 2 of them so much but i cant tell them how i feel bc im afraid of gettin my heart broken and if they brake my heart it would suck bad and since they are always over i would hav 2 see them alot and it would hurt even worse.they r 2 boyz and im a girl. wat should i do?
Ok. This is pretty dificult. I was in the same situation before. My advice to you is not to tell them because if they dont like you then you would feel really embarressed every time they come over. I think you should just have one of your friends find out if they like you. If that doesnt work out then just move on. My best advice just move on you dont want to get hurt and made fun of. Theres plenty other guys besides those two. The right one will come to you. Just be patient. - Katrina aka here x 2 x help
ok, i have this friend and i really am good friends with her..and then theres a guy i like and i finally got his sn and then she asked for it. i know this sounds really stupid. but i just dont want to give it to her.. i know that she doesnt like him but something is telling me not to..should i? *
Ok I was in this situation before I didnt want to give my friend this guys screen name because I was afraid she might like him or talk to him and tell him stuff about me. I ended up not giving it to her and I told her I had lost the screen name or accidentally deleted it. Hope I helped
-Katrina aka here x 2 x help
okay im going to get to the point, i lost my viriginty to a boy who is 2 years older then me, were werent going out but i like him alot, and im not one of those bout it type of girls either. But anyways i lost it to him and we kept talking and we also kept doin it. It sounds dumb but we never really talked in between, we talked sumtimes when we were together but that was it. Every time i asked him somthing about himself he would get defensive, i know he has had bad past realtionships and he doesnt trust girls but...i dont know, then i finnaly spoke up about the way he treats me like his hoe, and he said fuck it but then changed his mind and apologized. He is like an emotional roller coaster and i care for him alot, and i think he cares to by the things he does but he doesnt want to, you know what i mean? hes in a gang and considers that his family but recently they just ditched him in a situation where him and one of his homeboys were stuck to face like 100 guyz by themselves they just all out bailed on him, and he got mad and turned around and yelled at me "and you were not talking any more", i really care about him but i dont know how to reach him or w.e hes complicated, and i wanna stop the fucking, and become more of a friend, but i wanna be with him, i dunno im so confused. I know i should move on but i cant help it, im stuck to him hes my first. But i really want to understand him too, any advice, thankx ill rate you...xOx
Ok. This is a hard problem. Try and talk to him. Tell him how you feel. If he trys to make a move on you tell him to stop you dont want to Tell him you guys need to talk. If he flips out on you then hes not the one for you. Hes probably just in it for the sex. If he gets mad then thats his fault he should respect you and you should try and talk to himm and help him. Dont let him boss you around or tell you what to do. If I were you I would ditch him and get out of the siuation obviously you arent meant to be. You deserve better. Katrina aka here x 2 x help
sorry its so long..but please help.. 16/f Okay i think i have a problem with my attitude with my boyfriend.. like i am so happy with him and we kid around an stuff but for some weird reason out of no where i become a bitch.. i reall cant explain why all the sudden i become like that.. i dont get like that with anybody else but him.. we have been together 8 months.. and probably ever since december i been like this.. i really try to understand my self and try to get why im like that but i cant.. he never gets mad about it or anything really he usually sits there and says *aw my baby's mad* then like i cant be mad anymore... which like i said i dont know why i am in the first place... but after a while he'll ask whats wrong when he knows im calm down and he's holding me.. and i tell him *i dont know whats wrong* then he thinks that i dont wanna share my problems with him...which its not that i cant tell him whats wrong if i dont know my self...then he gets mad bout it and then *i cry* thats one of the worst feelings i get is when i see him mad or sad at me or around me.. and then after that he gets like sad cause i cried.. i really want this to stop.. this doesnt happen everyday..maybe like once or twice a week but thats too many times and its gettin old..my friend told me she thought i was doin it for attention.. which i thought bout that for a while... but i get all the attention i need from him.. this is really my first actual relationship with a guy so i havent been like that with anybody else and he the first guy ive actually loved.. but i guess i need advice to understand why i might be like this and what might cause me to be like that.. and if anybody else is like that please explain why you are.. i'll rate anything high as long as it helps in some sort of way..much luv and thanks in advance to who ever answers..
Ok I dont know much about this sorta thing but All I can say is maybe it is attention or maybe you feel that you guys are too sensitive around each other. Maybe you just do it out of reaction. Please Rate Hope I helped! -Katrina aka here x 2 x help
i know this is a little confusing n complicated but plz help me..ok here is the thing my bday is coming up in less then 3 weeks and for the last 2 birthday's me n my friend spent together since its the same day (March 30), for the 1st birthday was our 13th bday, we went to sports plus (for those who dk what that is its basically a place with a bunch of games n a inside roller coaster, and lazer tag n bumper cars....) then we went to the movies n then McDonald's for the 2nd time she came home on the bus with me n we hung out for a while n then when my mom came home she took the 2 of us bowling n then to friendly's...and here is the problem she moved to Pennyslvania to her dad's bc she didn't want to live in NY ne more, and well she is almost on the Ohio boarder which is 7 hours and 39 mins (as of what yahoo says) and we can't see each other this year, we may be allowed to go to Hershey since its exactly half way from both of us...and well we thought she was coming back but her dad wont drive so i cant see her till June bc of her brothers graduation (her mom n her brother still live in NY her parents r divorce) and well..i dk what i can do for my birthday since it wont be with her, and also my birthday is in 18 days which falls on a wednesday...which is the same day my mom teaches a religion class @ my church...ne ideas?? i was @ Dave & Busters (for those who dk what that is either is a smaller version of sports plus but more expensive n more adult like) last night n i was thinking that goin there with a few friends...urmmm ne ideasss??- thx
Ok here's my advice have your own little party with your friends at at fun place or something Send her a little card through mail and have in it Sorry we couldnt be together this year. =( and maybe find out if shes doing anything over the summer and maybe you guys can have your own little party her house or yours or even Hershey and then have your party wherever and make it up for your real birthday Please Rate -Katrina aka here x 2 x help
I had this friend since like kindergarden,and we've been like bark on a tree, 2 peas in a pod. Then now, in 7th grade, she had a scheldue with all of these super popular people, and became best friends with like all of them. I'm not jelous, but like she won't even say hi o me when she's with them. Now, I'm not like super nerd, but I'm definetly not super popular. She acts so different and stupid when she's with them. I hate her being a fake~~!
Try talking to her and tell her how you feel. Tell her how she has changed when she hangs out with her other friends. As this is going on try and meet some new friends too Join clubs or even sports and then she'll know how it feels to be left out . Please Rate Thnx! - Katrina aka here x 2 x help
Okay, well im 15 years old, and i weigh about 105, and about 5'3"... I'm a really skinny girl, but like.. i hate my stomach. like right under my ribs it goes in.. then like right at my bellybutton i have this like.. pudge roll.. i cant explain it.... then it goes back to like flat at my pant line.. It's been like that since i can remember-- I've tried doing crunches, sit ups n everything for a while and it doesnt help at all... any suggestions?
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Hey All I can do to help is recommend going to a fitness trainer or someone who works out a lot and knows stuff about that and they will tell you what to do. Please Rate and Feedback Thanks!
- Katrina aka here x 2 x help
Hey! I straighten my hair alot, but my straightner takes at least an hour for me to straighten my hair (and it still does barely anything) does anyone know of a certain brand or type of straightner that will straighten my hair quickly, and make give it that straight glossy look? without frying my hair? tHANKS A BUNCH!
Here's what I think: From what I hear dont use clothe irons they burn and damage your hair. I also heard Chi's are cheap and aren't that good either. My recommendation would be a professional like Revlon or something like that. The Straightener that I have is a professional Revlon and its a steam one and it gives you that glossy look your looking for but i rarely use mine bcuz I am too lazy. I have really wavy thick poofy hair and I just used it once and man it worked good! Revlon Professional with the steam thats good - Katrina aka here x 2 x help
I need to know what to do in this situation,i went on a date and i told one of my guy friends about it and then he told another guy that the guy i went out with fingered me and then that guy asked the guy i went out with and he said no and told him it wasn't true...but the worst part is that he lied and said that i was the one who said that he did it to me when it never happened...the guy who started the whole rumor is suppose to be one of my best friends what should i do or say to him.... please help...thanks
Here's my advice for you: Confront your friend and ask him why he said that about you. Tell the guys the truth. If they dont believe you then their just immature and gullable. You and your date guy are the real ones who knew what happened so as long as you know the truth you'll be fine. Dont get caught up in all that. If your friend wants to spread mean and unnecessary rumors about you than maybe he's not a friend at all. -Katrina aka here x 2 x help
Is there a way to stop a pregnant woman from drinking? I don't understand why it's not against the law. It's aginst the law to supply alcohol to minors, but it's ok to posion your unborn child?
My advice to you is try and quit on your own. Later on if you still are drinking try going to a rehab or a therapist or someone you really know and try and talk to them about your alcoholic problems. No I dont think it is right to poison your unborn child.
- Katrina aka here x 2 x help
Okay so me and this kid have been going on again off again. We always end up breaking up beacause he obviously cant control his hormones,and i always end up taking him back. Well weve been split up for a while now and he wants to start dateing again. I know what could happen but i still like him. what should i do?
Try and talk to him about how you are feeling about the situation. Tell him what you want to do and if he disagrees with you then dont give him another chance. - Katrina aka here x 2 x help