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okay im going to get to the point, i lost my viriginty to a boy who is 2 years older then me, were werent going out but i like him alot, and im not one of those bout it type of girls either. But anyways i lost it to him and we kept talking and we also kept doin it. It sounds dumb but we never really talked in between, we talked sumtimes when we were together but that was it. Every time i asked him somthing about himself he would get defensive, i know he has had bad past realtionships and he doesnt trust girls but...i dont know, then i finnaly spoke up about the way he treats me like his hoe, and he said fuck it but then changed his mind and apologized. He is like an emotional roller coaster and i care for him alot, and i think he cares to by the things he does but he doesnt want to, you know what i mean? hes in a gang and considers that his family but recently they just ditched him in a situation where him and one of his homeboys were stuck to face like 100 guyz by themselves they just all out bailed on him, and he got mad and turned around and yelled at me "and you were not talking any more", i really care about him but i dont know how to reach him or w.e hes complicated, and i wanna stop the fucking, and become more of a friend, but i wanna be with him, i dunno im so confused. I know i should move on but i cant help it, im stuck to him hes my first. But i really want to understand him too, any advice, thankx ill rate you...xOx
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i understand where your coming from with this... i would be the same.. um i think you should try to become more of a friend cause you arent getting what you want except having sex thats the only way youve became some what close to him.. telling him how you feel is a good idea for anybody its good to say how you feel.. but you should tell him you care alot for him and wanna be there for him through thick or thin things that go on in his life.. sex causes emotion and stress on girls alot.. and we worry alot bout whats going on with the person we care and love for.. this most likely isnt going to go away til you open up more with him bot whats going on in your head.. much luv hope i helped x0x0
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I totally understand you. Don't be afraid to tell him your feelings. Tell him that you feel distant and want to be closer.
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wow..thats a hard situation to be in. just be reading that i could understand what your going through. guys will always be guys, confusion, attitudes. you know how it is? what i think you should do, is try and talk to him one on one. tell him your truely care about him and that you'll always be my his side through everything. ask him if hes feeling anything between you 2. if he gives you attitude or he just isnt listening, its not meant to be. its going to be a heartbreaker but im sure you'll find a guy just as amazing. you never know until you talk to somebody, hes probably feeling the same, ya know..like mixed emontions. especially whats goin on with the family and friends. i wish you alotta luck. <33
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Wow, your kinda in a rut. Well you told him how you feel which was the best thing you can do. Try talking to him again and explain to him that you know his past relationships haven't been all that great but with you it would be different. and you have really strong feelings for him but you dont like the way how he takes things out on you as much as you like him. Tell him you want to be more than a fuckmate, tell him you wanna be like his girlfriend.
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If you feel that hes dragging you down with him then let him go for the better!but I kind of understand your pain, you dont want to leave him. I think you should just be friends and one night when ur together then just tell him you need to talk (instead of fucking) and you can just talk about just being friends! If he doesnt listen then hes not worth it!
Remember:He's in a gang and he can hurt you emotionally AND physically in many different ways! so watch out for your self, do what your heart tells you to!Hope I helped,love madison
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i kno this may sound hard, but drop him! he is in a gang, doesnt talk to you between sex, and if you ask me it is lust not love. find another guy. be happy with someone else
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Ok. This is a hard problem. Try and talk to him. Tell him how you feel. If he trys to make a move on you tell him to stop you dont want to Tell him you guys need to talk. If he flips out on you then hes not the one for you. Hes probably just in it for the sex. If he gets mad then thats his fault he should respect you and you should try and talk to himm and help him. Dont let him boss you around or tell you what to do. If I were you I would ditch him and get out of the siuation obviously you arent meant to be. You deserve better. Katrina aka here x 2 x help
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