I had this friend since like kindergarden,and we've been like bark on a tree, 2 peas in a pod. Then now, in 7th grade, she had a scheldue with all of these super popular people, and became best friends with like all of them. I'm not jelous, but like she won't even say hi o me when she's with them. Now, I'm not like super nerd, but I'm definetly not super popular. She acts so different and stupid when she's with them. I hate her being a fake~~!
irish_mobsta91 answered Sunday March 13 2005, 10:25 am: thats happened to a lot of my friends, and me too. when we got ot middle school everything changed. the girl who i had a crush on from kindergarten up until 5th grade wont even talk to me. now, i am trying to get all of us back together, but they act like they dont even know me anymore. its tru that they dont, but they know who i was and i know who they were; but now they are all super popular and they girls are all slutty.
anyway, after school, you need to tell her to cut it out and decide. either be true to her new friends and you or just stop talking to you
irish
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Altazuma answered Saturday March 12 2005, 10:57 pm: Life is like that. Sometimes it takes people in different directions and they don't hang out so much any more. OK, she is being rude by not acknowledging you when she is with her other friends but she might be struggling to fit in also. Do nothing. Don't hate her. She will wake up one day and realise that her true friends have drifted away from her perhaps. Maybe she wont. Either way there is not point spending effort hating her over it. Just get on with you own life and find some new friends. [ Altazuma's advice column | Ask Altazuma A Question ]
MiZzAdViCe16 answered Saturday March 12 2005, 10:29 pm: tell her how you feel and see if that helps and if she takes it well then she is your friend if she gives this rude remark and doesnt take it well dont think of her as a friend because she is done with you
xxbabixbluexx answered Saturday March 12 2005, 9:30 pm: well ok someone like that isnt the greastest person out there...honestly if she acts like that around/towards you then forget her because she'll only talk to you if NO ONES around and you'll feel like your being used and trust me thats not a great feeling. so find someone else you can be tight with and she how that works out...hope i helped xoxo shann [ xxbabixbluexx's advice column | Ask xxbabixbluexx A Question ]
kittykitty04 answered Saturday March 12 2005, 4:13 pm: I had a couple of friends like that. If she treats you like you are not even friends then you should probably not be friends anymore. Anyone who would ditch their friends to hang out with popular people isn't a good friend. I think that you should see if she still wants to be your friend IN SCHOOL. if she says yes but doesn't, find a new friend because most likely, she isn't worth your time. [ kittykitty04's advice column | Ask kittykitty04 A Question ]
Alilash answered Saturday March 12 2005, 2:53 pm: if she left you for popular people that means she is a mean person. It also means you probably were not meant to be. I have the same problem right now where my bestfriend is doing the same thing. Get along with her but don't like be bestfriends with her because she has treated you bad. Hope i helped [ Alilash's advice column | Ask Alilash A Question ]
bucsbaby6969 answered Saturday March 12 2005, 2:49 pm: uh maybe you should call her one day and start talkin to her like yall would when your friendship was good. Also people change and sometimes you can't do anything about it. That saying you are what your friends are...so she has most likely become one of those fake popular preppy girls and friendships dont always last no matter how long the friendship has been. If she cant even say hi to you when she sees you is she really worth it, do u wanna be friends with someone that treets u like that and is fake? [ bucsbaby6969's advice column | Ask bucsbaby6969 A Question ]
mrs_radcliffe answered Saturday March 12 2005, 2:38 pm: Talk to her tell her that you still want to be her friend and that when ever shes around other people shes very distant from you.
She might want a change of freinds because everyone needs different types of friends but she has no right to act differently and leave you out
here_x_2_x_help answered Saturday March 12 2005, 2:13 pm: Try talking to her and tell her how you feel. Tell her how she has changed when she hangs out with her other friends. As this is going on try and meet some new friends too Join clubs or even sports and then she'll know how it feels to be left out . Please Rate Thnx! - Katrina aka here x 2 x help [ here_x_2_x_help's advice column | Ask here_x_2_x_help A Question ]
Teza answered Saturday March 12 2005, 2:09 pm: well i had that done to me once! but all i did was just call her up and talk to her about it and if she says because your a dok i would go off on her and say you shouldnt judge someone by their cover! they should be judge by who they are! [ Teza's advice column | Ask Teza A Question ]
luv2swim109 answered Saturday March 12 2005, 2:08 pm: tell her that. i think you guyys have outgrown each other. try and branch out some. talk to your friend too. tht should help and she should understand
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