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I need to know what to do in this situation,i went on a date and i told one of my guy friends about it and then he told another guy that the guy i went out with fingered me and then that guy asked the guy i went out with and he said no and told him it wasn't true...but the worst part is that he lied and said that i was the one who said that he did it to me when it never happened...the guy who started the whole rumor is suppose to be one of my best friends what should i do or say to him.... please help...thanks
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If he started that rumor in the first place, then he isn't your friend. Sit him down and ask him why he started the whole thing in the first place.If he says that he didn't start the rumor, tell him that you heard differently because that should make him understand what he did wrong.
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Dump that friend! If he is spreading roumers about you, you shouldn't even think about being his friend!! You deserve better!!
*Marielle*
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if your "friend" says that he isnt that great of a friend and you should confront him about it because that isnt right to do that to you .. hope i helped .. Love MauramOo
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Well, first confront the person who started the rumor, then continue to tell everyone that knows the true story. Dont let the rumors get to you, it is just a childesh prank everyone likes to pull everyonce in awhile. It is only funny when your not am part of it. Just let it all blow over and if that doesn't work then try talking to people again and again and make them understand.
~*Crystal_Lake*~
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ask him why he's sellin you out like that. when you didnt do anything. and if he gets an attitude, theres no way hes still a friend
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Here's my advice for you: Confront your friend and ask him why he said that about you. Tell the guys the truth. If they dont believe you then their just immature and gullable. You and your date guy are the real ones who knew what happened so as long as you know the truth you'll be fine. Dont get caught up in all that. If your friend wants to spread mean and unnecessary rumors about you than maybe he's not a friend at all. -Katrina aka here x 2 x help
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Hey hunny,
Don't worry about rumors because rumors are just as fake as the people who start them, as the saying goes. Don't go balistic when talking to your best friend, but be firm to let him know that you are really angery/hurt for him lying, spreading a rumor that was not true, and not being a very good friend to you. The point is to make him feel bad for what he did and lead that to appologizing to you, and telling everyone that the rumor wasn't true and he spread it. Don't worry, babe...this hell will end for you very soon if you confront him VERY seriously. :)
Hope I helped and G/L!!
Pura Morena :)
xo0x adriana
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Well all boys will be boys and be immature and just have no lifes like that haha. But umm just go right up to him and confront him and tell him how you trusted him with it and stuff like that. He maybe will feel how you feel in the situation. I wouldn't make a huge deal out of it with him though, cause he will probably make it worse. Hope i helped. -ashley
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Tell the person you went on the date the truth. Ask your friend why he would start a rumor that would hurt you so much. Maybe he likes you and doesn't want the other guy going out with you.
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