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not allowed to date
Ok, I'm 13/f and my parents won't allow me to have a boyfriend. I've tried almost everything!! If any of ya have any ideas to get my parents to think it's ok to let me have a boyfriend, please message me!!
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You can lie but if they find out they probably won't trust you anymore. So try to show them that you are responsibable (I forget how to spell today sorry) and that you won't do anything you would regert. Then talk to them that you feel you are ready for a boyfriend and that you will take things slow. And show them you don't just want one for the stupid stero-types but you want one because you have strong emotions for them. But you are young and don't need to deal with this yet. But if you really want one talk to your parents. I hope I helped! ♥ good luck
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lie duh
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You are young yet. This won't be what you want i'm sure but you just wait.If you don't argue with them all the time maybe they will let up if a special event comes up or something...maybe not.
You have plenty of time (even though it doesn't seem that way). Talk to your mom about the boyfriend. You don't have to say he's your boyfriend, just tell her you like him.Tell her about his family, how nice he is etc. Just talk about him.Maybe given time she will let you go to a chaperoned event that she approves of or something.
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Tell them that you already have guyfriends and a boyfriend is the same thing.
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I have a suggestion show them that you are a responsible young lady maybe that will show youre parents that you a mature young lady that is ready for some more privileges. Or if you did more chores around the house. Im guessing your parents are afraid of you facing the real wrold all parents feel that way when there child is growing up
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First you need to prove to them that you are respnsible enough to have a bf. If that doesnt work give them the silent treatment parents HATE that ! - hope i helped
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omg !! screw them i had my first boyfriend when i was 11!
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well if you ask me, your parents dont have to know. my parents dont know about my boyfriend and thats the way i like it. good luck hun,
~frenchfries21~
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Well what I did was that I got a boyfriend and then slowly started to give them hints. Like talk on the phone and let them to know it's a guy or say you're gonna meet this guy somewhere. But make sure you don't exactly say it's a boyfriend. You're parents will definetly have their suspicions though. Sooner or later your parents will get used to you spending a lot of your time with this guy and they'll slowly but surely get used to the idea of you having a boyfriend. That's what I did and my parents ended up loving him.
♥ Always,
Maria
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Ok. First show them that you are responsible. Do whatever they tell you. Do good in school and help around the house. Second make sure he is also a good guy good grades not a trouble maker and very nice and polite. Third ask your parents if he could come over for dinner so they can get to know him. Make your parents feel safe and let them know your older now and you can be trusted. Hope I helped! Please Rate Katrina aka here x 2 x help
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Good grades, trust and point out to them there are a lot worse things than letting your daughter have a BF but do it in an intelligante way and let them know you can handle your self!!
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Why dont you talk to them tell them that your not a little girl anymore and that you need more space and need to have different friends and go out tell her that your resposible.
Luv roxie
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