|
lately i feel really distant from my friends ..like they dont care about me or want to sit with me at lunch and stuff. I dont know how to talk to them about this, because when i do they roll their eyes and call me sensitive. I could never tell them that i cry alot becasuse of this ..please help
[ ]
Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category?
Maybe give some free advice about: Friendship?
Talk to them...Tell them how you feel.
]
This has happened to me before.
1) If they dont want to be around you why do you want to be around them
I think that you should find new friends, see how they react if they dont care(they are not your friends) if they do have a serious talk to them.(dont let them roll their eyes )
_Good LUck!
]
Sometimes i feel like i am distant from my friends too. But it always goes away or is only for a little. Its kind of a confusing situation. But i think you should not have to go and try to make new friends, you should tell them how you feel, well at least one that your closest with and tell her/him to talk 2 the rest. I would tell the one you think would understand most and tell them you cry and stuff and you are sensitive but its just getting to you lately and you dont feel appriciated. hope i helped -xo ashley
]
find new friends. the old ones arent good enough for you.
]
Just go up to them and say "I am starting to get the feeling like you don't want me around" and if they roll their eyes and call you sensitive, then they aren't true friends because true friends would listen to you and explain themselves. Ask them if you did anything in the past that makes them feel this way.
]
Get one of your friends out of that group that you felt closer to and talk to her, and ask her whats going on, and if she rolls her eyes, say, "oh, I'm that annouying? I did nothing to you guys and now you won't even talk to me." Then walk away, those friends need to respect you, thats why they are called friends.
-TheTeenGirl
]
There is a deeper problem here- WHY are you distant? Think about what you have done in the past; did any of this upset them? If you can't think of anything, then take a different approach. I know I say this all the time, and this is the most common advice, but talk to them again. Say you don't want to lose such great friends or ask if you are doing anything wrong, and if they call you sensitive say, "Hey, maybe I am, but it's better than not caring, which I feel like you guys are doing to me." Hope I helped!
~Meags
]
its probably nothing.. maybe your just getting on their nerves because you bug them for attention (im not saying you do im just saying you might)
]
More Questions: |