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Hey I realized my friend sorta WANTS to have sex and she is only 13, shes not going to have it, its just she wants to. I was on her computer and saw alot of porn websites, is this normal for a 13 year old??
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the curiosity is normal.I'm glad she isn't acting on it. 13 is much to young for a possible pregnancy.
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ok i started baby sitting lately and the lil boy i baby sit ian asks me really odd questions for a 5 year old like whered do babies comefrom (i know thats not weird but i dont know what to say) or my peewee hurts why?? i dont know what to say exsept what did mommy tell you lol lol and he goes will you help me and i go help with what poopoo....... ewwwww yes i know its part of the job but does any one know any ways to by pass trobles
~blonde~ (link)
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Oh the curious little minds...well, you did good. Tell him you don't know go ask mommy.They usually don't mean the question the way it sounds though. You could give him a long answer and right in the middle of it he will ask you another dumb question totally off the subject!
Keep all answers real simple. If he says his peepee hurts, say well, what did you do to it? He will probably say I don't know and drop it.
5 y.o. brains are curious about everything but they jump from one thing to another so fast they forget what they asked you 5 minutes ago...just give simple answers and he'll be happy!
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ok this one is going to be long, so bear with me. i have this guy friend (he's 15/m and i'm 17/f) and our relationship is kinda brother/sisterish. a couple of weeks ago, i was talking to him online and he admitted that he had a crush on me. well this totally surprised me, cause i had a crush on him too. i told him and we were both shocked but then thought that we should try and maybe go out (in secret at first, just in case it didn't work out), and just see how it goes. well we did that, and long story short, we made out a few times then i told him that i didn't think it was a good idea. i'm not really sure why i did it, but i did. but now, i think i have "more than friend" feelings for him again (but i'm not exactly sure), but i don't want to hurt him again. oh, and he still likes me a lot. what should i do? (link)
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If you aren't sure then you probably don't want to be more than friends.You could try going out a little while longer and see if things change.
It could be you weren't quite ready for the making out part yet.Try going out and not making out for awhile...until your sure of your feelings.
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I was just wondering, is it possible for a guy to be too shy to IM you? becuase i have imed ths one guy i like about like 4 times in total but like over a span of about 2 months but..i'm just thikning is the reason he hasn't imed me first because he is shy or that he just doesn't feel that way about me? help please..thanks (link)
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He could be. More likely he is slow at typing or can't spell real good or something.I know lots of guys who hate it for those reasons.
Don't just assume he doesn't like you.If he's shy though you may have scared him a little.Try talking to him and see.
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One of my best guy friends who calls me all the time (like literally every 2 minutes) well my best friend told me that he likes me but i didnt believe her and then he told me he did and i just thought of him as my friend so i was like no and then he got a girl friend and it hurt me and i think i'm just in denial cuz i do have feelings for him. Do y'all think I have feelings for him? (link)
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of course you do! You can love people as a friend and not want an intimate relationship with them.Being jealous is natural too.Because he has someone else to spend time with and talk to now..besides you. Don't worry about it much.If you feel the same after the current gf is history give it a try.
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me and my boyfriend..lets call him MOO.. well me and MOO started goin out 2 days ago... and before him i went out wit this kid lets call him COCOA, everyone still thinks me and COCOA are going out but we arnt! And well MOO found out that everyone still thinks that and they think its true, which it isnt! He believes everyone wen they say it to him, but he doesnt believe me wen i tell him that we arnt!! WHICH ME AND COCOA ARNT!! And when i tried callin him like 4 times he never answered his phone, not even to say... i cant talk sry. (link)
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what if cocoa told moo you aren't seeing each other anymore? Though Moo should believe you and not others.Are you drinking chocolate milk by the way?
Maybe he wasn't home when you called or had dead batteries or something.Don't jump to conclusions and get yourself upset over what could be nothing.
You need to just tell him, look we've onlt been going out for 2 day's people don't know yet.Maybe he should hang around with you more where you will be seen with him.It will work out.
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Are ghosts real? only if you know the answer then answer my question. only if you're sure. (link)
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I think so.I don't think they are scarey but I think there are spirits.I could tell you a couple of stories but they would be to long.
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Hi, i really like this kid. He's kinda on the popular side, and im just not there yet. Like, the popular people like me and all but its hard talking to them. Well back to the point, i really like this kid and i know you might say "go talk to him!". Its not that easy! Ecspecially for a girl like me. I have liked him since last year, and i IMed him once asking him a question and he asked who i was and said he thinks he knows who i am and answered my question. He's not in the same class as me either. I think he knows i like him cuz of last year someone i think told him or something but i just dont know what to do! Please Help!
-- lost girl (link)
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If you don't want to talk to him I'm stumped!
You have to.Just get in his way and make him talk to you. something!
His being popular or you being popular shouldn't even enter into it.You just have to make it known you are interested or your gonna be lost forever!:} Go drop your books in front of him or something.
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well i am a male and i am 15 i have a problem with my love life.... I am a tennis player and this 1 girl i was playing with i sorta like. I never talked too her... she seems nice... and she is pretty.. im sort of a shy guy though when it comes to me talking to a girl. I dont know y though. I am afraid of rejection. that is a maid reason i am afraid to talk to her. How do I get over my fear and work up the courage to talk to her? (link)
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She isn't going to have a clue you like her unless you say something! Start out with just a hi. Don't have to have a long conversation.
I know you are afraid of rejection but if you start small and work your way up to talking a little longer you should get a good idea if she will go out with you or not. If you aren't sure ask her anyway.The worse thing she can do is say no.
Just start with simple hi and go from there.I know you can do it! Good luck!:}
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i have this friend and we are really good friends. I am a 15 year old guy and she is a 14 year old girl. She wants me but i feel if we go out and something happens between us that we might not be friends afterwards. I dont want that to happen. How can i tell her this without hurting her feelings? (link)
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you just tell her.Be very nice about it.Tell her you love her so much as a friend you just can't take the chance of anything going wrong.
She will probably be a little embarrassed by it all but she will get over it. It could work out and you could remain friends if it didn't but if you don't want to chance it (at this time anyway!) just let her know.
The best relationships are between people who are the best of friends....Just for future reference!:}
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this friend of mine, Lizzy*, is in a serious relationship with my other friend, Seth*. Lizzy adores Seth, but I know that he has stopped liking her...even though I am not supposed to know, and Lizzy does not know. The problem is, I adore Seth, and he might like me, but I don't know what to do. If I ask Seth if he likes me at all and he says no it would be really akward, but I can't imagine being happy as just his friend much longer...help?! (link)
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For now he is your friends boyfriend.You gotta leave him alone.Not only will she not like you much, but he might not think it nice either(the way you'd be going about it).
Your best bet will be to sit back and see what happens.If they break up in the future..then he is fair game until then he is not.
Unless you hear something from his mouth about how he feels about someone.Assume it is not true.Between rumors and people playing games what you hear may not be true.
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Hi, im starting to like this kid in my class. Theo only problem is i know this other "almost popular" girl who likes him and is having her friends try to get him to go out with her. Whenever they try to ask him he leaves. Hes not really the popular type in all but im starting to like him. The other girl is really nice and funny, but i dont want to let a lot of people know incase she gets mad. Its just that sometimes he talks to me and like asks me the same questions and it feels like he likes me. But even if he asked me out i couldnt go out with him cuz i know about the other girls plan. Should i continue liking him, or just forget it?
* Screwed up lover * (link)
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Trust your instincts.If you think he likes you he probably does.
So long as she hasn't got him he is fair game.And yours for the taking.
If he is ignoring her friends attempts to get him to say he likes her, he probably doesn't.May the best girl win! Go for him!:}
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okay i have a b/f now well call him "K" okay well we've been goin out for a lil while but i wanna call him but im afraid his mom or something is gonna answer what do i do/? (link)
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Does his mom not want you to call? She can't bite you over the phone!Really, just call him.If mom answers you could always hang up but thats not very nice.Just call and ask for him. Whoever answers probably won't even say anything to you.
They might tease him about it though.:}
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is there anyway to keep your nails clean, my seem to get dirty all the time? (link)
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The short answer is no.Unfortunatley your fingernails are the most dirty thing you have.There is really no way to keep them absolutlely clean all the time.You could constantley be digging under them but that might make them sore.
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my stomach is about 31 inches. im 13 and around 5'5". is that normal? is it too fat?! i feel fat =\, am i over-exaggerating? could i manage to lose a few inches, or gain a few? thanx (link)
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You sound just right.Don't worry about you weight so much.You are a normal 13 year old!
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I am a freshman in high school and i recently lost my virginity and i know to use protection but my question is can you only get pregnant when you are on your period? or only when u are not?
help if you i rate!!!!!!!!
~Blundered blonde~ (link)
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You can get pregnant anytime, anywhere!
There is no surefire time that you can't, except maybe when you already are!
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ok umm my friend is not eating. she says she eats infront of a big group of ppl but then when she is only around a few ppl she says she does not eat. she drinks energy drinks like crazy and i tell her to stop drinking sooo many b/c you can die if you drink too many, and she is not even doing a energy when she drinks them.and i have told her to start eating and stuff but she won't she wants to loose wait, and i said to just workout and not to starve yourself and yeah. i am really worried about her. she is always tired b/c she is not eating and she is not getting her calciam or however you spell that and it makes her tired so she drinks a Red Bull.i don't know how to help her. should i tell a parent if i tell her to stop and she doesn't?? please help me
concerned best friend (link)
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You definetly need to tell her mom.She needs help with an eating disorder and she probably won't listen to you anyway.She may be mad at first, but once she gets help she will see that you were only helping.Telling is the best thing to do.
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I dont have enough friends in school. how do I make more? (link)
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One good friend is worth a lot.
If you want more you need to talk more with people and just try to get to know them. Friendships should just come naturally.They will, don't worry.
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Hey guys! i just started going out with this boy who is absolutly amazing... he's perfect for me, and is soooo sweet and increible i love him !lol.. we've only been going out for a month but already i've like fallen for him. But i was wondering, what are some tips to keep it going realy well? becuase i don't want to loose him. He also likes me a lot too, but i just want little things that could make him more attachted or somthing. Thankss (link)
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always be truthful.Keep communicating.If something bothers you, get it in the open and don't let it grow.
Be nice to each other and treat each other with respect.
Give each other space when needed without making a big deal of it.
Good luck!
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i know this is a crazy question...should you curl your eye lashes before or after putting on mascara? (link)
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after.:}
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