this friend of mine, Lizzy*, is in a serious relationship with my other friend, Seth*. Lizzy adores Seth, but I know that he has stopped liking her...even though I am not supposed to know, and Lizzy does not know. The problem is, I adore Seth, and he might like me, but I don't know what to do. If I ask Seth if he likes me at all and he says no it would be really akward, but I can't imagine being happy as just his friend much longer...help?!
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? 4Gotten answered Thursday March 17 2005, 4:12 am: ok, if *seth says no he doesnt like you then just say ok and play it off just pretend like it was a question, not a special question. talk to him normally as you would any day because if you sound awkward, he will feel awkward and you will drift apart, if they break up, then dont seem to change like emotionally, sooner or later if he does like you and he was just lying because us guys are shy, then hell tell his freinds and it will get back to you, but if you cant wait that long just give him signs or look for signs like him staring at you for a long time and he wants to talk to you alot and just dont make a big deal about it if he doesnt like you, everything happens for a reason for every 2 guys who dont like you, 1 guy does and he is the one just try and find him dont be narrow minded. good luck [ 4Gotten's advice column | Ask 4Gotten A Question ]
AnGiix3BaBii answered Wednesday March 16 2005, 10:22 pm: Dont say anything too lizzy chances are she'll end up getting madd at you. if your not supposed to know then dont say anything. plus is losing a friendship worth a lot of bullshit and just someone who " might " like you?
karenR answered Wednesday March 16 2005, 8:45 pm: For now he is your friends boyfriend.You gotta leave him alone.Not only will she not like you much, but he might not think it nice either(the way you'd be going about it).
Your best bet will be to sit back and see what happens.If they break up in the future..then he is fair game until then he is not.
Unless you hear something from his mouth about how he feels about someone.Assume it is not true.Between rumors and people playing games what you hear may not be true. [ karenR's advice column | Ask karenR A Question ]
SxyLilPoo47 answered Wednesday March 16 2005, 8:21 pm: Uhm . . .
Don't u think thats a little shallow?If she's your friend and thats her boyfriend whyy would you even think of trying to get him.I mean seriously.I have 1 question to ask you I think its pretty simple to answer. Who's more important your Lizzy(your friend) or Seth(your friends boyfriend) Are you sure you want to lose your boyfriend over something like this?
Teza answered Wednesday March 16 2005, 8:20 pm: Well... if you are really close friend with her I think that you should try to stay out of thieir relationship. You could ask Seth if he likes you and if he says no then dont worry about it. If he does and if he wants to go out with you then maybe you guys could go out lil later on because your friend might be mad and not over him yet. You wouldnt want to loose her over a guy! x0 [ Teza's advice column | Ask Teza A Question ]
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