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Hey, Im 13 and a female. I would like to start tanning because I am very white/pale. She says that 13 is too young to start tanning and that I should wait until I am 16. I really dont think that I would be willing to wait until I am 16. I mean come on that is 3 years! Is there anything that I can say or do to make her agree. Please dont say you should wait till your 16. Ill rate high. Molly ♥ (link)
im 13 & i tan.
But really just tell your mom, that Your only going to go every so often (13, you dont need to tan every weekend i go every once a month)
It made my mom feel better knowing i wasent planning on tanning alot.


Hey, Im 13 and a female. I would like to start tanning because I am very white/pale. She says that 13 is too young to start tanning and that I should wait until I am 16. I really dont think that I would be willing to wait until I am 16. I mean come on that is 3 years! Is there anything that I can say or do to make her agree. Please dont say you should wait till your 16. Ill rate high. Molly ♥ (link)
you cant be too young to tan honey. but if you overtan, youll get skin cancer (or possibly). you dont necessarily have to tan, you can be swimming, and you can get tan


hey i need major help on getting a new screen name and i was just wondering if you could help me..
my name is kaela but a lot of my friend call me kay
im in dance
i have a boyfriend named ed
i love the color pink
i like to shop at hollister & abercrombie
i hope this helps you! thanks a lot (link)
hmm... I have trouble picking my screen names too, but here are some choices, kaela_dance_flava, HandA_dancing_kay. Believe me, if you don't use them, I won't mind, this isn't exactly my area of expertise.

Sorry! If you still don't know what to use, why don't you ask one of your friends :]

---->Maureen


I have to write an essay about a serial killer for my english class. It can be about any serial killer I want, so I chose to write about Jeffrey Dahmer. Everyone else wanted to write about Ted Bundy or Aileen Wournoes (the Monster character that Charlize Theron played )
Does anyone know anything about Jeffrey Dahmer? I rented the movie Dahmer, and so far it looks like he just likes to kill for company, mainly gay guys.
Does anyone know if Dahmer was executed in prison? And did he ever kill woman, or just men? (link)
http://www.tornadohills.com/dahmer/

http://www.carpenoctem.tv/killers/dahmer.html

http://www.newcriminologist.co.uk/casefiles/dahmer.htm

http://www.courttv.com/archive/legaldocs/newsmakers/dahmer2.html

I tried to find decent looking sites, hope they help you.


ok does anyone know if L'Oreal SUBLIME GLOW Daily Moisturizer Fair Skin Tones makes you look orange? because i dont want people to think im using fake tanner and if i go from white to orange people will know so please give me you best experiences and what things work. (im very pale but i tan easily) (link)
It varies from people, to people.
I used it, it was okay, for me.
But try a small spot on you first (Thats what you should do anyways to make sure you dont get a rash or anything) && see how it works.


My mom is making me get braces soon and i think i have a choice of colors. What color would you pick and why?

Thanks (link)
choose the color depending on if it matches you. if you have blue eyes, for ex, get a light blue color. DONT get yellow/orange/white, because theyll make your teeth look yellow. i never had braces, but i still know.


Okay Ive heard that Jamie Lynn Spears goes to Mccomb Highschool. Ive also heard that she goes to Parklane Accademy. Which one is it? Thanks in advance!

PS:I really want to know because I live near there and maybe I could meet her. (link)
All i know is..
She plays basketball at her school
Shes a 9th grader who attends a school in Mississippi & shes a cheerleader

According to IMDB: Attending Parklane Academy in McComb, Mississippi.

Also accordinh to IMDB:(August 2004) Started 8th grade and playing on the softball team at Parklane Academy.


I need help on making a slogan for a product [eyeliner] Something that makes you want to buy it... (link)
hey this is a link for a slogan site jus re-type the word you want-
http://www.thesurrealist.co.uk/slogan.cgi?word=Punk



SORRY IF ITS LONG. ILL RATE FOR GOOD ANSWERS!!

Okay, May is my 8th grade dance. I am really small and have trouble finding a dress. I can't even wear a 00 without it falling off. I'm 4'9 and 72lbs. I have no idea what kinda dress its supposed to be. Can you show me some examples? And tell me places to get them.

But hold/on honestly I don't want to go I mean my mom is in the "8th Grade Dance Committee" and she's doing alot for this dance. But I have no date and don't want to go without one. Question is should I go without one. [I honestly think its stupid]

Also with hair and make-up. I have tan [not really tan] skin. Brown eyes with gold tint. And brownish-reddish a little longer then my sholders hair. How should I get my hair did?

So here are my questions:
1. Places to get dresses?
2. Pictures of dresses?
3. Should I go without a date?
4. How should I get my hair/makeup done? [pictures]


AND Any other stuff I should know. Tips and such. THANK YOU!! (link)
abercrombie (NOT && FITCH). abercrombie is for little people. dont worry about your hair cuz your in 8th grade. you shouldnt go without one, but you could go with your best guy friend (not necessarily as a date). type of dress. get a color that suits your colors, shape, and eyes. pictures aren't necessarily good, since i dont know what you look like. for make up, do something subtle, like gold eyeshadow, and lipgloss.


hey well i was wondering what all u alls views were on teens (well 14 yr olds) making out? is it to young, or not? and what about not going all the way like sex but..just a little ways? i just need to know what other peoples views are on this! please please please i'll rate high!! xo thanks (link)
i began making out at 11. i guess it depends on the person. but 14 is the youngest for sex. i advise 15 sex, but 14 year olds in my region do it. i guess a lot of my friends are sluts, but whatever


I would like to gain at least 20-30 pounds before April 11th, 2006 (my b-day) I am at least 120 pounds. All of my life, I have been skinny. I'm now 14 years old and in high school. Most of the girls are thick with boobs and butt. I got butt but nothing more. I'm a black girl and I'm not thick but long and skinny. If I were to gain at least 30 pounds (of thickness!) I would fill out my clothes better and feel good about myself.

1.) Can someone give me websites on how to gain pounds faster?

2.) Can someone tell me how they gained weight? (if you tried to gain weight and succeeded)

3.) You can also give food ideas!!!!!!

*~* please don't tell me how stupid this is because that won't change the way I feel about this. Please don't give me websites about how to gain muscles because I am already exercising. *~*

THANK YOU SOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO MUCH IN ADVANCE :-* Lol : ) (link)
i personally dont think you should try to gain weight, because then if you stay skinny, you could be like a marc jacobs model or something. anyways, if you want to gain weight, you should go to cvs, and (at least the one near me) sells energy bars that make you gain weight. I think 30 pounds is a bit much - try 20. I myself am 115, and im tall and everything and 17.
i know this is REAAAALLY off topic, but seriously, consider becoming a fendi model. a lot of clothes designers like having black models because there aren't many skiny black people (in a TOTALLY NOT RACIST or STEREOTYPICAL way =)
so there energy bars if you really wanna gain wiehgt.
Alicia


Well I just realized how old I am getting. I'm turning 28 in 2 months and that's like almost turning 30!! I can't believe how time has snuck up on me. I remember when I was 18 thinking that someone who was 25 was anceint, and now here I am turning 28. It's quite a milestone because it means I've been out of highschool for ten years, and that the reunion will probably be this summer. I havent acomplished even half of the things I wanted to have done. When I was 18 I thought I'd be married and have kids by this age. Well I'm still single and childless. I also don't have a nice career, I work at a minimum wage job.
Does anyone have any advice to make me feel better about my age? People are joking that I'm turning into an old maid. (link)
ok its never too late 2 start fresh. if you have a carreer in mind, go for it. how about school, or if you dont want to stop working, there are alot of home learning courses , or evening courses. and for the wife and child thing. dont worry, the right person will come along in time. you have to be patient and enjoy life, because your'e only half way through your life. still got maore than half left actually.


okay, so theres this guy i love, and then theres these two girls who hes really good friends with. one of them is like super ugly, and i know he wouldnt never actually be attracted to her like that, so there really isnt anything to worry about with her but then the other one is kinda prettier then me. and he would be attracted to her. but its not like a self esteem issue,because im happy with the way i look and plus, he really isnt like that, you just have to be somewhat pretty. ya know? ok so anyways so this weekend he never called me, so i was like wtcrap, then he got on aim, and we talked for like 10 minutes and he was like i got to go, sharon needs my help with some stuff. i was like ..oh okay. so then today i decided to go to starbucks, and he was like there with sharon, and they were both like heyyy wats up, and we were talking. i guess you could say it was okay, me and him were like talking and so was she. and then i was like i got to go, and i told him to get on aim later. and he was like i dont know if i can, and i was like why and he was like well sharon was going to show me some video games..lol i know stupid right? i mean come on. so i was likeee ummm whatever thats gay. and he was like whatever games are cool. like yea i know hes 16 ..thats a little childish. but thats what i love about him, he isnt afraid to still act like a kid, and then he knows when to like not act like a kid and be serious. so whatever anyways. so i was like okay..have fun then. and i just left.then on myspace, he has never left me a comment, but we send messages like..alottttt. and im his number one. but shes his number 2, and today i was looking at hers, and he like left her comments, sayin how many good times theyve had. and it kinda made me upset that he had the nerve to leave her one but not me... but heres the main problem hes always hanging out with her, i know their just friends, but thats how we started, we were just friends at first then we got really close cause we spent alot of time together. now its like hes chosing her over me, and i have no idea why. like its wierd hes always telling me how much he loves me, and how he wouldnt know what he would do without me. and know im just starting to think if its just fake. like an act. or just plain leading me on...but i dont know anymore. i love the kid to death, im just afraid that hes going to like dump me for her..and i dont know what i would do if he did, and i really have no idea how to bring it up without having a fight over it. i just really dont know anymore...soo please help. oh and also i hardly ever talk to her, so it would be hard to go up to her and talk to her about him and stuff. but yeaa ill rate you guys, just help..thanks (link)
woah. ineresting prob. these things make me thank ma parents that they made me in 1991, and im not 16. ok anywayzzzz i wood say u approach him about it and tell him how you feel. and maybe you cood talk to "sharon" not about him, just generel chats, i think it would help.


Ok im female and 17 and i got the worst belly ever its like im having a baby not like really fat but like theres a pile of fat that sticks out and im really embarassed i feel im putting on more and more weight i used to be slim and now im all Fat!!!!! i won't let my bf touch my belly when i see him its like a fear!!! is there anything i can do please help. x x x many thanx (link)
all i can say, is eat a healthy diet and plenty of excercise, atleast 30 mins a day i think it is.


14/f
In the morning I wake up at 6 o clock so I can catch my bus, but the thing is, no one in my family wakes up till' like 7:30 so when I get up they are all sleeping. Whenever I walk around adn stuff because no one else is awake it makes me really annoyed and just want to sleep. Does anyone have any ideas that will keep me awake when my family is sleeping?
Besides coffee. (link)
hey don wory, i have the same problem, try splashing cold water on your face. works for me. you could also do some excercise which will make u a bit more alert and awake. or a fresh jucie or energy drink. try them and see which 1 works best for u :)


I have to go for my first "girly" check up alone because I am having problems at school and they are being slowly sorted out but my parents know nothign about it but my health is going down. What I want to know is during this check up do they really look at your vagina and boobs and what do they do to them? Also do they do anythign to your bum? I am really embarrest andits happening in a month please give me some advice. (link)


there there to help you and yes they will look at you but just to check up to see if there is anything bad!..hope i helped!


please i need your help...
i saved my essay that is due tomorrow on my computer (10 pages). my mom shut the computer off and i went to turn it on to print it out and add things to it. i find mout that it is not on my computer i tried to go to search my mom and my sister also tried to find it somehow but nothing. then my mom was like you did'nt save it so i tried to save another paper and shut my compter off ad BAM! it was gone. so i have no way of getting it back. my cousin said that like you have to do some thing to the computer please i will rate ANY answers..
thanxx so much for reading this i appreaciate it so much. (link)
chill out. this probabaly wont help you if uve gone to school allready, but, first take your computer to a pc repair place, and see what the problem is, second i would ask my mom to write me a note, so get a note and show it to the teacher. it works at my school here in england.


Is breaking up over the phone okay? Or should I make an effort to do it in person? (link)
you should try to do it in person,
but if you really really can't do it over the phone.
neverever do it through a friend or on AIM.
yeahh =]


I need advice! Iam a female and 15 years old. Me and my boyfriend have been dating for over a year now. My parents did not care about me dating him at first but now all of a sudden my dad wont let me talk to him, and i still love him so what should i do??? (link)
just ask your dad what's wrong. still go out with ur bf though.


There is this boy who lives in SC who is going to be 16.(I am going to be 14)He knows how I look. I think he is really cute, but I don't know if he likes me. He has a GF, but I don't care. Anyway,he is suposed to come and live with my family after spring break, but I scared what to do. Can you help me? (link)
just get to know him better and when he comes to stay with you, show him how nice you are and talk to him a lot so he'll know more about you too. and maybe if you think things are going well, he might get to like you too, and then you should tell him that you know he has a gf and everything, but you sort of like him. if he likes you, he'll say so, but if he doesn't, then maybe it's just not meant to be. remember, there're other guys.




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