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boyfriend/ parents
I need advice! Iam a female and 15 years old. Me and my boyfriend have been dating for over a year now. My parents did not care about me dating him at first but now all of a sudden my dad wont let me talk to him, and i still love him so what should i do???
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Talk to pops and let him know the score. Understand that you might still get a "no" response and it may not be for a reason you deem acceptable or even a justification that makes sense.
In the event of a negative response, accept this decision because anything you do to alter it will most likely lead to worse consequences in the end.
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Talk to your dad about it. Ask him why he doesnt want you talking to him, and explain to him how long you guys have been dating and the feelings that you have for him & try and make your dad understand your point of view & how it hurts you that he doesnt want you talking to him anymore. Just try talking it out and see how that goes and once he gives you an answer just go from there.
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Dad's are funny that way. At first Im sure he thought it was a harmless relationship. However as things progressed and the relationship lasted I'm sure he now has the normal Father fears. First he's afraid that his little girl is growing up. Second, all Dad's remember what they were like and what they thought about at 15 years old. And he KNOWS what your boyfriend is thinking. You need to sit down with Daddy and Honestly ask for his advice, listen to what he says then assure him that you understand and appreciate his point of view. Tell him that what ever YOU decide to do, you will take his advice into consideration and that you appreciate having a caring father. Beieve me, it will score some brownie points and perhaps make him see what a mature daughter he has, and may let you make more of your own "good decisions"
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just ask your dad what's wrong. still go out with ur bf though.
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Still see him, but talk to your dad about it.. and be nice. Maybe he knows something you don't know. You never know, he coulda seen your bf w/ another girl at tha mall or something.. and didnt want to hurt you by telling you. You never know whats going on. Just ask your dad to be honest about tha situation and hopefully it will work itself out..
x3
Kali
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sit down with your dad and ask him nicely why he doesnt want you seeing him anymore. tell him that you still really like him, and hopefully he'll have a good reason for not seeing him anymore. if he doesnt, i would still just see him secretly. = )
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go behind your parents back.
talk to your parents though...
why wont he let you talk to him anyway?
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