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okay, so theres this guy i love, and then theres these two girls who hes really good friends with. one of them is like super ugly, and i know he wouldnt never actually be attracted to her like that, so there really isnt anything to worry about with her but then the other one is kinda prettier then me. and he would be attracted to her. but its not like a self esteem issue,because im happy with the way i look and plus, he really isnt like that, you just have to be somewhat pretty. ya know? ok so anyways so this weekend he never called me, so i was like wtcrap, then he got on aim, and we talked for like 10 minutes and he was like i got to go, sharon needs my help with some stuff. i was like ..oh okay. so then today i decided to go to starbucks, and he was like there with sharon, and they were both like heyyy wats up, and we were talking. i guess you could say it was okay, me and him were like talking and so was she. and then i was like i got to go, and i told him to get on aim later. and he was like i dont know if i can, and i was like why and he was like well sharon was going to show me some video games..lol i know stupid right? i mean come on. so i was likeee ummm whatever thats gay. and he was like whatever games are cool. like yea i know hes 16 ..thats a little childish. but thats what i love about him, he isnt afraid to still act like a kid, and then he knows when to like not act like a kid and be serious. so whatever anyways. so i was like okay..have fun then. and i just left.then on myspace, he has never left me a comment, but we send messages like..alottttt. and im his number one. but shes his number 2, and today i was looking at hers, and he like left her comments, sayin how many good times theyve had. and it kinda made me upset that he had the nerve to leave her one but not me... but heres the main problem hes always hanging out with her, i know their just friends, but thats how we started, we were just friends at first then we got really close cause we spent alot of time together. now its like hes chosing her over me, and i have no idea why. like its wierd hes always telling me how much he loves me, and how he wouldnt know what he would do without me. and know im just starting to think if its just fake. like an act. or just plain leading me on...but i dont know anymore. i love the kid to death, im just afraid that hes going to like dump me for her..and i dont know what i would do if he did, and i really have no idea how to bring it up without having a fight over it. i just really dont know anymore...soo please help. oh and also i hardly ever talk to her, so it would be hard to go up to her and talk to her about him and stuff. but yeaa ill rate you guys, just help..thanks<3
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woah. ineresting prob. these things make me thank ma parents that they made me in 1991, and im not 16. ok anywayzzzz i wood say u approach him about it and tell him how you feel. and maybe you cood talk to "sharon" not about him, just generel chats, i think it would help.
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I'm older than him by a long shot and I love to play video games. Sharon evidently does too.
I don't think he is necessarily looking to dump you, it just seems from what you've written that he actually has more in common with her.
If you want to keep hold of him you may have to take up gaming and get into some of the same things he likes. It won't make you lose maturity to do so. You may actually enjoy it. He talks to her because she is fun to be with. :)
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