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A boy who is 2 years older than me
There is this boy who lives in SC who is going to be 16.(I am going to be 14)He knows how I look. I think he is really cute, but I don't know if he likes me. He has a GF, but I don't care. Anyway,he is suposed to come and live with my family after spring break, but I scared what to do. Can you help me?
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just get to know him better and when he comes to stay with you, show him how nice you are and talk to him a lot so he'll know more about you too. and maybe if you think things are going well, he might get to like you too, and then you should tell him that you know he has a gf and everything, but you sort of like him. if he likes you, he'll say so, but if he doesn't, then maybe it's just not meant to be. remember, there're other guys.
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You know, I was going to tell you to go for it... That was until i read the answer before mine. Im 15 and my bf is 17. The age gap isnt important. But, if my bf went to live with some other girl for a spring break (god forbid) i would hate it if some girl ruined everything. Dont get me wrong, ive split up a couple or two before. But no one wants it to happen to them. Girls think of other girls as their worst enemy half the time. When really we should all be sticking together... whatever happened to girl power? You should be loyal to your fellow sex. However if he looses his gf then totally go for it. I wish you the best of luck! (sorry bout the girl power thing i went on a bit) xxxx
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I would suggest that you do nothing at all. There are two clear reasons for this:
1) You have no reason to suppose this guy likes you.
2) He already has a girlfriend.
Without these obstacles, I would say go for it, as a two year age gap is not that major. But a guy with a girlfriend is off limits, whatever his age. If, of course, he has split up with her by the time he comes to stay with you, it's a different matter(though you still shouldn't throw yourself at him-you'd just look a fool). To sum up, wait for him to be single and make a move on you, then you'll be allright. Otherwise, look around elsewhere.
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