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My name is Leah....
Me n my boyfriend have been going out for 1 month.. but we went out before 4 four months...
Me n hym are in love like so much!! n we r perfect for eachother b.c we know everything about eachother... but
LAST NIGHT... I was on the fone w/ My friend Adam n then My friend who was sleeping over...((Lisa)) wanted to talk to ((MIke, my boyfriend)) b.c. they r tight... n i was like go head idc.. cuz i wus on the fone w/ Adam n he was leaving tommoroe...
Well i wusnt flirting w/ Adam... but to all my friends (( guy n girl )) i say I love you... but not the same way i love Mike...
Well since my friend, Lisa was on the fone... w/ mike... He heard me say i love you to Adam... he started getting pissed at me cuz he thought i was flirting w/ Adam....
So wen i talked to hym later that night im like Wait, r u mad at me..?? Mike is like ya... u were flirting w/ Adam.... i wus like no i wasnt!! hes like YeaH! im like no!! im like w.e . since u dont belive me i gues im a liar....
well i broke up w/ Mike that night b.c. i though that since we r going into jr. high this year... n since he thinks that i was flirtng by saying I love you to adam.. then i thought.. we needed a break....
do u think i was right to take a lil Break... n do u think i shoudl go back out w/ Mike.. b.c i rly love hym n hes the sweetest guy i have eva known n he treats me like a queen... n he loves me soo much!! n i love hym.. but sumtimes i like being single.. but every time i think of Mike i am always liike omg i miss hym i love hym soo much!!
PLEASE HELP ME!!
xOx-Leah...
U may say I Love you to all ur friends but thats sumthing that isnt very commonly said to friends of the other sex unless it means sumthing really special... u gotta understand y he got madd... if u really care about him get baQ wit him
ok i have this sister who is always bisy...always at photo shoots and tours and stuff and i NEVER get to c her! i love her soo much but i see her more in magazines and oon tv then i do in real life...i know she has a carear but i miss her? how do i deal, and what do i do?
Try to keep urself occupied with other things... be happy for her... theres no need to stress about sumthing u cant change...
Okay my best friend just told me shes bi..And im a girl to.I dont know what to do, should I still be her friend or should I like not be..Im kinda creeped out cause I dont want her to like hit on me or nething.What should I do? Im only 14 to what should I do
Dont stop being friends wit her cuz of that... im sure if she was in ur place she wouldnt do that to u... just tell her that ur str8 and as long as she doesnt come on to u... ur ok wit her being bi
ok, so u hear about these girls who have guys as best friends..well im one of those girls. any ways, brandon os my best guy friend, and i love him..but not like that. well, it turns out he has the biggist crush on me...and he told me he loves me more than anyone else. but the prob. is..is that i just like him as a friend. Hes the sweetest guy a girl culd have..but im just not really ready for a relationship. and hes really hard on himself, and i would do anything to keep from breaking his heart. But if i do end up having feelings for him...i would definatly go out with him. but hes kinda dorky...and i kno i kno it shouldnt matter, but wut if people tried to make fun of us as a couple...so what should i do??
if u dont have feelings for him than u cant really do much about it... other than let him know that u dont wanna ruin y'allz friendship & u arent really ready for a relationship... if u do end up having feelings for him dont worry about what people say... whether u are dating a popular guy or a dorky guy... haters will always think of sumthing to make fun about
there is this guy I know his name will be Fred okay so I sorta like Fred but today I was talking to him and he kept telling me how he wanted to go all the way with me but I have been telling him that Im not ready for that and the farthest I will go with him is making out but he won't leave it alone help me please
I think u should stop talkin to him... if he doesnt care... well than he doesnt really care about u and only wanted to use u... and if he does... tell him ur simply not ready and no means no...
i've been friends with this guy for 4 years now.. we were great friends.. adn he liked me since 7th grade .. well we were just firends and then we dated for a little.. and stuff he was really sweet he liked me alot adn stuff.. but i didn't like him like that well then i went out with him a few months after like the end of 8th grade like march 21 adn we went out for 4 months on and off like he cheated on me wtice i didn't cheat on him at all i swear... i tot about it but i didn't then we hung out every day we stayed over eachj other's hosues but nither of us had friends cause we bother very jealoujs.. then he dumped me (he was very controlling) it was like his sweetness went away now it seems like he likes me but then it seems like he is only using me for sex.. i dont know ne more like sumtimes hes like i lvoe u the next hea's like i hate u.. and i fell head over hells in love with him and i still lvoe him and i dont know wut to do lose him as a b./f a best ffriend or both :-(
cheater, jealous, controlling... doesnt sound like hes sum1 that actually cares about how u feel... he just wants to have u... the way u have a toi... play with it whenever u feel like it and throw it awai once ur done... u need to dump this guy and move on
im a 15 year old guy. since i was 7 i wanted a serious relationship where id meet a girl in high school and marry her. now im in high school. i met a girl. and id love to marry her. but she doesnt like to think about commiting. i dont know what to do about. how to approach it. i wanna know if it can work between us, i wanna know if she could love me like i love her, eventally to the point where id be with her forever...
Let her know that u arent just messing around and u wanna have a serious relationship... if she seriously isnt up for it than u should move on... cuz u will get ur heart broken
Can too many fruits a day be bad for you. I am always finding myself picking up an orange and eating it as a snack. I end up eating about twice as many as ur supposed to. lyk 8-10 a day.
Its not good to eat too much of the same thing... so try to eat different fruits instead of the same one...
Ok i got my period and i have really really bad cramps. i had such bad ones that i threw up 4 times and i had just taken medicine so i threw it up. Also when i sleep i wake up like every hour because it hurts so bad. What is something i should take or do??
Take sum midol... it'll help
this question is for my friend:
my boyfriend is so sweet. he'd never cheat on me and he never acts Interested in another girls or stuff like that. do you think he could be gay? because he doesn't seem to be interested when girls are wearing skimpy clothes on tv or pictures and id ont think he looks at it on his own. but he gets horny around me. i don't think he is but soemtimes i wonder.
No i dont think that means hes gay... he was probably just raised better... that shows that he really cares about u & respects you...
ok hey..this question is for all the guys....i was jw...do you guys lyk slutty girls or no? cuz it seems lyk all the slutty girls have boyfriends and there mostly bitches all the time...and it makes me angry!!! i mean isnt there some decent guys out there anymore...??
Guys like slutty girls to mess around with... no guy would ever be serious with a slutty girl... there are plenty of decent guys out there...
i have seen my friends boyfriend with other girls kissing on them and i told my friend right away but she doesnt believe me, she said that i am jealous ... also she is supposed to have sex with him and i dont want her getting hurt .. is there anyway i could get her to believe me?
A lotta girls are like that... i dont think u can say much to let her know u arent lying... shes gonna have to learn on ur own... eventually she will find out... when this happens shes gonna really need u... u need to be there for her & not have a " i told u so attitude "
Ok my friend is 12 years old and she's drinking and i don't know how to make her stop. she just started because she thinks she 'needs to' but i think its because this other girl does. please give me ideas or help me or something
You need to talk to her about it and tell her that she needs to stop and if she doesnt ur gonna have to tell sum1... and if she gets madd tell her ur doing it cuz u care about her...
is your eye doctor supposed to tell you which contact solution to use or can you use whatever you want??
No, u can use any kind u wanna use
When i use tampons and i go to take them out, there is skin or something that i have to move over in order for me to be able to succeed in removing the tampon. Is this normal or should i get it checked out?
hmmm i dont think its normal so u should go get it cheQed out
i'm going to be a freshman, and just got my braces off, and my teeth are kinda yellow. i heard that some of the teeth-whitening products don't really work & are too expensive. what should i do?! i can't go to highschool looking like this! please help!
Try plus white... its supposed to work good & u can get it from the dollar store :)
Ok, I'm 13 and I have just a lil bit of acne but I just want it to go away. Does anyone have suggestions? I don't want to buy stuff I just need some help and encouragement!
Dont stress... stress causes breakouts... i used to have really bad skin and it went away... urs will go away soon... dont stress and before u know it they'll be gone...
I am the tallest girl(13) in our grade... and i feel like no guys wanna go out with me because im taller then them i dunno what to do i am afraid to ask guys out because of rejection and i sometimes feel akward in school what should i do?
dont feel bad... everyone is different... if everyone was the same it would be a pretty boring world... give it a couple of years and those guys will catch up to u... and if u really like a guy ask him anyway.. if he says no its ok... theres a lotta guys out there..
i have this one friend... lets call her Liz.. Liz always used to come over my house, we always used to hang out.. there wasnt a day where we werent together.. cuz she lives rite down tha road.. but all of a sudden.. this summer.. she never comes over..she never calls.. n i never hear from her.. then i found out she was hangin w/ another girl that was a few years younger \than us.. I TOTALLY DONT MIND THAT but i mean i never see her any more.. the girl she hangs out with doesnt like me so i dont bother hangin out with them wen they r together.. but i feel like mah 2nd half has been torn away!
alwaiiz,
Ali
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Talk to her about it... and if she doesnt seem to do anything about or care... try to make new friends... sumtiimes people move on and u cant really do anything about it... dont feel sad about it either... cuz things will work out for u in the end... if things dont work out than its not that end... :)
I have been reall in love with this guy...it wasnt a crush it was really love...what should i do?
U cant be in love unless u know sum1... u cant love sum1 for thier looks... u can really like them but its not love...& u can have crushes that last for years im not sayin u arent in love im just pointing that out... talk to this guy let him know how u feel...