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what do i do?
there is this guy I know his name will be Fred okay so I sorta like Fred but today I was talking to him and he kept telling me how he wanted to go all the way with me but I have been telling him that Im not ready for that and the farthest I will go with him is making out but he won't leave it alone help me please
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Ok...it is time to ditch fred...if you dont want to go all the way and he is trying to pressure you then he probably isnt right for you. If you do wind up dating him and he pressures you to do something you dont want to do you will regret it.
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I think u should stop talkin to him... if he doesnt care... well than he doesnt really care about u and only wanted to use u... and if he does... tell him ur simply not ready and no means no...
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Ok, what u should do is this... i had the same problem with another guy, just tell him u have respect for urself and that ur not ready for that kinda commitment, and if he just blows u off cuz u wont give it to him, then u werent meant to be, but if he just says ok ill respect that then yall are meant to be, and that would be awesome if he did that! thats what the guy did that was askin me that, and he respected that i didnt wanna do it. hope i helped!!
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If he's not leaving it alone, he's not respecting you. He's not worth your time if he keeps doing that. Basically what he wants to do is take advantage of you. Find a guy that IS worth your time and that will respect you. Trust me. :] Good luck.
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just be like flat out.. i like u n all but pleaz stop it
xoxo
dezii
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Don't do something you don't want to do. No one can pressure you into doing something. When you're ready, then you'll know. Just tell him "I'm not ready to go all the way and if you like me that much then you can wait for me, I don't want to get used and I'm just not ready yet..." Just say something like that. He shouldn't pressure you into doing something you don't want to do and if he does, then he's not the right guy for you and you could do better. If you still need help, just post a message in my inbox, hope this helps!
xoxo Kourtney
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tell him u are not intertesed and he will be first to now when u are (lol not really haha)
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If you dont want to and arnt ready then dont let him convince you into doing it. Its ur desiosion..if you said no then no. Dont let anyone pressure you into something that you dont want to do. <333
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then i would just leave him alone!
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Well if he really likes you he would accept that..Like thats all ur ready for is making out. And if he cant accept it and he keeps bugging you then he obviously dosnt love/love you. Never let any1 pressure you into anything you arent ready for :)
-Chris
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Ugh.. pushy guys.... theRe's nothing woRse!! If you've told him once, and he keeps asking, that's complete disRespect! Do youRself a favoR and get out while you can!! Hope I helped!! I wish you the best!! =D
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