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i went out wit this kid a while ago and we really liked eachother , cept he went to a different school so we didnt see eachother that much or talk in that case, and after a couple months we just decided to wait till the summer to go out so we can do stuff with eachother. then a couple months later he started liking my best friend and the two of them hit it off behind my back. but ya now i dont kno if he likes her anymore and i take it the summer plans are off, but i still like him alot and miss him, should i give it up or wat? help! (link)
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I think if you want to see him you should ask him. Just say hey, summer's almost here are we gonna do something? If he doesn't want to then you can give up. But ask first so you know for sure.
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i just wanted to drop you one to tell you that you give sensational advice...and that you aren't a young grandma! i know 2 other grandmas that are the same age as you...what can i say? but agian, i really look up to you and love when i get advice from you!! (link)
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Thank you ! :) Glad to have helped!
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hi! My friend has been absent from school for 3 months and has been in the hospital, most likely with cancer. I really want to visit her and cheer her up...the problem is that I don't know what to say or what to get her as a get-well present. By the way, she isn't coming back to school...she's homeschooled. (link)
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You just talk to her about whatever you usually talk about. Ask her how she's feeling and whats wrong all that too, but mostly treat her as you always do. :)
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Since last night I have had a pain in my chest. It hurts just as and after I swallow, and whenever I take deep breaths. Sometimes I just feel the pain when I change posture or even move. It feels as though there is something there. The pain comes from right in the centre of my chest.
Does anybody have any idea what this could be?
If it helps I'm 14 and female!
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Probably a simple chest cold. If it keeps bothering you tell your mom so she can take you to the doc.
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A few days ago this guy (guy A I think...) called me and asked me out. I said yes and I knew he'd liked me for ages. But I haven't told that many people about me and this guy. But I have this male friend (Guy B!!) and his sister says he really likes me. I was at his house the other day and she was making jokes, so I very quietly told her about me and guy A and asked her to stop with the jokes. She was really shocked and kept saying "But 'B' really likes you!" and everything. Now she is accusing me of leading him on because I haven't told him about guy A. I don't want to lose any of their friendship, and I don't want to lose my boyfriend!
What should I do? (link)
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You go out with guy A. He asked first (especially since you already said yes). There's no law that says you have to go out with him again if you don't hit it off.
If guy B likes you as much as they say, he will go out with you after that. Guy B should have moved faster is all! You can't read his mind.His sister saying he likes you just isn't good enough because you might have waited forever for him to ask you out.
Hopefully your friends can understand that.
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what do u think about a 15 year old grl that likes a guy thats 13 goind on 14?
*needs honest oppinions* (link)
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I see nothing wrong with it at all. My husband is a year and a half youonger than myself :)
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Hey all! I have this really weird fetish. For some reaaon I really love to tickle people and I love to be tickled. Do this make me a freak or gay or anything? Im afraid to tell my friends because I dont want them to think im weird. Should I tell them? Thanks! (link)
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you'd be weird if you just went around tickling people at say the mall. No. people like diffrent things. You do need to make sure if someone doesn't like to be tickled that you stop. Then you would be annoying. I think you're okay.
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im like so worried u no evryone nows like you have to be naked when you do it.. but i hate my bodie. i dont want to have sex then evryone runs away!!!!! k i need help does anyone no of ways to have sex without being naked?!?!? sry if this is uncomforible but hey i cant ask my freinds. they'll think im a freak! k im so enbarressed so plz help! before i make a bigger fool of myself! (link)
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You don't have to be completely naked to have sex. So long as one thing fits into another. wear a really long shirt.
However if you don't already know this then maybe you're to young and should wait awhile.:)
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one of my friends has a really bad stomach ache on her right side of her stomach and she said it just comes and goes does anyone know what it is. (link)
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It would really depend on where on her right side. If it keeps bothering her she should tell her mom.
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okay i have a friend in argentina and her mom and dad got devorsed the other day and her and her mom and to move in to someone else's house becuase the dad is like going to jail becuase he is a really really really bad person!!! My friend is always sending me e-mail and seems really sad!!! How can i mak eher feel better i fell bad for her!!!!! I mean she does not have very many friends either and a lot of peole make fun of her!!!! How can i help her feel better at least a little better? THank you in advance!!! I rate high!!!!! :) (link)
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You just continue to be a very good friend. Let her talk to you. She needs to talk more than anything. It probably doesn't really matter what you say in return.She knows you care and that you are there. Thats the important thing.
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Hey, i'm a 15 year old black girl and at my high school if your a certain color, you are expected to like certain things and listen to a certain type of music.Well i'm not like that i listen to "other" music.And when i say other music i mean stuff liken green day and maroon5 and stuff like that.Also some of the stuff that my caucasion friends talk about i can identify with and some of the more preppy clothes they wear i like.i'm afraid to tell my friends this because i am afriad of their reactions.what should i do? (link)
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You should always be yourself no matter what.
Those who don't like you because of it were not that good of friends to begin with.Always march to your own drummer!
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Ok im sorry if it long but I just dont know what to do.
I met this girl (Sarah) she waas new in the beggning of the year. We turned out to be best friends. We did everytihng sleepovers, movies mall everything. All along there was this girl(Julie) who for some reason really badly wanted me to just leave so she could move in and take my spot as bff with Sarah. Ok so i ahd to miss school for 6 days right b4 april vacation. When i came back i saw SArah i nthe hall and expected a OMG YOUR BACK and stuff but she ignored me wehn i ran up to her to say hello. I was shocked!The hole week Sarah woyld leave Julies side. SArah would talk about hoe she hated the wa JUlies makep was and know she wearing it the same way. THat left me with no one, i eventually started to hang out with other people but still miss SArah as a friend ot talk to and hang around with. She not the same. I dont no what happend during those 6 days. Now about 2 or 3 months later whe ni tohught evrything would pass it didnt. I know it been a long time but i dont know.
Sorry its soo long
please any advice would be helpful! (link)
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I'd just continue to leave it alone. Maybe she will realize someday that she made a mistake. I hope so.
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My friend T (shes 14) lost her baby in feb.. and obviously she is really upset.. but i dont no how to comfort her and make her feel better.. cuz its not like i can be like everythings gonna be ok.. because its not gonna be.. and this entire week she was sick and today she got really sick in school and Couldn't move so they took her to the hospital.. and i feel bad for that.. How would I comfort her in These 2 situations
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Just be there for her to lean on. Tell her its not her fault.
I'm sure there is a lot of things going through her head right now. She's only 14. I'm sure there were times when she wished she wasn't pregnant. She may now feel like it's her fault that she lost the baby. Of course it isn't her fault but she may think so. Just be there for her
because she has a lot to get through.
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Ok...ive been seeing this guy for a couple of weeks and i love him with all my heart. Im only 14 but i know what love is. My mom said i cant see him that much. He lives about 30 min. away from me so i want to see him as much as possible. I walked out on her a few minutes ago and i dont intend to go home tonight. I dont really know what to do because she thinks im to young to be in love and i cant get her to understand that i really do love him. What should i do?? (link)
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Well you probably should have left the word love out of it. The thing is you are 14. You can't let this come between you and your mom. If he's the same age and he lives 30 minutes away, you probably won't see much of him anyway. So I think it will work out fine.
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Hey, I hope you can help.
I went shopping at the mall today and my mom dropped me and a friend off. She never told us when she was picking us up. Apparently, since there was the daylight saving time change, I had a terrible perception of what time it was. It turned out that my mom had said 5:30 sometime before we picked up my friend. I finally got her call at about 7:15 and she was furious. She says that I'm incompetent and can't be trusted, both of which are untrue. How can I regain my mom's trust? THanks!! (link)
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Wait until she calms down and then explain to her what happened. Everyone makes mistakes. She will listen better once she has calmed down.
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Ok I've been out with this lad 8 times, and he kept using me but then the 8th time i went out with him he sed he'd learnt his lesson but then i found out he fancied my best m8 and when he was with her he'd flrt with her and when he was with me he was really romantic we had our first snog then our second and it felt so good but then the next day i fell out with my best m8 and he dumps me over falling out with her and then they both ept being nasty to me and calling me nasty names and i end up geting really upset and then the teacher makes me apoliges to them when they've really upset me but I still madly in love with my ex and now I feel really depressed what should I do?? please help me i'll rate anyone who does 5 (link)
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I don't think your lad learned anything to be honest. I really think I'd leave them to each other and find someone new. Why put yourself through all that evertytime you turn around.
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i like this boy but he has a gf. He flirts with me all the time, more than he even talks to her. The girlfriend is also my friend so i wouldn't want to hurt her but he is so cute and funny. I'm attracted to him. He calls me hobbit because i am exactly a foot shorter than him. he's 6 ft and i'm 5 ft. Whenever we are talking and flirting we have fun but then his gf comes along and he stops. Once we had this chatroom thing with me, him, and his gf (i'm friends with tho) and it was one of the most awkward thing for me. I don't know...it was fun and we were alltalking but at one point it was all me and him and it was so nice. Please help-i can't tell him that i like him tho cuz he does have a gf and she will get mad at me and not be my friend even tho she suspects and it and all her other friends do too (link)
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If they all know (or suspect) how you feel, he probably does too. Just continue the friendship. If you both want more later then deal with it then. But, I think he probably knows how you feel. Let him approach you.
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A friend of mine started to like me a while ago. We have been friends since about 2nd,3rd grade. He has gone with my ex-bestfriend 4 times but they aren't together anymore and she has a new man anyway. But the other problem is that he is best friends with my ex-boyfriend (who goes with my ex-best friend). I like him back and we flirt non-stop but what if it doens't work? I think me and him are good friends but we are always playing and making sexual passes at each other. I feel bad and down when I don't see him and I accept him as he is (cute, tall and kinda smart), but his friends an I all have some sort of history. What to do, his friends are all giving us the look and I don't wanna risk their friendship. Should we stay flirty friends or go for it? We are both 15 and close will this affect us if we go for it and it doesn't work out? (link)
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It shouldn't affect anything so long as you make an agreement right up front that you'll try it and if it doesn't work for either of you...no hard feelings.
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I don't know what to do because my friend and I have been friends for the whole school year and we have been talking a lot. I'm not sure if I like him...but lately I have been feeling like I do...you know..one of those things where it's on and off...what do I do? (link)
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Just stay friends. Nothing wrong with that.
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ok i like this guy in my high school he is super cute and got a super nice body but the thing is i dont even konw that im exist im 10th grade and he is 12th grade i want him to like me but i dont konw what to do also i dont want my friend or other ppl to konw that i want to be with him
ps: he got alot girl around him (link)
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Just be yourself. Try to have conversations with him. Just get in there and be seen and heard. I don't mean be loud, just talk to him!
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